Practical psychology 2024, May

It is getting warmer on the street, the skirts are getting shorter, but the soul is getting worse. I wanted to meet a girl, she answered: "I have business!" I know you! The life's work of such vertikhvostok is to bring men to white heat. Well, it's good that it won't affect me. Yes, only bad. Something important is missing in life. Real, big and clean. And where to get it, if for girls now bright feelings have no value?

Throughout the history of mankind, with the exception, perhaps, of the last 100+ years, the woman was a being powerless in the family and social sense. Her place was in the house, with her husband. Her task was to give birth and raise children. This was the main meaning of her life. There was no question of any woman's sexuality. Moreover, the first women who began to experience orgasm were diagnosed with hysteria, or rabies of the uterus

The peak of bad luck is when black cats make way for you

What if the thought of an approaching romantic night is not at all happy? I hate the touch of my husband, the kisses. The desire for intimacy has simply disappeared. When did it happen? Almost immediately after the baby is born. Can it really be connected with the appearance of the baby? Is it a hormonal imbalance or some kind of physiological problem with a clever medical name that young moms have?

How long has a man wanted you? Didn't you invite me to a cafe with a sad face for an hour, but passionately sought your attention and timidly invited you on a date? He didn’t imposingly throw a few words, glancing at his watch every now and then, but caught every look and intonation, trying to figure out your feelings and secretly afraid of being rejected

The Snow Queen Thoughtful and soulful, silent and often detached, she does not suffer too much from the lack of sex, she rarely takes the initiative and does not seek to seduce a man

Buy this pill and increase your organ tenfold! You can also do exercises according to a special system, for which you also need to pay. If this does not help, you can listen to the "masters" and start convincing yourself that it is not size that matters, but special secret techniques in bed. So we will go around without result, trying to change the external form and behavior. Nothing will change until you understand the real laws of attraction between a man and a woman, the reasons for oud

The topic of impotence is so delicate that it is embarrassing for men to discuss it not only with their own wife, but even with a doctor. After all, stereotypes of society instruct the stronger sex to solve their problems on their own. Meanwhile, impotence deprives a man's life of fullness and joy

Well, how, how to do it, how to drive a man crazy in bed? We are so sure that to impress a man in bed is to win him in principle - now everything, he's mine! Well, indeed, it is not because of reading Brodsky by heart that he goes crazy! No, we understand something in life (read - peasants), we cannot be fooled by these images of Turgenev young ladies - all attention is on the bed

The apartment is tastefully furnished with subdued lights

The first of all freedoms is the ability to say no Pascal Brueckner, "Divine Child" What is a woman's sexual freedom? This is far from what our grandmothers called "frivolity." Whatever epithet is combined with freedom - economic, psychological, religious, sexual - is part of personal freedom. A woman's sexual freedom lies in the right to choose her sexual partners herself, to plan the birth of children and to say “no” when a man's desire does not coincide with her mood

She had many men. Do not count. She herself had already forgotten how much, because it doesn't matter at all. She is called a dissolute, depraved girl. No, she is not a representative of an ancient profession. She is quite an ordinary young woman, only "promiscuous" in intimate relationships with the opposite sex. Many of these girls are thin and intelligent. For example, students and graduates of philological faculties

Books about lofty and unattainable feelings, piercing stories about fiery meetings, insoluble contradictions, partings give rise to a huge emotional outburst in your impressionable heart. When you read, you really want to be inside, to feel in the place of the main character in the full volume of all the feelings she experiences

Man is not an island, but each, as a whole, is a fragment of a continent, a part of space. John Donne Imagine a situation - you need to find something. You don't know what, but you know what is needed. How will it look like? You will search everything around in search of the right object, focusing on your inner flair. And now the opposite situation: imagine that you are digging everywhere. What are you doing? Maybe you are looking for something?

What could be more beautiful than love? Any woman dreams of loving and being the most beloved for someone. Unfortunately, not always a perfectly imagined picture turns into reality. Sometimes the images of our past become an obstacle to happiness, sometimes forgotten, but invariably influencing our life. How to deal with inner demons and let love into your life?

You wonder why your relationship with girls does not last long, two or three months. Then parting and a new acquaintance, which also ends in two or three months. None of them, not a single relationship can bring you satisfaction for a long time. Looking at the people around you, happily living in pairs, you start to think, what is wrong with you?

Some are convinced that during orgasm, a person feels like God at the moment of creating his Creation. I would like to believe it only because no experience gives such a strong pleasure as the experience of orgasm. And what if there is no orgasm and, perhaps, never happened? There is no one to talk about this - the topic is too intimate. I would like to say that now you are in the right place, here you can express not only all your questions and doubts, but also get answers to them

Everything that was, everything that ached, everything has long since floated away, Were worn out by the caress of the lips, and the soul was pleased. Everything that sang, everything that melted, everything decayed a long time ago … Only you, my guitar, are good with the same ringing. From the repertoire of P. Leshchenko

Empty … so empty inside that it seems a little more, and there will be no strength left to participate in this life. No strength to answer calls, wake up in the morning … Why? Does this change anything? Why does no one but me notice this emptiness? Why do others willingly participate in this puppet theater, where every action is known in advance? So tired of meaningless existence. It is stupid to eat, sleep, go to work … What's the point?

