Practical psychology
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I can’t live without him. I die when he is not. I want to be there every second. There is so little of it in every day. Now he is at work, then he is tired, then he has an important meeting. How does he not understand that I love him more than life? Emotional dependence on a man acts like a stranglehold. I choke on love and soul it with my love
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I'll start from the end: I managed to solve the problem of how to stop loving a person. This love caused only suffering, and none of us wants to suffer. The necessary knowledge was given by the training "System-vector psychology" by Yuri Burlan. Details on how you managed to put things in order in your head and in your heart, in this article
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Is the entire history of human development the history of men? Let's admit. But what were they inspired by? Without inspiration, there would be no poetry, no architecture, no theory of relativity. There would be no stone ax with a wheel, no development, no scientific breakthroughs, no masterpieces. Stimulus Attraction to a woman is an incentive for the realization of the entire masculine essence - for bestowal: both to the woman herself and to society - in the name of the woman
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Why in a couple, where passions raged, sexual attraction diminishes over the years? What if your partner has a lack of sexual desire? And if I don't want sex myself, is that okay? You will find the answer to these and other questions about sexual attraction, its signs below
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How it was - the Makarenko system One of the main indicators of the efficiency of orphanages is the level of socialization of their graduates
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The child came from the kindergarten and excitedly told you that today he learned THIS word. Round eyes, a confused face - everything speaks of the expectation of your parental reaction. Yesterday's little angel with curls, today he brought in an obscene word and laid it out as if in spirit! A shocking moment, an unexpected situation for a parent. And it's good if you have time to catch your breath or turn away. After all, at this time he is closely watching you
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Part 1. How it was - the Makarenko system When everything is there, except for the main thing Today, orphanages grow up in conditions that are destructive for the child's psyche. As a rule, provided with the necessary material benefits for life, they also do not have the necessary conditions for the development of innate psychological properties
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Ivan Petrovich said that in the bath, the heat thins the blood and the head works better, so the problems must be solved right there. When "hot" mathematics had already ceased to be given to me, he processed me with a broom. I was not wearing any clothes. He sat down next to me, hugged me. He said that I was a very beautiful girl, and that he had been in love with me for a long time. That everything will be fine. I got very scared
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Teenage suicide statistics are growing inexorably
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Ahead is September 1 - the long-awaited Day of Knowledge, the beginning of a new academic year, another year of amazing discoveries, another step into adulthood! Why then to the energetic question of adults: "Well, did you miss school?" - Often children avert their eyes to the side and make a sad face? Maybe they are Losers and just don't want to study?
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Got it! "Computer games … And who only came up with this muck ?!" - conservative teachers and psychologists are indignant in one voice. And really - how can you not grab your head when you read or see on the news: "A teenager from the city of N killed his parents who forbade them to play." Even a single such case is already a huge tragedy, what can I say when these cases are repeated?
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The child asks to have a pet. Dog, kitty, parrot, hamster - choose your option. You yourself may not be against it (you have already broken down under the onslaught of all the strength of the child's desire), but few people know what the child himself is risking. His eyesight may deteriorate, he may never learn to sufficiently interact with other people … - What nonsense ?! Vector system psychology explains how and under what circumstances this can happen
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Many-armed many-legged It would seem that the more children, the more worries. All children are different, everyone wants attention, everyone has their own interests, aspirations, whims. One to school, football, music, English; another - to the garden, to dancing, acting; the third - to a speech therapist, to drawing and yoga; the fourth baby in general
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Man - it sounds proudly! But not at once. (from)
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Part I. The crisis of three years: the formation of the child's self-awareness Part II. The crisis of three years: the formation of the child's self-awareness
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The ability to concentrate is one of the prerequisites for a child's success in school. In this article we will look at interesting games for children that develop attention. They will help kids prepare for the role of future schoolchildren who are doing excellently
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Parents often have to plunge into the jungle of pedagogy when they want to find answers to burning questions related to the upbringing of their child. How to raise him as a cultured person, for whom you would not have to blush in public places? How to control the behavior of the child, in order, for example, to quickly stop the hysteria that has begun or to teach him to order?
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At the time when you and I were children, there was an opinion that a child who does not attend kindergarten will certainly face big problems at school: he will not be able to find a common language with teachers and peers, and will also receive a strong blow to immunity. Today this opinion has become less categorical. But in vain
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If you type a similar request in a search engine, then a huge number of sites drop out from which you can literally hear the groan of parental souls, exhausted and asking for help
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The first year of your baby's life has passed. Behind were the diapers and undershirts, the first lures and other worries of an early age. Now the little researcher stands on his own legs. Getting ready to master the big world. And parents have new questions: how to develop a child at 1 year old? What skills should he have at this age?
