Sexual freedom of women: the right to say "no" and not only
Today, the law in developed industrial countries protects a woman's right to say no to her husband. If earlier the concept of "rape" had practically no legal force for partners in a registered marriage, now legal husbands must be sure of their wife's consent to sex if they do not want to be on the dock. In theory, in a little over a hundred years, a woman from a disenfranchised slave turned into an equal partner with a man in all spheres of life. What explains this evolutionary breakthrough?
The first of all freedoms is the ability to say no
Pascal Brueckner, "Divine Child"
What is a woman's sexual freedom? This is far from what our grandmothers called "frivolity." Whatever epithet is combined with freedom - economic, psychological, religious, sexual - is part of personal freedom. A woman's sexual freedom lies in the right to choose her sexual partners herself, to plan the birth of children and to say “no” when a man's desire does not match her mood.
The first trials have already thundered, in which men fell under the definition of a sexual aggressor because they did not take seriously the "no" he said. In Canada, a high-profile trial continues against Gian Gomesi, a popular journalist who was demoted from TV and radio hosts by the CBC Corporation for his behavior and accused of sexual assault. Being a lover of hard sex, he did not bother to get a clear consent from his partners. According to him, the ladies did not protest loudly, which he regarded as consenting to sex in accordance with his inclinations.
In the XXI century, marriage legislation is also changing. Today, the law in developed industrial countries protects a woman's right to say no to her husband. If earlier the concept of "rape" had practically no legal force for partners in a registered marriage, now legal husbands must be sure of their wife's consent to sex if they do not want to be on the dock.
In theory, in a little over a hundred years, a woman from a disenfranchised slave turned into an equal partner with a man in all spheres of life. What explains this evolutionary breakthrough?
Orgasm for a man and security for a woman
At Yuri Burlan's training "System-Vector Psychology", we learn the fundamental: at all stages of human development, a man was a breadwinner and protector. The woman was required to do something different - the satisfaction of the man's sexual needs and childbirth. This provided the best survival for the species.
The man received the highest pleasure - orgasm. And this was and remains to this day the main reason for his desire for intercourse. But in order for the flock to survive, so that the men did not kill each other in the struggle for women, a system of taboos arose that limited male attraction. Someone else's wife - not allowed, the child - not.
For women, such restrictions did not exist, since you cannot limit what did not exist - female attraction. If it existed, then in a scanty number of cases it did not affect the overall picture. Most women in the early periods did not experience orgasm, and therefore did not have sexual desires. Intercourse was a necessary step before motherhood, which was a social realization for women.
In addition, in exchange for sex, a woman received protection and safety from a man. In the future, society tried to establish some rules of female behavior in order to prevent the growth of tension between men in society.
But one thing is obvious: if for a man the desire for sexual pleasure has always been considered a completely natural thing, for a woman it was rather an anomaly. It is not for nothing that at the beginning of the twentieth century, a woman experiencing an orgasm received a diagnosis of neurosis or uterine fury.
Impact of progress and standardization on female sexuality
Until the second half of the 19th century, the balance of male-female relationships remained practically unchanged. From the middle of the century, a radical change in the social structure of society and unprecedented scientific and technological progress began. Women come out of the shadow of their husbands and take their new position. There are a lot of examples: Marie Sklodowska-Curie, Sophia Kovalevskaya, Ada Lovelace, née Byron, Sophia Kuvshinnikova, Vera Komissarzhevskaya, Maria Vasilievna Pavlova, Maria Nikolaevna Vernadskaya.
And this is only the 19th century! In the next century, there is a real expansion of women in all branches of human activity. The world is forced to recognize that freedom and equality should apply equally to both men and women.
Society is preparing for the transition from the anal phase of development to the skin phase, the values of which are determined by the properties of the skin vector. At Yuri Burlan's training "System Vector Psychology", we learn that the world has stepped into this phase immediately after World War II, and now we are seeing its heyday - the flourishing of a consumer society, high speeds, new technologies and standardization. The equalization of the roles of men and women is a consequence of this process.
