Practical psychology 2024, November

How Easy It Is To Be Far Away. Difficulties Of Living Together

How Easy It Is To Be Far Away. Difficulties Of Living Together

Tights under the bed, sweater on a chair, coat on the closet door, bag under the kitchen table

Postpartum Depression - Symptoms, Signs, And Treatment Of Postpartum Depression In Women

Postpartum Depression - Symptoms, Signs, And Treatment Of Postpartum Depression In Women

Fatigue and despair, mental and physical stupor, loss of understanding of what is happening, a state of passion and the likelihood of uncontrolled suicide. Postpartum depression instead of the joy of motherhood. Why exactly did this happen to me?

Thank You For Having Me

Thank You For Having Me

Despite the permanent loneliness, how good it is that I have Me! It's so nice to talk with the smartest person who will understand me from half a thought, without interfering with my internal dialogue, without interrupting with empty unnecessary words

Autumn Is The Time To Love

Autumn Is The Time To Love

Autumn can come to us with the brightest colors, warm weather and pleasant dreams. Then we are the lucky ones, strolling in a dreamy mood along the alleys strewn with yellow and red foliage

We Already Feel Good, Or Love Without Obligation

We Already Feel Good, Or Love Without Obligation

The most difficult task for a woman is to prove to a man the seriousness of his intentions Anonymous

What Should A Person In Despair Do? Reasons And Ways To Get Out Of A State Of Despair

What Should A Person In Despair Do? Reasons And Ways To Get Out Of A State Of Despair

Illness, parting, loss … Acute state of despair. You don’t know which side to approach the problem, you don’t see a way out. And all the most valuable and dear things are under threat, right down to life itself … To be able to cope with a critical situation, let us analyze the causes of despair with the help of materials from the training by Yuri Burlan "System-vector psychology"

The Matrix. A Masterpiece About The World We Live In

The Matrix. A Masterpiece About The World We Live In

The film "The Matrix" conquered the world at the end of the 20th century. He brought worldwide popularity to his screenwriters and directors, the Wachowski brothers. A previously unprecedented combination of philosophy and action genre appeared before the audience. The film sparked debate in philosophical circles. Many articles discussed his ideas

What To Do If The Husband Constantly Insults And Humiliates - Read The Answer Of Psychologists

What To Do If The Husband Constantly Insults And Humiliates - Read The Answer Of Psychologists

The husband constantly insults his wife, and she is exhausted, saving a shaky relationship. They use a humble look, fashionable shoes, washed dishes, and a delicious dinner (emphasize the necessary). However, the husband continues to insult. At the same time, few women know for sure how to tame the obstinate. And the price for the wrong choice can be prohibitive

How To Get Out Of Depression After Breaking Up With A Loved One

How To Get Out Of Depression After Breaking Up With A Loved One

Not together … not a couple anymore. Lines from a famous song hit the heart. Perhaps this was not unexpected. Perhaps there were preconditions, premonitions, or even a long, anxious wait. Or maybe everything really happened so suddenly that this fall from heaven to hard, cold earth was a heavy blow. Now it doesn't matter at all how it was. The main thing is how it is now

Online Dating: How To Find Your Person Using System-vector Psychology

Online Dating: How To Find Your Person Using System-vector Psychology

Coming back from a morning run with my beloved husband, I thought about what happiness it is to find absolutely my own person, a soul mate with whom you feel as one, a like-minded person who shares your views and hobbies

Actively Searching Or How Long Can You Look For A Prince?

Actively Searching Or How Long Can You Look For A Prince?

To love deeply means to forget about yourself. J. Rousseau A well-developed strategy. A carefully researched object. Highly efficient, proven ammunition. Impeccable, verified form. Everything is ready for the offensive, and nothing will shake the fighting spirit. There are many victories on the account, but you should not relax - even a small slip can become fatal

Everything On Maternity Leave Is In Gray. How Not To Lose Your Family

Everything On Maternity Leave Is In Gray. How Not To Lose Your Family

After the birth of our son, everything changed between us. He seemed to have been replaced. He began to disappear late at work. He does not even call, does not warn that he will be late. He comes home to sleep. How is it possible, I don't understand?

How To Stop Being Jealous Of A Guy - Psychologist's Advice On How To Stop Being Jealous Of A Guy In Your Pair

How To Stop Being Jealous Of A Guy - Psychologist's Advice On How To Stop Being Jealous Of A Guy In Your Pair

Does he have a corporate party, or did your boyfriend just decide to sit out with friends in the evening? Or maybe not with friends at all? Or maybe not sit at all ?! So, it's time to drink motherwort again, because in anticipation of his coming home you will be jealous and go crazy

How To Deal With Depression And Start Living, Not Surviving

How To Deal With Depression And Start Living, Not Surviving

While we are drowning in difficult conditions, life passes by. The last remnants of strength are sucked out by the excruciating pain of the soul, and you fall into the meaninglessness of your existence. Or covers with an attack of alarm and panic, explodes with hatred of people. How to deal with depression in order to live, not suffer?

