Practical psychology 2024, November
Tights under the bed, sweater on a chair, coat on the closet door, bag under the kitchen table
Fatigue and despair, mental and physical stupor, loss of understanding of what is happening, a state of passion and the likelihood of uncontrolled suicide. Postpartum depression instead of the joy of motherhood. Why exactly did this happen to me?
Despite the permanent loneliness, how good it is that I have Me! It's so nice to talk with the smartest person who will understand me from half a thought, without interfering with my internal dialogue, without interrupting with empty unnecessary words
Autumn can come to us with the brightest colors, warm weather and pleasant dreams. Then we are the lucky ones, strolling in a dreamy mood along the alleys strewn with yellow and red foliage
The most difficult task for a woman is to prove to a man the seriousness of his intentions Anonymous
Illness, parting, loss … Acute state of despair. You don’t know which side to approach the problem, you don’t see a way out. And all the most valuable and dear things are under threat, right down to life itself … To be able to cope with a critical situation, let us analyze the causes of despair with the help of materials from the training by Yuri Burlan "System-vector psychology"
The film "The Matrix" conquered the world at the end of the 20th century. He brought worldwide popularity to his screenwriters and directors, the Wachowski brothers. A previously unprecedented combination of philosophy and action genre appeared before the audience. The film sparked debate in philosophical circles. Many articles discussed his ideas
The husband constantly insults his wife, and she is exhausted, saving a shaky relationship. They use a humble look, fashionable shoes, washed dishes, and a delicious dinner (emphasize the necessary). However, the husband continues to insult. At the same time, few women know for sure how to tame the obstinate. And the price for the wrong choice can be prohibitive
Not together … not a couple anymore. Lines from a famous song hit the heart. Perhaps this was not unexpected. Perhaps there were preconditions, premonitions, or even a long, anxious wait. Or maybe everything really happened so suddenly that this fall from heaven to hard, cold earth was a heavy blow. Now it doesn't matter at all how it was. The main thing is how it is now
Coming back from a morning run with my beloved husband, I thought about what happiness it is to find absolutely my own person, a soul mate with whom you feel as one, a like-minded person who shares your views and hobbies
To love deeply means to forget about yourself. J. Rousseau A well-developed strategy. A carefully researched object. Highly efficient, proven ammunition. Impeccable, verified form. Everything is ready for the offensive, and nothing will shake the fighting spirit. There are many victories on the account, but you should not relax - even a small slip can become fatal
After the birth of our son, everything changed between us. He seemed to have been replaced. He began to disappear late at work. He does not even call, does not warn that he will be late. He comes home to sleep. How is it possible, I don't understand?
Does he have a corporate party, or did your boyfriend just decide to sit out with friends in the evening? Or maybe not with friends at all? Or maybe not sit at all ?! So, it's time to drink motherwort again, because in anticipation of his coming home you will be jealous and go crazy
While we are drowning in difficult conditions, life passes by. The last remnants of strength are sucked out by the excruciating pain of the soul, and you fall into the meaninglessness of your existence. Or covers with an attack of alarm and panic, explodes with hatred of people. How to deal with depression in order to live, not suffer?
You don't need to start this old song again … That life is finite, that you need to live it in such a way that it does not hurt excruciatingly for being spent aimlessly, etc. I have never been against living it correctly and with pleasure. Just give me an answer to a simple question: what do I want? Want it now. And now give your answer
The boiling cauldron of energy, which gushed with a key as a child, has turned into a stagnant swamp over the years. There is neither the strength nor the desire to do anything. A lot of things that have been abandoned halfway or even postponed are constantly accumulating. How to stop being lazy and start acting? Why is a person lazy? You can defeat the problem of laziness only by knowing its causes. Sometimes serious psychological problems are hidden under this mask:
In psychology, the definition of an introvert has long been known. But only the training "System-vector psychology" by Yuri Burlan determines its special type - the sound vector. Its owner is an egocentric, an isolated person, turned inward. All the most important things in his life happen inside him. The world outside is a test for him. He does not find in him the meanings that the inner world offers him, full of thoughts, experiences, unusual ideas
He was in my head always and everywhere. When I was cooking, watching films, meeting friends, driving to work. An exhausting, obsessive state - when a person who does not need you occupies all your thoughts. It hurts, it’s stupid, it’s humiliating in the end! But you simply cannot do anything, and no advice from psychologists - how to throw a person out of thoughts - does not help. - I wonder if he would have liked this seasoning for meat?