Here is just one example to illustrate this phenomenon. The serial production of mechanical contraceptives for men had a significant impact on the emancipation of women's sexuality. It was the condom, which entered everyday life, that finally divided sexual relations into reproductive and for pleasure. In addition, latex condoms have become a reliable protection against diseases. And not only.
A lot of women were freed from the fear of unwanted pregnancy. Although for a very long time the word "condom" was associated with immorality and sexual promiscuity. Only in 1972, linguists included this term in dictionaries and encyclopedias, transferring it from the category of vulgar to the category of everyday words.
Another event that influenced sexuality and related gender relationships was the discovery of hormonal contraception in the 60s of the twentieth century. Now the woman herself could plan the birth of a child, remaining completely independent of the man.
What is the Sexual Revolution?
The twentieth century gave women freedom and equality with men. In Soviet Russia, women suddenly received everything that other countries did not dare to dream about. There was so much freedom that not everyone was able to absorb it, while remaining within the framework of moral norms. Calls for sexual freedom thundered in an extreme outburst, which resulted in nude processions along the central streets of the capital, slogans about the socialization of women, and free sexual relations.
The tone was set by Alexandra Kollontai - "The Valkyrie of the Revolution" and "Eros in the Uniform of a Diplomat", Zinaida Reich - the muse of two geniuses, theatrical and poetic, Lilia Brik, who owns the famous phrase "I love meeting in bed" and the theory of a family of three.
It must be admitted that the sexual revolution in Russia began with these names. The main thing is that women have realized that they are free in desires, having the right to sex that brings physical satisfaction. More and more women have become able to experience orgasm, because female orgasm is a complex phenomenon that is based primarily on the mental state of a woman. Women have become free to plan their lives, including sexual ones, and to choose priorities.
Moreover, women in developed countries have risen to such a level that they are able to ensure their own safety and security. The existence of sperm banks makes it possible to realize in motherhood without the participation of the biological father. The institution of marriage is depreciated as a form of gender relations, because sexual freedom is in many ways contrary to marriage norms. The pendulum swung from a domestic slave to a woman independent of a man. The age of skin values has set its own priorities.
Do all women need sexual freedom?
The process of sexual emancipation has always been led by women with the optic cutaneous ligament of vectors. According to Yuri Burlan's system-vector psychology, it was their nature that bestowed the greatest emotional amplitude. Their sensitivity is many times higher than that of carriers of other vectors. These women are able to feel other people, to sympathize with them, to perceive their problems and difficulties as their own. Their vision of the world is detailed and colorful. The presence of a visual vector gives them the ability to love and brings love, as a source of strongest emotions, into life priorities.
Skin-visual women are free by nature. In the period of early humanity, they were nulliparous, since they were the only species to play: unlike other women, they did not remain in the cave, but accompanied men on hunting and war. Thanks to their ability for empathy, they brought a new thing into society - emotional connections with other people. This ability, as well as non-taboo sexual behavior, led to the fact that they are always in the zone of male interest.
Undifferentiated sexual behavior, lack of desire to belong to one single man put skin-visual women in opposition to society. An example of this is female front-line soldiers who were massively ostracized upon returning to their native lands.
In the Middle Ages in Western countries, such women were sent to the stake because they were attractive to all men. Their behavior, their personal freedom provoked men and opposed public morality, causing hatred from other women.
Currently, skin-visual women in developed countries are fully exercising their freedom. They choose sexual partners, decide when and in what form they will have an intimate relationship, plan childbirth and are not afraid to say no to a man. Their inner freedom fits harmoniously into a standardized society. Their lifestyle becomes attractive to women with other vectors.
However, mental vectors still determine the degree of a woman's sexual freedom. At Yuri Burlan's training "System Vector Psychology" we learn that women with an anal vector, for whom the family is the goal and meaning of life, make every effort to create, maintain and prosper a family. They themselves never choose independence as a form of life. Due to the peculiarities of their psyche, these women are inclined to look back at authorities. They are the ones who give exaggerated importance to marriage in the first place. This is especially noticeable in Russia, since in our country the peculiarities of our mentality are also inclined towards this.
Can such a woman be sexually free? Can she single-handedly decide when and to what extent to have an intimate relationship? How many children should I have? Would she dare to say no to her husband's wishes?