What I Really Want, What Hides The Unconscious

What I Really Want, What Hides The Unconscious

You don't need to start this old song again … That life is finite, that you need to live it in such a way that it does not hurt excruciatingly for being spent aimlessly, etc. I have never been against living it correctly and with pleasure. Just give me an answer to a simple question: what do I want? Want it now. And now give your answer

How To Stop Being Lazy And Start Taking Action: A Surefire Way To Overcome Laziness

How To Stop Being Lazy And Start Taking Action: A Surefire Way To Overcome Laziness

The boiling cauldron of energy, which gushed with a key as a child, has turned into a stagnant swamp over the years. There is neither the strength nor the desire to do anything. A lot of things that have been abandoned halfway or even postponed are constantly accumulating. How to stop being lazy and start acting? Why is a person lazy? You can defeat the problem of laziness only by knowing its causes. Sometimes serious psychological problems are hidden under this mask:

When The World Outside Is The Source Of Pain And The World Inside Is The Only Salvation

When The World Outside Is The Source Of Pain And The World Inside Is The Only Salvation

In psychology, the definition of an introvert has long been known. But only the training "System-vector psychology" by Yuri Burlan determines its special type - the sound vector. Its owner is an egocentric, an isolated person, turned inward. All the most important things in his life happen inside him. The world outside is a test for him. He does not find in him the meanings that the inner world offers him, full of thoughts, experiences, unusual ideas

How To Stop Thinking About Someone You Don't Need

How To Stop Thinking About Someone You Don't Need

He was in my head always and everywhere. When I was cooking, watching films, meeting friends, driving to work. An exhausting, obsessive state - when a person who does not need you occupies all your thoughts. It hurts, it’s stupid, it’s humiliating in the end! But you simply cannot do anything, and no advice from psychologists - how to throw a person out of thoughts - does not help. - I wonder if he would have liked this seasoning for meat?

Sound Abstractions, Or The Talent To Speak Without An Accent

Sound Abstractions, Or The Talent To Speak Without An Accent

How to learn a language without addiction Addiction to languages, addiction, talent in learning languages - you can often hear that he is either there or not, and a person is unable to learn a foreign language

Innovative Armchair "There Is Only Me In My World", Or Why Hide From People?

Innovative Armchair "There Is Only Me In My World", Or Why Hide From People?

Have you ever noticed the flow of people in the city, rapidly rushing in different directions? From a bird's eye view, the crowded streets of the metropolis resemble a giant anthill

Is There A Meaning In Life?

Is There A Meaning In Life?

Hundreds of people rush in front of me, thousands of faceless shadows are running somewhere, in a hurry, in a hurry. Someone touched my shoulder, someone stepped on my foot, and I didn't even understand what had just happened. It was somewhere out there, outside, with the body, but not with me. I am immersed in my thoughts, as if in a bottomless maelstrom, unable to get out of it and look at the real world

Looks Like I'm Still Alive Why? Searching For The Meaning Of Life

Looks Like I'm Still Alive Why? Searching For The Meaning Of Life

How can you think that this is life? Nothing matters … Am I? I'm not there. Who is there then? I am not me … And who am I? !! Ripples … Again, one ripple. It doesn't make sense. Empty chatter. Tiring chatter. Desires are like bubbles in puddles during a downpour. They appear, burst, burst again and again. How tiring it is. How annoying it is. Deadly annoying. Deadly

I Am Not In This Life. Where Is The Exit?

I Am Not In This Life. Where Is The Exit?

The feeling is as if you are in prostration

A Stranger Among His Own. How To Understand Yourself At Sixteen?

A Stranger Among His Own. How To Understand Yourself At Sixteen?

The computer is a window to the world You are sitting in your room alone. Lighting - monitor light. Quiet, you can hear the ticking clock. It is necessary to remove them away, they interfere with concentration. 24/7 shooters are a stage passed. The new forum is exciting. Everyone here is not like everyone else. They have one wave, they are laconic and understand each other

Quiet I Want To Hear The Meaning Of Life

Quiet I Want To Hear The Meaning Of Life

The last rays of the sun are extinguished … The colors of the day are fading in the quietly descending twilight … The sound cocoon unravels into separate strands-waves that melt one after another … brighter, and now myriads of stars adorn the black firmament. The haze of the Milky Way stretches from horizon to horizon. In the gap between the two tracks, infinity is guessed

I Do Not Want Anything. Depression As A Chance For A New Life

I Do Not Want Anything. Depression As A Chance For A New Life

Therefore, a person must remember that the beginning of the sensation of the highest is precisely in the sensation of spiritual emptiness (M. Laitman)

