BDSM is a new fantasy in a society of sexual consumption. Role exchange between man and woman
Dominatrix offices and BDSM games are not accepted in our society due to our special mentality, but they are fully approved by the Western society, where many businessmen of large companies use such services.
- Madam … - whined a balding man in glasses, crawling to the girl, - can I kiss your foot? - A dry nod heralded the start of the BDSM game.
Rejoicing like a child, he clung to the toe of his black patent-leather shoes. The man covered him with kisses, gradually rising to the lower leg, but was stopped by the whistle of a snapping whip.
- Oh, excuse me, lady! Sorry! - the bespectacled man crawled back a little, obsequiously looking at his long legs and black stockings in a large netting, not daring to raise his gaze higher. His face was flushed and sweat trickled down it in large drops. With one movement of a shaking hand, he loosened his office tie, holding back his rapid breathing.
Despite the fact that his appearance was rather shabby: until recently, a snow-white shirt from Hugo Boss turned into a crumpled piece of cotton fabric in grayish and yellowish spots, chic trousers from Armani were covered with a layer of dust, the pile rolled up, disfiguring the perfect cut, and even his main pride - the $ 316,000 Girard-Perregaux OperThree watch has now lost its silvery tint - his face shone with frank happiness.
In the meantime, the girl got up, and the bespectacled man was able to take a good look at her: silk blonde hair fell in curls on her shoulders, undoubtedly, a black lace mask covered her beautiful face, creating a contrast with bright scarlet lipstick. The chiseled figure was dressed in a kind of black latex dress, so short that it could not cover the lace garters that held the stockings. Lying on the floor, he could clearly see the little black panties that barely covered anything, and this was also part of the BDSM game.
Every time he wanted to fall on his knees in front of her, so that her foot would step on him, and praise her beauty. The Dominatrix measured him with a hard look, from which he immediately realized his insignificance. Her sharp hairpins slid across the floor. She approached the counter with "working tools": there were several varieties of lashes, different thicknesses, different materials and even different colors. Nearby hung an equally diverse selection of handcuffs: it all looked intimidating, however, the man knew perfectly well that no one here would hurt him. The lashes are made of a very soft material, and the inner side of the handcuffs is covered with fur, which does not leave marks on the skin and does not cause discomfort.
People didn't come here for the physical sensations that BDSM games of a different kind delivered. Here they wanted to be humiliated, trampled into the mud. They wanted to obey this beautiful dominatrix who knew exactly what each of her clients wanted. The bespectacled man sometimes even thought that she was reading his thoughts: as if she were making all his dreams come true.
Since the time his company entered the big market and developed rapidly, he came here more often, becoming more and more interested in BDSM games. Friends said that such a pastime perfectly relieves stress, and he could not disagree with them. Indeed, you come here after a hard day at work and, finally, you don’t have to think for others what to do. These subordinates are such idiots. One and all! The bespectacled man was a very strict boss: his company had a strict charter, he mercilessly fined and fired all violators of discipline. Largely due to this and his organizational talent, his firm flourished in the market.
At the end of the BDSM game, he always left a generous (in his opinion) tip - after all, this doll was so good. The previous ones quickly bored him, because they acted according to the same scenario. Maria, on the other hand, was distinguished by an unprecedented scope of imagination. Every day, coming to work, the bespectacled man wondered how she would surprise him this evening and was looking forward to a new meeting.
BDSM games dominatrix: rules
BDSM games (from the English Bondage & Discipline - bondage and discipline, Domination & Submission - domination and submission and Sadism & Masochism - sadism and masochism) always include forms of sexual relations and role-playing games based on domination and submission. BDSM games do not necessarily contain physical stimuli or even direct sexual contact, but are always aimed at obtaining mental pleasure from a particular role. Participants of a BDSM game discuss in advance the rules, the degree of impact, infliction of pain or psychological humiliation and have the right to stop the game at any time.
The BDSM game necessarily includes classic attributes such as leather clothes with decorative elements made of steel (spikes, for example), latex costumes, collars, handcuffs, masks, etc. The dominant partner is usually called respectfully: Master, Master, Master (if it is a man), and Mistress (if it is a woman).
The meaning and reasons for this phenomenon are explained by system-vector psychology.
The very idea of bondage, discipline and education refers to the skin vector, and all attributes are directly related to the initiation of the erogenous zone - the skin. Only skinners experience pleasure and the need for limitations - whether it be a limitation of space or a limitation in time. The hierarchy system is also built and invented by the skinners. The senior in rank must be treated respectfully - so as to emphasize his high status.
Returning to our history, I foresee: a strange hobby of a perverted uncle, you might think. Let me tell you right away: not at all strange and not at all perverse in his case. After all, this is not about sex for money or masochistic tendencies. Dominatrix offices and BDSM games are not accepted in our society due to our special mentality, but they are fully approved by Western society, where many businessmen of large companies use such services.
The bespectacled man, like most senior officials, is a person with a skin vector. By nature, these have a flexible mind and a pragmatic psyche. With the proper development of the properties of the skin person before puberty, he is able to obey and subordinate, lead, discipline and organize. Start as an errand boy and coffee peddler and grow to co-founder, partner, president.