It is obvious that for the sake of the main thing - the family - anal women make compromises that significantly level the level of their sexual freedom. The situation is influenced by the fact that by nature anal women are monogamous and not prone to novelty and change of partners. Due to the rigidity of the psyche, fearing serious changes in life, they hold on to even a far from ideal marriage. For them there is a saying: "They do not seek good from good."
Women with a cutaneous vector are able to most fully realize sexual freedom in modern society. This is due to the peculiarities of the skin vector. Rationalism, organizational skills, striving for career growth, excellent adaptability are qualities that allow women to occupy sufficiently high places in society. They build relationships with men on the principle of partnership.
It is they who often make choices based on their own desires. Marriage is not on their list of priorities in life, which means there is no fear of losing those relationships that do not suit them. Motherhood is planned and implemented according to their own personal decisions. Women with a skin vector, consciously refusing to have children, organize themselves into the “Child free” movement, making consumption the main pleasure in life.
When the dermal woman is able to fully support herself, she loses the need to keep the man as protector and provider. Such a woman will easily say "no", guided only by her desires.
Women with a urethral vector least of all feel the need for external sexual freedom. These are the features of this vector, which is the embodiment of freedom in all its forms. The urethral vector is not limited either by culture or laws, it is the whole "triumph of freedom." Representatives of this vector, by their nature, completely adequately fit into society and simply do not need restrictions.
Urethral people have an innate high sexual potential. They are polygamous due to their animal altruism. They are tuned in to give, and the return cannot be limited. A powerful libido distinguishes them from the general series and attracts to them all who are in the zone of distribution of their pheromones.
Awareness Is the Key to True Sexual Freedom
The relationship between a man and a woman is not frozen within the standard. The development of society also includes the evolution of sexual relations.
Yuri Burlan's lectures "System-Vector Psychology" help to understand all the processes taking place in society, and also shape thinking that contributes to the construction of harmonious relationships between partners in the sexual sphere. They give the realization that a person gains real freedom only when he deeply understands himself and his partner, and therefore becomes able to realize his and his desires.
People who have completed Yuri Burlan's Training confirm that their sexual relations have moved to a qualitatively new level.
“I was afraid that everything would go the same way again. What to do, I had to trust, and then even direct my husband in the direction I needed, and then even think about what he would like) I tried to act like this a hundred times - nothing worked! And then it worked. I experienced an orgasm, the same fabulous, long and deep. But, to my surprise, I realized that I got more … Darlene K. Read full text of the result
“After all these rushes and the loss of hope of ever knowing pleasure in physical intimacy (for many years it seemed to me that I was getting it, until I realized that I was imitating not in front of a man, but in front of myself), I was finally able to to discern the light that dawned at the end of the tunnel, stand up, turn around and take the first steps in this direction. I was able to see and realize my shortcomings, accept my nature, convey my desires to my beloved …
I open up a completely new world of pleasure and intimate communication, in which two people can be completely naked in front of each other physically and mentally, and not be ashamed of themselves, not to act out some scenarios, but to learn together what will never get bored, which will never there will be an end - the most intimate in oneself and the other and that common that binds us in this intimate. It sounds a little abstract, I also do not fully understand what happened and how. But I was able to relax and remove my shackles and locks. I could believe and trust. I could enjoy it. I could see how much fun there is! Instead of constantly thinking about how I look, how good I am in bed, and whether my husband will ever leave for another, instead of constantly thinking.
Ekaterina U. Read the full text of the result
“For me, the topic of sex is NOT closed anymore. I can calmly talk with my partner about our desires and questions. I have tried to do this before, but the feeling of awkwardness that I experienced, fearing that my man would consider me licentious, more often stopped me than pushed me to such conversations. So, it's very easy for me now, there are no clamps, barriers and prohibitions. The good thing is that two are good !!! I realized this at the training.
I realized how often I restrained myself in my desires, although something from the inside always attracted and pushed me to realize these very desires. When you want something, but you are afraid that they will misunderstand you or think that something is not the best about you. But the inner voice always pushed me in the right direction, but fear interfered, held back. And only at the training with Yuri I managed to take off everything that sometimes interferes with life."
Elena I. Read the full text of the result
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