There Is No Story Sadder In The World Than The Story Of Juliet Sobbing. Causes Of Conspicuous Suicide

There Is No Story Sadder In The World Than The Story Of Juliet Sobbing. Causes Of Conspicuous Suicide

Remember crybaby Myrtle from Harry Potter? Now imagine a mom, a neighbor, or a friend. She is an attractive woman, but sometimes … Sometimes she starts screaming, gesticulating animatedly, at the peak of her emotional storm, she runs to the bathroom, slams the door, turns on the water and starts crying. One day, in despair, she can fill the bath with water, lie down and cut her veins. But she is not one of those who knows that veins need to be cut along

In This World, I Am An Uninvited Guest. Everywhere Here Blows Cold

In This World, I Am An Uninvited Guest. Everywhere Here Blows Cold

We come into this world naked and alone, and our Brownian movement begins among other people. Among others, we walk blind, as if blindfolded: we part with those who are dear to us, converge with those we do not love. And we constantly ask ourselves: “Is there even a drop of meaning in all this? Is there any point in living? "

Why Does Everyone Love The New Year, But I Don't?

Why Does Everyone Love The New Year, But I Don't?

Outside the window is December, which means that every day the New Year's tinsel is increasing exponentially, and sadness and emptiness are growing in the soul at the same speed

The Writer's Fate: A White Sheet On The Path To Revealing The Idea

The Writer's Fate: A White Sheet On The Path To Revealing The Idea

Have you ever noticed what gets in the way of creativity the most? White list. The fear of a blank slate, when it lies in front of you, perfectly flat, white, without a single symbol. Lies untouched like the first snow. And no one has left their marks on it yet, has not trampled grooves and bends, heavy dents, blots, has not spoiled its purity, has not invaded its whiteness

External And Internal Beauty. Dedicated To Nicole Kidman

External And Internal Beauty. Dedicated To Nicole Kidman

They say that the figure and appearance of a Barbie doll is idealized and impossible for an ordinary, earthly woman. Oh really? Look at Nicole Kidman. Perfect face, chiseled figure, royal posture, snow-white skin, mischievous huge eyes. And it seems that this woman lives the same life - everything in this life should be perfect and fabulous

Faces Of Hatred. Why Beauty Can No Longer Save The World

Faces Of Hatred. Why Beauty Can No Longer Save The World

Ice and Flame of Our Hearts Residents of the house forbade the construction of a ramp for children with disabilities … The parents of the students achieved the dismissal of the teacher who brought her daughter with Down syndrome to class … An enraged driver beat a pregnant woman who refused to give him way, and no one stopped him … The teenagers beat him to the death of a homeless old man

"Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind". Can The Memory Of The Torment Of Love Be Erased?

"Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind". Can The Memory Of The Torment Of Love Be Erased?

Blessed are those who forget, for they do not remember their mistakes Nietzsche Collect all the things that are associated with the pain of parting with a loved one: photographs, his clothes, gifts, books, CDs, excerpts from diary entries. Put it all together with a whirlwind of emotions from the mere mention of his name and … press the button "clear memory". I would like to?

Encyclopedia Of The Superstitious Fool To Find Love

Encyclopedia Of The Superstitious Fool To Find Love

What to do when a star falls, an airplane flies and leaves a white tail in the sky, a black Volga passed *, the last drop from a bottle of wine falls on your glass **, guess which eye the eyelash fell on, the clock has the same numbers, for example, 12

Immortality And Reality. Do We Want To Live Forever?

Immortality And Reality. Do We Want To Live Forever?

In the Middle Ages, life expectancy did not exceed 30 years

Online Depression Test For Teens: How To Accurately Identify And Manage Depression

Online Depression Test For Teens: How To Accurately Identify And Manage Depression

According to the World Health Organization, depression is one of the leading causes of morbidity and disability among adolescents worldwide. In most cases, adolescent depression is not diagnosed on time, and a person receives help only when his condition reaches its extreme severity. Running depression can lead to dire consequences - up to the desire to commit suicide

The Mother Killed The Child. How Mothers Become Killers And Why

The Mother Killed The Child. How Mothers Become Killers And Why

Mother killer … How much horror and tragedy in this phrase, how much powerlessness. After all, this is contrary to nature, contrary to the most intimate and important in human life - to continue your race in descendants, protecting and preserving them. When we hear that somewhere a mother killed a child, our entire unconscious is horrified and indignant at this news going across the base given to us by nature. After all, mom is the most important person in the life of every child

Psychologist's Help For Depression: To Listen To Advice Or Not? We Understand Systematically

Psychologist's Help For Depression: To Listen To Advice Or Not? We Understand Systematically

In the center of the city, on a tall building made of glass and concrete, someone has drawn a graffiti "WHY?" In large letters