Sex in the square, threesome, or why do we need this sex?
Having received an unprecedented freedom of choice with the skin phase, we briskly rushed to search in relationship options. Only the search for what, they themselves did not fully understand: either new sensations, or ideal partners, or satisfying sexual hunger, or relieving another tension through sex.
Intimacy to offer!
Today, as never before, we have complete freedom in choosing the type of relationship. The flight of our thoughts in the realization of sexual fantasies is practically limited by nothing. The main thing is that everything we do is carried out by mutual consent and does not cause inconvenience to third parties.
Having received an unprecedented freedom of choice with the skin phase, we briskly rushed in search. Only the search for what, they themselves did not fully understand: either new sensations, or ideal partners, or satisfying sexual hunger, or relieving another tension through sex.
The forbidden fruit was always sweet, so many people immediately wanted to taste the "exotic strawberry". The two-plus relationship options, swingers, exchange partners, free marriages made sex less intimate than a joint candlelight dinner.
That this is a fall in morals or a relationship free from convention?
Are all sexual fantasies worth pursuing?
Is intimacy in relationships a relic of the past or is it “something” that we now lack?
Intimacy and relationship with him
Intimacy cannot be touched, seen, heard, felt by our senses, recorded with the most complex devices, but this is what remains between the two when they are together and when they are only together.
This is the elusive thing that makes their world so huge and so tiny at the same time, this is what unites them so much that the two become one, like two halves, merging, turn into a single organism, when the “I” is lost, leaving only “we.
Do we need it? Is it worth the effort? For what?
The Internet is replete with explicit movie scenes, home videos, freely available pornography, and even the most unimaginable options for the development of bed events. It would seem that after that we can see new things in life? Why not try, experiment on such a sensitive topic, because it is now fashionable and has become almost the norm of our time?
Sex and skin
The dermal phase of development puts all the qualities of the dermal vector at the forefront for the whole society. Speed, flexibility, high adaptability, efficiency, rational approach to everything, logic, pragmatism.
The erogenous zone of the representative of the cutaneous vector is the skin, therefore the range of caresses varies from the most delicate touches to painful sensations, up to masochism.
It is leatherworkers who like to talk about the differentiation of the concepts of "sex" and "love", to use sexual relations as a means of achieving a goal, to justify betrayal by "production necessity" and the like.
The greatest pleasure for the skin vector is property and social superiority, and several sexual partners for many skin workers serve as a kind of proof of solvency and success.
Skin market relations in all spheres also penetrate into the intimate life of partners, manifesting themselves in marriage contracts, which even stipulate the frequency of sexual intercourse. The consumer nature of sexual relations is becoming more and more acceptable, which turns sex into a commodity for sale and purchase along with other services.
The institution of marriage, family traditions, the priority of virginity, love to the grave and other values of the past anal phase of human development are leaving, losing their former significance in society and thereby causing indignation, indignation, and ardent resistance of all representatives of the anal vector.
Is this good or is it bad?
Whatever we call it, it is happening, it is happening now and is happening to us, it is a change. The world is changing, we are changing, everything around is changing, including the forms of relations between a man and a woman. Search in progress. Among the dizzying wealth of choice, we get lost, not finding what could satisfy us, because we are still trying to base our choice on the principle of animal attraction, while our mental is much more than what only the human body requires.
The rapid cutaneous phase of development is designed to finally take away from us the opportunity to enjoy only animal unity: through sexual permissiveness we lose the intimacy of relationships, which means that we gradually cease to feel the very taste of sexual intimacy, we are satiated with it and turn further in search of something more. What we are looking for is much higher than natural instincts, it is much more animal attraction for procreation, it is deeper than physical contact of two bodies.
Already today we are increasingly losing interest in a partner with whom only sex connects us. Animal attraction keeps us together for no more than three years, and skin or skin-visual ones are even less. Our focus is shifting. The emphasis of relationships is gradually shifting to creating an emotional connection with a partner, intellectual unity, and in the future we will have a community of an even higher order. This is the moment when spiritual fusion continues physically, and not vice versa, and realizes itself in a relationship of a different kind, a relationship that is initially intimate, extremely intimate, much more intimate than just sex.
Psychological progress
Change is inevitable. No matter how we feel about them, they are already happening. Any attempts to deny this and live "in the old way" look at least like infantilism. It will not work from God to hide under the table.
Awareness of your psychological essence by realizing your desires, your way of thinking, your needs and priorities gives you a unique tool, gives you freedom and outlines the direction for movement, for growing above yourself, for filling your own life with pleasure.
System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan explains the processes that occur in modern society, in a family, in a couple, within an individual, illuminating the darkest and sometimes unsightly corners of both our society and our soul. By understanding and taking into account all the mechanisms of psychological processes, we are able to independently find a way out of the current situation and make a choice of the path that we not only follow, but also want to go on ourselves.
Very often, at first glance, a dead-end relationship in the light of Yuri Burlan's knowledge of system-vector psychology gains a new life, and previously unsolvable problems go away by themselves, simply disappearing as unnecessary. Misunderstanding in the field of intimate relationships disappears completely after realizing the true psychological qualities of a partner, allowing you to express yourself and give your partner exactly what he (she) expects from you in an intimate sense.
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