Psychological problems 2023, March
Obsessive negative thoughts cannot be controlled. Their source is unknown. They completely capture a person, depriving him of life energy, the opportunity to be in the moment and feel joy. Thoughts are constantly spinning in my head - meaningless, suicidal, alarming, returning to unpleasant moments in the past. Unanswered questions and no chance to end this torture. They cause headaches, prevent sleep at night, and lead to nervous breakdowns
Endless rehearsal of life, or How powerless we are before fate Have you ever felt that you are living half-heartedly? As if being in constant expectation of a favorable coincidence of circumstances, the feeling of finding the right moment, every day putting off something important for later. We live our life, taking it as a rough draft. While rehearsing the upcoming premiere of the future, we seem to skip the present. Every day we seem to compromise with ourselves, along the way convincing
The universe is noisy and asks for beauty, The seas are screaming, splashed with foam, But on the hills of the earth, in the cemeteries of the universe Only the chosen ones shine flowers. Am I just me? I am only a brief moment of Alien existence. Right God, Why did you create the world, both sweet and bloody, And gave me a mind so that I could comprehend it
Fate is a very convenient word for those who never make decisions
No one can stop the power of desire coming straight from the heart
Apathy is a pain reliever for the soul. When a person wants something for a long time, but cannot get what he wants, he feels bad. My Soul Hurts. And the longer the desire remains unfulfilled, the stronger the pain. The person gets upset, angry, despairing. To save him from torment and from committing stupid things out of anger, a protective mechanism is activated in the psyche - apathy. Desires are reduced: I want nothing, nothing interesting
The best will be those who embrace the world wider with their hearts, who will love it deeper … Maxim Gorky wrote his novel "Mother" in 1907. What is he talking about? About the beginning of the revolutionary movement and the life of the working class? About the mother of a revolutionary or something else?
Chilly autumn air hangs coldly, inexorably falling on the shoulders with the weight of being
The herd wakes up and reaches out to places of earning money. Enterprises, offices, trading floors and social and cultural facilities are filled with a living human mass. She needs to make an exchange: her energy for a certain amount of money on the account, then these funds - for food, clothing, comfort and pleasure in order to replenish the energy that needs to be spent again. Ouroboros serpent devouring itself
You know that you can "spoil" any stomach and bring to a breakdown the ideal digestive system, formed over millions of years. To do this, it is enough to eat poor-quality food, at the wrong time and experience negative emotions while eating. True, there are stomachs that can "digest nails." And there are people who, for no reason, with an ideal diet, have digestive disorders, such as diarrhea. Observant people associate their condition with anxiety and notice that
In the process of studying vectors, we naturally approach the questions - how do they all fit together in me? How do they influence each other? And how can I get along with this diversity? In general, a person is characterized by typical manifestations of each of the vectors available to him. But there are features of their combination with each other
I would like to never be wrong. Never in anything. Therefore, we try to live according to our conscience, we try to do any job well. But still we put a blot on a snow-white sheet. And this blot attracts all the attention, even when the text is written in perfect calligraphic handwriting. And if the paper can be replaced with a new one, then how to rewrite the sheet of our life?
For the umpteenth time I hear in my address the irritated “leave me alone!”, “Go away!”, “Don’t climb!”… And these words are like nails being driven into my heart. They drive me away, they brush me aside, they don't want to see me … And I continue to climb like a fly into a jar of jam. I wish you get bogged down in it and never leave
What is happening in Belarus? The same is happening in Russia today: the crystal dream of the new young generation is drained into the toilet
I. It seems that my self still exists. I wake up here in my room on my bed. The eyes don't want to open. When I open them, I will find myself in this lousy world again. I do not want. This is depresia
It would seem that today's man has something to despair of: again Khatyn, again Adolphs! .. Again they find gullible, all forgetting simpletons, find short-sighted, find cruel - again they found dry brushwood for a creeping fire
"Stress!!! Do you know how many people die from stress ?! I declare war! Stress is a disease! And I am her healer! " - if you have not seen this episode from the comedy series "IT people", I recommend it. Especially if you're under stress. This will relax you and prepare you to read this article. Because stress - whether psychological stress or physical stress - is not funny. Dealing with stress isn't easy
The desire to die does not come immediately. It accumulates as the wall thickens around me. Behind her, faces flash, people float who are indifferent to me and who are indifferent to me. And inside - there is nothing but the thought of suicide and a bubbling abyss, spewing out the same question "what's the point?" This unbearable pain is a psychologist, a friend or loved one will never understand it. And there comes a moment when I think of only one thing: "how quickly you can die"
I was sayin 'let me outta here before I was even born, It's such a gamble when you get a face, It's fascinatin' to observe what the mirror does, But when I dine it's for the wall that I set a place. I belong to the blank generation, And I can take it or leave it each time
Does the story make sense? Can we talk about its direction? What is the connection in the history of the private and the collective? What are the forces driving the historical process? The questions of the fate of mankind are known for their enduring relevance; these are always questions of meaning in life. They are universal, as well as personal at the same time. Is it possible to understand the meaning of life in isolation from this life itself?