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Briefly - about age crises Age crises refer to the normative changes necessary for normal progressive mental development. In general, age crises that a person consistently goes through throughout life are accompanied by cardinal restructuring of the psyche in connection with the transition from one stage of development to another and a change in the social situation of development (L. S. Vygotsky), as well as leading activity (D. B. Elkonin)
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Many of us were forced to eat in childhood. Someone was persuaded: "Mom cooked, tried not to throw it out!" "Give for mom, for dad, for grandmother, for a pussycat!" "Open your mouth, the airplane is flying!" Someone using threats and intimidation:
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Tears run down my cheeks in an uncontrollable stream, not bringing relief. This is the last memorial service for the dissolute life of my stupid sister. I no longer want and cannot communicate with this monster, for which there is nothing sacred
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The voice on the telephone was muffled. The woman could be heard taking a puff and exhaling cigarette smoke: “Something is wrong with me. I can’t take it anymore.” Then for a few more minutes I listened to curses mixed with sobs and sobs. Then desperate: “I beat her like a dog! Shames me in front of people! And I myself am suffering now: I love her, she is my only child, I live for her! After all, I plow like a horse without days off and holidays! What is happening to me?"
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Every parent wants their child to be happy. Therefore, he tries to educate him with all his might: to give knowledge, to teach good, to protect him from bad. But in the modern world, good from bad is not so easy to distinguish. Our parents were afraid of the negative impact of the street on their child. There were bullies and other negative personalities who could harm the child or teach him bad
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“I remember the time when mom and dad were together. And then dad left, and immediately it became so lonely! There is no one to play football with on the street. There is no one to discuss cars with. Life seemed to slow down. And only mom walks with a tear-stained face and repeats: “Dad is a goat! Why did I just get involved in a relationship with him? Why did I marry this freak? After all, it was clear from the very beginning that nothing good would come of it! "
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Question from Nadezhda, Moscow: “Yuri, how then does a child develop in an orphanage? After all, children from the orphanage do not have a sense of security and safety !!! Is there really nothing you can do? " Victoria Vinnikova, mathematics teacher answers: Nadezhda, thank you for bringing up a difficult and painful topic for many. Your question about how a child develops in an orphanage worries teachers, psychologists, physicians, and just caring people
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Question from Irina, St. Petersburg: When will the lectures be? How to learn to live again if children have died and you don't want to live? Tatiana Sosnovskaya, teacher, psychologist answers: There is probably nothing worse in this world than when parents have to bury their own children. There is something wrong, unnatural in this. The world turns upside down and turns from white to black. How to survive the death of children when their whole life was devoted to them?
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Domestic violence against children: the sword of Damocles over the fate of humanity What is the cause of domestic violence in the family? Where does the problem of cruel treatment, physical and psychological abuse of children and women come from among quite worthy, at first glance, people?
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There will come a terrible time when mothers will not care about their children. When from the first days of life children learn what it means "the strongest survives." When the helpless little body will itself try to cling to its little awkward little hands for the life that is eluding it. Look around, maybe this time has come long ago?
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The number of unusual, special children being diagnosed with early childhood autism or autism spectrum disorder is growing every year. In 2000, it was estimated that 5 to 26 people in every 10,000 children suffer from early childhood autism. Already in 2008, the World Autism Organization published much more significant figures: 1 child with early childhood autism for every 150 children. In 2014, the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention reported that 1 in 68 children in
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Premonition of love
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“What kind of idiot are you ?! Can't do anything normally! Where do you get your hands from, you stupid one? " - I hear the screams of a young mother screaming at the entrance to her six-year-old child. The heart begins to pound madly, tears appear in the eyes. “You will never succeed! Who needs you like that ?! …”It's scary to look at a child. He just froze in hopelessness. It feels like his whole world is crumbling inside him now. That is how it is
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As a child, like many children, I was often asked: "What will you be when you grow up?" And I, without hesitation, answered: "The teacher
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Part 1 If we have more or less figured out the reasons for the aggressive reactions of babies who have not yet learned to express their desires in a different way, then the question naturally arises - why do older children fight?
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The availability of information, entertainment of any kind, including violent computer games, films with fights, shootouts, bloodshed, comics, anime, videos, cartoons, TV shows, etc., leads to the fact that children begin to behave in the same way in real life. life. Feeling dislike, they immediately hit, as virtual heroes do. It seems to children that giving it in the eye is cool. They try to imitate their favorite hero. And if you interact with peers in a different way, except to feel dislike
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The child beats other children
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Since childhood, he was an open, sociable boy, he made contact with everyone, strove to be friends and was always so happy with new friends. But instead of friendly relations, he was mocked, teased, bullied. Weak, with a slender build, he had no addiction to sports and was often ill. He was afraid of his offenders, did not know how to stand up for himself and began to come home with bruises. From an open and sociable boy, he turned into a twitchy and fearful animal. Afraid to go to school
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Advise me something, I'm just all exhausted! He is constantly crying, he needs something endlessly, and I can't get away from him a single step! What? You say take it with you in a sling? Well, you understand
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"Mother! My period has started! "