A developed dermal person carries a great desire to save and limit. Hence the rigid laws and bylaws of firms designed to discipline employees.
The dermal person has a special type of sexuality due to low libido. He raises his attractiveness to females due to property and social superiority over other males, but at the same time he quickly gets tired of monotony. A constant change of impressions is what a skin man needs in bed.
BDSM games offer tremendous opportunities for the skin person.
First, by nature, the dermal man is born to be number two. Yes, he always strives for superiority, but he feels much more comfortable, obeying and subordinating at the same time, that is, being the middle link in the company. As a boss, he is stressful. Unable to fully realize the desire for submission, he relieves this tension through BDSM games of domination and submission in the offices of the dominatrix.
This can be avoided if the skin man comes home and obeys his wife. She can also try on the outfit of a dominatrix, which diversifies their sex life.
Secondly, there are many varieties of BDSM games, among which bondage is not the last. A developed skin will feel pleasure from such a restriction of his movements and painless touching of his skin - the erogenous zone.
But the greatest pleasure and even benefit from BDSM games can be received by skin people with an injured skin vector. The masochistic scenario of such a skinner will push him to subconscious actions that will lead to total collapse in his life. In addition, they enjoy beating, beating, in general, all kinds of negative effects on the erogenous zone.
BDSM Games: Hit Me Harder
Alina had been hanging for an hour. The ropes dug painfully into the body, leaving red cuts on the skin. She liked this state, she liked this pain, and she was looking forward to Igor's return. He could hang her up in this way and go to the store for bread. He knew that she liked to hang like that for some time, and there was no need for his constant presence.
Alina met Igor at a forum dedicated to BDSM games in the BDSM section, and immediately realized that this was her man. Even before meeting him in real life, she knew that Igor was able to give her real pleasure. And on the first date, he immediately met her expectations.
He knew how to mock and did it subtly, with special cruelty and an admixture of verbal abuse, and with him she was finally able to realize all her sexual fantasies. One of Igor's favorite BDSM scenarios was asphyxiation (sexual asphyxia). He took a stranglehold and choked her little by little during sex. Alina really liked this occupation, however, sometimes it seemed to her that a little more, he would break loose and strangle her.
During their family life, she still got to the hospital a couple of times, but Igor knew when to stop. They even signed up for a BDSM fan club and often went there to exchange experiences and accessories.
Since they began to live together, Alina's life has improved dramatically and she was almost happy. Alina was able to graduate from the university and find a decent job. The only thing she lacked was money. Igor worked as a gasman, but such people get little. In addition, he was not very quick and categorically refused to steal, as did the other gas guys.
He was going to look for another job all the time, but it didn't go beyond words.
BDSM games: dangerous and essential for life
Alina and Igor found each other in the truest sense of the word. She is a battered skin girl with a masochistic script for failure. Nothing in human life is accidental, and masochism is no exception. Alina was mercilessly pounded in childhood on her erogenous zone - the skin and she felt this pain like no one else. Therefore, the body naturally rebuilt itself to receive pleasure from the pain, and then she herself provoked another spanking. Later this grew into a desire to practice BDSM games.
Our unconscious desires somehow make themselves felt, so if the scenario for masochism is not realized in bed, for example, through a BDSM game, then the broken leatherman will literally be chased by failure. Either he gets hit by a car, then he gets fired from his job, the bag gets stolen and so on ad infinitum. This is not a simple coincidence, because the masochist will unconsciously provoke them: crossing the road at a red light on a busy highway, not doing his job, visiting areas notorious for their criminal nature, etc.
In this case, transferring the failure scenario to bed with the help of a BDSM game is salvation for such a skinner. Having received his portion of humiliation and physical pain in sexual relations, he will no longer feel the need for them and provoke situations where he will be a victim.
The masochist is always looking for and finding his sadist - a man with an anal vector. Rather, they find each other. Igor's anal vector is undeveloped and before meeting Alina was in a state of sexual and social frustration. Such can be extremely dangerous for society, but Igor found his "outlet".
It must be understood that the relationship between a sadist and a masochist is fundamentally different from those relationships where the husband simply beats his wife. After all, here he does it with her consent, and this is another, higher level of relations. BDSM is their joint games under a contract, where everyone gets pleasure. The anal husband even takes care of his wife: he helps around the house, makes sure that she does not get tired and does not overwork.
A woman's neck is a special sexually attractive place for men, and it has its own meaning for anal sex. A lot in the anal vector is associated with the compression of the sphincter, so they often kill women precisely through strangulation. Frustrated anal sexes are tempted to practice sexual asphyxiation in BDSM games. His partner-masochist himself asks, provokes him to this, because at these moments he experiences his most vivid orgasm. This practice can end in disaster. In real life it looks something like this: she asked and asked, but he did not calculate and strangled, but he wanted to do the best!
It is not uncommon for a sadist to cross the line and kill his partner. It depends on the depth of his frustrations, the presence or absence of any other compensation for his desires, on the temperament, the presence of other vectors and on how much the masochist provokes him.
Couples in a sado-masochistic bond and practicing BDSM games can live like this all their lives and be quite happy and normal. In general, BDMS games with the mutual consent of partners are a way out of the situation, because they help such people to realize their inclinations, without taking them out into society.