If not for Systemic Vector Psychology, not Yuri Burlan, I would not have been in the world already in April 2016. A handful of pills were ready. But I was not sure that it would kill me completely. Therefore, I went to the Internet for the last time to look for a safer way to commit suicide. And since I am wildly afraid of pain, I just wanted to sleep. And I could not find a painless way … It's September now, and my birthday is twenty-eighth, and I live on
Intimacy to offer! Today, as never before, we have complete freedom in choosing the type of relationship. The flight of our thoughts in the realization of sexual fantasies is practically limited by nothing. The main thing is that everything we do is carried out by mutual consent and does not cause inconvenience to third parties
Training for women "how to become a bitch": lesson one As I chew on the tip of a pen, I look at the white board in front of me. A fly has flown into the audience and is now annoyingly spinning circles around our little female team. Everyone is focused: pens in hands, notebooks on the table. We expect. - I am a Woman, and, therefore, I am an Actress, I have a hundred faces and a thousand roles
Corporal punishment has been around for thousands of years
Swing, swinging, eschange are the names of the same concept, which is characterized as a voluntary exchange of partners between couples. This movement arose in the 60s in the United States against the background of the so-called sexual revolution and gradually gained popularity beyond its borders. Today swing is in demand not only in the countries of the Western world, but also in Russia, although, undoubtedly, there it has a much worse level of organization
Mystery of the Millennium For hundreds and even thousands of years, the great minds of mankind - psychologists, doctors, writers and philosophers - have been exploring one of the most important and still not fully understood spheres of human life - the relationship between a man and a woman
Madam … - whined a balding man in glasses, crawling up to the girl, - can I kiss your leg? - A dry nod heralded the start of the BDSM game. Rejoicing like a child, he clung to the toe of his black patent-leather shoes. The man covered him with kisses, gradually rising to the lower leg, but was stopped by the whistle of a snapping whip
In childhood, a child with a sound vector can manifest himself in different ways. He can be silent, loving silence, as if immersed in his thoughts, for a long time not to start talking. Or, on the contrary, to speak first among peers and immediately communicate in an adult way, quickly memorizing new words. The exact vector set of the child is easier to determine when he is a little older
Reality is a refuge for those who are afraid of drugs. Lily Tomlin
Today, while surfing the Internet, I came across an article on positive thinking on a psychological site. Reading it, I could not believe that I had once been seriously involved in this: diligently memorizing various affirmations, I believed that my life was about to change for the better … "If you cannot change the situation, change your attitude towards it." - the slogan "positive thinking" sounded so tempting, promising a new life through self-hypnosis of positive thoughts
Recently we considered an unrealized anal vector, now the soul requires positive. It is much more pleasant to watch mentally healthy, realized people. For people who were able to sublimate their nature-given qualities in our complex society, that is, to realize them in such a way as to contribute to the development of this society
Mass terrorist attacks always mean numerous victims, blood, death, fear and grief. The survivors will need long-term work with psychologists to forget this horror. Those sitting at the TV do not believe what is happening. Who is doing this and why? These suicide bombers, who are they all crazy? Why do you need to kill innocent people, women, children ?! WHAT drives these people?
In our life, we are faced with a huge number of different people and destinies. Often we are completely unaware of and do not understand what kind of person is in front of us and what is hidden behind a seemingly harmless and slightly ridiculous behavior. At Yuri Burlan's training "System-Vector Psychology", such a concept as "a good boy's complex" is revealed. Yes, yes, you probably already guess what will be discussed. This is the same "mama's boy" - an image well known to many
If you at least once in your life were seriously offended by someone, then this text is for you
Runet pogroms. Freedom of speech for the lumpen of the network Let's take a look at the two-dimensional sound-visual plane of the Runet. Here you can easily not only download any information, but also express your painful IMHO, without fear of punishment or at least public censure