How to learn a language without addiction Addiction to languages, addiction, talent in learning languages - you can often hear that he is either there or not, and a person is unable to learn a foreign language
Have you ever noticed the flow of people in the city, rapidly rushing in different directions? From a bird's eye view, the crowded streets of the metropolis resemble a giant anthill
Hundreds of people rush in front of me, thousands of faceless shadows are running somewhere, in a hurry, in a hurry. Someone touched my shoulder, someone stepped on my foot, and I didn't even understand what had just happened. It was somewhere out there, outside, with the body, but not with me. I am immersed in my thoughts, as if in a bottomless maelstrom, unable to get out of it and look at the real world
How can you think that this is life? Nothing matters … Am I? I'm not there. Who is there then? I am not me … And who am I? !! Ripples … Again, one ripple. It doesn't make sense. Empty chatter. Tiring chatter. Desires are like bubbles in puddles during a downpour. They appear, burst, burst again and again. How tiring it is. How annoying it is. Deadly annoying. Deadly
The feeling is as if you are in prostration
The computer is a window to the world You are sitting in your room alone. Lighting - monitor light. Quiet, you can hear the ticking clock. It is necessary to remove them away, they interfere with concentration. 24/7 shooters are a stage passed. The new forum is exciting. Everyone here is not like everyone else. They have one wave, they are laconic and understand each other
The last rays of the sun are extinguished … The colors of the day are fading in the quietly descending twilight … The sound cocoon unravels into separate strands-waves that melt one after another … brighter, and now myriads of stars adorn the black firmament. The haze of the Milky Way stretches from horizon to horizon. In the gap between the two tracks, infinity is guessed
Therefore, a person must remember that the beginning of the sensation of the highest is precisely in the sensation of spiritual emptiness (M. Laitman)
Remember crybaby Myrtle from Harry Potter? Now imagine a mom, a neighbor, or a friend. She is an attractive woman, but sometimes … Sometimes she starts screaming, gesticulating animatedly, at the peak of her emotional storm, she runs to the bathroom, slams the door, turns on the water and starts crying. One day, in despair, she can fill the bath with water, lie down and cut her veins. But she is not one of those who knows that veins need to be cut along
We come into this world naked and alone, and our Brownian movement begins among other people. Among others, we walk blind, as if blindfolded: we part with those who are dear to us, converge with those we do not love. And we constantly ask ourselves: “Is there even a drop of meaning in all this? Is there any point in living? "
Outside the window is December, which means that every day the New Year's tinsel is increasing exponentially, and sadness and emptiness are growing in the soul at the same speed
Have you ever noticed what gets in the way of creativity the most? White list. The fear of a blank slate, when it lies in front of you, perfectly flat, white, without a single symbol. Lies untouched like the first snow. And no one has left their marks on it yet, has not trampled grooves and bends, heavy dents, blots, has not spoiled its purity, has not invaded its whiteness
They say that the figure and appearance of a Barbie doll is idealized and impossible for an ordinary, earthly woman. Oh really? Look at Nicole Kidman. Perfect face, chiseled figure, royal posture, snow-white skin, mischievous huge eyes. And it seems that this woman lives the same life - everything in this life should be perfect and fabulous
I think there was an error
Ice and Flame of Our Hearts Residents of the house forbade the construction of a ramp for children with disabilities … The parents of the students achieved the dismissal of the teacher who brought her daughter with Down syndrome to class … An enraged driver beat a pregnant woman who refused to give him way, and no one stopped him … The teenagers beat him to the death of a homeless old man
Blessed are those who forget, for they do not remember their mistakes Nietzsche Collect all the things that are associated with the pain of parting with a loved one: photographs, his clothes, gifts, books, CDs, excerpts from diary entries. Put it all together with a whirlwind of emotions from the mere mention of his name and … press the button "clear memory". I would like to?
What to do when a star falls, an airplane flies and leaves a white tail in the sky, a black Volga passed *, the last drop from a bottle of wine falls on your glass **, guess which eye the eyelash fell on, the clock has the same numbers, for example, 12
In the Middle Ages, life expectancy did not exceed 30 years
According to the World Health Organization, depression is one of the leading causes of morbidity and disability among adolescents worldwide. In most cases, adolescent depression is not diagnosed on time, and a person receives help only when his condition reaches its extreme severity. Running depression can lead to dire consequences - up to the desire to commit suicide
The hopes of lovers for a happy nest are by no means groundless
Mother killer … How much horror and tragedy in this phrase, how much powerlessness. After all, this is contrary to nature, contrary to the most intimate and important in human life - to continue your race in descendants, protecting and preserving them. When we hear that somewhere a mother killed a child, our entire unconscious is horrified and indignant at this news going across the base given to us by nature. After all, mom is the most important person in the life of every child
In the center of the city, on a tall building made of glass and concrete, someone has drawn a graffiti "WHY?" In large letters