There is no obvious reason for suspicion, but you still suffer from jealousy

A stormy showdown with mutual accusations - “you don’t love me! .. and you don’t understand me! .. you… and you…” Transition to insults when arguments run out. Everything inside is raging with indignation - it is already shaking! Then a sharp decline - fizzled out. Tears, embrace of reconciliation, timid kisses. And then sex is at the limit of feelings, frantic, obsessed, like the last breath of life

There are women who fall in love exclusively with chronic losers, assholes and even criminals. Just some kind of delusion. In fact - no magic, just psychological trauma distorted the life scenario. It's good that the situation can be corrected

Love, of course, is heaven, but the Garden of Eden Often jealousy turns into hell

I have a husband, but sometimes I want to forget about it. This is not at all the relationship I wanted. They lack flight, romance, eye-to-eye contact. You know, that feeling that flares up suddenly, and it seems that the person is all yours through and through, so dear, so beloved and desired. With whom it will be like in a fairy tale! And you know I'm still waiting for it

You know that you are a wonderful wife - faithful, devoted, loving. Of course, not a stay-at-home and not a recluse, you have time everywhere - both at work and at home. But you have always felt that the most important thing in your life is your family, husband, children. Therefore, outbursts of jealousy in your husband resent you to the core. “Who to be jealous of? You exclaim. - And most importantly - why, if the whole meaning of my life is in the family? I never give a reason! "

Every woman in the depths of her soul dreams of hearing the cherished words: "Marry me." She dreams of dreaming, only the surrounding men are in no hurry to make marriage proposals. And she can't come to a final decision - whom should she choose. How do you know if you are ready for a serious relationship? And what is it anyway?

How to deal with parting with someone you love with all your heart? Unbearable longing and pain. Tears flow like rivers, they cannot be stopped. And sometimes the pain becomes a tight lump in the throat - and does not allow a single tear to be shed. And this makes it even worse - even like a wolf howl. What to do, how to get out of this state?

The dreary story of a young woman without dowry, forced to marry an elderly wealthy man, has been replaced by the fashionable trend of being a young muse for an experienced gentleman. Today we see not the extinguished gaze of the bride in the famous painting, but the proudly raised faces of the beauties accompanying their famous elderly husbands along the red carpet to receive the next creative or scientific award

When you committed suicide - I buried my heart … If a person dear to us has chosen to end his own life, for a long time we are tormented by painful questions: “Could I have done something to prevent this? Why was I not there at a critical moment? Per

"You do not love me!" "How wrong I was in you!" "You do not care!" "How I hate you!" Everything happens according to the usual scenario, but always unexpected for me. It literally explodes out of the blue. Just now she was humming something so sweetly under her breath, and now there was a cry, tears, her face was red. Insults fly in the face, one more painful than the other, children's toys, clothes, dishes. Everything that comes to hand

How to stop being jealous: recommendations of a systems psychologist I always start to get jealous when I think that the other can "surpass" me and run across my path. I really am ready to fight for my own, it's true. Later I already understand how much nonsense I said, but at the moment when I “cover” with feelings - I just can't do anything, I am carried. In

Often on television, the Fashion Sentence show features stories of men complaining about their wives. The main complaint of the stronger sex is that after the birth of a child, a woman stops caring for herself, turning from a desired lover into an eternally disheveled unattractive woman with a dejected look and bruises under her eyes

Your life can be compared to the famous TV show "Fort Boyard". The same quest with a great many incredible obstacles in the hope of getting the coveted prize. Another trophy obtained is food for an eternally hungry ego, consolation for personal ambitions and a nail in the construction of the century called "My independence and independence"

Well, the man has gone today - no! The man was crushing … Often a woman has to carry everything on herself. And the farm on it, and the money itself is in the house. And what about the husband? The husband lies on the couch all day. If only I could take out the trash! Well, why is he, one wonders, needed this? So, what to do with it now? When I married him, I didn’t see that he was like that … And why should I get such a punishment ?! Well, did I dream of such a life?

Do you remember how it all started? No, not at the moment when you suddenly felt a strange longing deep inside, catching His long thoughtful look on you

Fyodor Dostoevsky and Anna Snitkina, Karl Marx and Jenny von Westfalen, Winston Churchill and Clementine Hozier, Adriano Celentano and Claudia Mori, Sigmund Freud and Martha Bernays, Salvador Dali and Elena Dyakonova (Gala), John Lennon and Yami Ono are behind these names

If it were not for the offense at my husband, this understanding would never have come to me

I have a good husband: reliable, hard-working, devoted to his family

You disappear

Mutual interest has extinguished between you and you are increasingly wondering what keeps you next to this man? Previously, so active, now he increasingly prefers to spend time on the couch or at the computer, you will not be asked to do something