The first was drinking, the second was beating, the third was … How to find a normal guy
The feeling flared up just when he lamented the hard life. Milo smiled, looked into the distance with wet eyes and told how fate was cruel to him. How much injustice he had to endure. How small he would like. And at that moment you felt that stiff wings were spreading behind your back …
There are women who fall in love exclusively with chronic losers, assholes, and even criminals. Just some kind of delusion. In fact - no magic, just psychological trauma distorted the life scenario. It's good that the situation can be corrected.
Love is evil
My heart aches with the desire to love! And there are a lot of good men nearby. But somehow it doesn’t attract them … And then it happened - somewhere at the level of the solar plexus skipped a beat and caught my breath. He! The same one! Dear, beloved, the only one … And even the gloomy faces of relatives and friends do not bother: "Think about it, you won't get around problems with him!.."
You may agree. By the way, the feeling flared up just when he lamented about a hard life. Milo smiled, looked into the distance with wet eyes and told how fate was cruel to him. How much injustice he had to endure. How small he would like.
And at that moment you felt that stiff wings were spreading behind your back! After all, you can save him, you will cope with all difficulties together and you will be happy. And in old age, you will sit on the seashore, remember what you have experienced and laugh at the defeated fate-villain.
I want to love and I cannot fall in love
A woman with an inner prohibition to experience feelings strives for such relationships as a moth to a lantern, explains the system-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan.
Often parents forbid the girl to show emotions, cry, say: "Be strong, daughter!" And sometimes they tighten the nuts so that there is simply no way to experience feelings: "Don't roar, don't laugh loudly, don't regret, be tougher, don't complain!"
So parents strive to bring up a restrained, unshakable personality from a sensitive, emotional, visual girl, so that she does not stuff big cones in life. However, good intentions will turn into disaster: in the future, such a block will become truly disastrous for the life scenario of a person with a visual vector.
Visual people from birth have enormous sensory potential. It is good when from childhood a person with a visual vector is trained to implement it correctly: to take care of the mood of others - to empathize, to love. The response to the states of other people should be adequate: help the needy, the manipulator - fight back.
Children with a visual vector, who were forbidden to show emotions, come to life with an inner ban to show feelings. This means - with the inability to fall in love and take place in a pair relationship. However, the emotional power of the spectator is stronger than him and still finds a way out. Alas, sometimes this becomes the reason for a negative life scenario.
So lucky for me, so lucky - just indescribably lucky …
An unhappy, broken, sad man looming on the horizon evokes natural empathy in a woman with a ban on sensuality. She dives into empathy like a whirlpool and falls in love. After all, this is the only way for her to respond to a man, to experience feelings for him. She is still a "strong daughter", an iron lady, and at the same time it is an opportunity to show care and love.
There is a way out of this psychological trap. Realizing his vector-conditioned nature - what desires live by you and where they can lead - a person has the opportunity to take fate into his own hands. Knowing himself and understanding what is happening now, a person with a visual vector can sincerely empathize, but not go into a doomed relationship.
Moreover, a deep psychological study at Yuri Burlan's training "System-Vector Psychology" allows you to get rid of the prohibition to feel taken from childhood, to reveal the ability to feel, to be filled with love. Here are the results of the training participants:
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