Actively Searching or How Long Can You Look for a Prince?
What is the essence of this string of love conquests? The desire to assert yourself in your own irresistibility? Not without it. Get your share of male attention and immense adoration? Of course. But there must be something else?
To love deeply means to forget about yourself.
J. Rousseau
A well-defined strategy. A carefully researched object. Highly efficient, proven ammunition. Impeccable, verified form. Everything is ready for the offensive, and nothing will shake the fighting spirit. There are many victories on the account, but you should not relax - even a small slip can become fatal.
Here I have to interrupt and apologize to the fans of the militaristic genre. It's not about war, but about love relationships. It is difficult to resist such an appropriate allegory - both wars and love are accompanied by triumphs and sacrifices.
Everything else also becomes simple and obvious. The object is a man, the ammunition is perfume and make-up, the uniform is tastefully chosen clothes, the strategy is every gesture, look, body movement, perfected with the aim of defeat. Sorry, ready for a date!
The sense of one's own feminine dignity is amused by the memories of those men who were slain and voluntarily surrendered. With someone it was not required to apply special efforts and reserve plans, while someone steadfastly held the defense and repelled the attack. But all the more interesting. Thanks to such difficult to conquer, the skills of seduction are honed, and the skill of seduction is brought to the highest level.
Love camouflage
What is the essence of this string of love conquests? The desire to assert yourself in your own irresistibility? Not without it. Get your share of male attention and immense adoration? Of course. But there must be something else?
A shadow of light sadness fell on her beautiful face, and perfectly painted lips trembled. Yes … There is … I would like to find that one, and that love was mutual and forever.
It would seem that there are enough men and it costs nothing to defeat each of them in a simple feminine way (okay, okay, very cunning and in some places ingenious). But where is the happiness?
At first, you can still hold out on the heady feeling of victory over his unapproachable heart. And then … Sooner or later the hops pass, and sober and boring everyday life sets in. And the breath is no longer breathtaking, and the butterflies in the stomach seem to fall asleep. What was passed off as love for him (usually directly proportional to the strength of his own imagination) evaporates without a trace, and his love and desire to tie the knot no longer excites you.
And it already seems that he is somehow not like that. Well, he is, he just pretended to be someone else to seem better, but in fact nothing special. This is the whole point. The only strange thing is that with each candidate, history stubbornly repeats itself. Well, nothing, the hope of finding the perfect exception has not died yet.
But wait. Before you go on another date, you should think: is it about men at all?
Stranger among their own
In order to avoid inappropriate preachings, let's look at the problem from a different angle. Let's try to figure out the motives for this behavior, which in all respects differs from the generally accepted female. Of course, let's not forget about the realities of modern society, in which the way of life is everyone's personal choice. But at the same time, there is a number of unshakable dogmas, sewn into the general genetic code of the entire human race, over which neither time, nor progress, nor social transformations have power.
According to one of them, a woman is called to be a mother, wife and keeper of the hearth. That is why many of the fair sex to this day do not feel full when they do not meet at least one of these criteria. And most of them continue to fulfill the long-established female role of mother and wife, slightly adapting it to rapidly changing conditions.
According to Yuri Burlan's System-Vector Psychology, an anal-visual woman most of all wants to be a wife, a keeper of a hearth and a caring mother. Faithful and devoted, she will love only her husband all her life, she will be happy to raise children, pass on family traditions to them, and bring them up sensually.
But there are special skin-visual women who do not aspire to become mothers, and sometimes wives, with their non-standard worldview, they fit perfectly into the picture of the modern world. However, their position in life did not arise yesterday. They have been like that since the day people began to count down their intelligent existence.
Let's take a closer look at their psyche using the system-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan.
Love to survive
Oh, these women require special attention. You can write whole volumes about their role in the fate of humanity, the development of culture, and about themselves as the embodiment of love. This is a big topic in the history of all times and peoples.
In order to give a short and understandable definition, suffice it to say that the skin-visual woman is the opposite of a woman. An inalienable feature of a woman is motherhood, and she was deprived of this joy due to her nature. Now modern medicine has advanced so far that it helps such women to give birth. But they are still naturally devoid of maternal instinct.
More recently, a man chose a woman exclusively for procreation. And the woman depended on the man, without her own realization in society for many centuries. The situation changed about a hundred years ago, and now a woman may well provide for herself without the participation of a man.
But in those ancient times, a man chose the continuer of the family as his wife, and the skin-visual beauty had a very hard time. Fortunately, the lack of reproductive function was compensated by increased sensitivity and the gift of seduction, which allowed her to receive protection and life support from a man at least for a while. She created a special emotional connection with a man. At the moment of intimacy, she felt herself out of danger, which is why her innate fear of death passed into the opposite state - into love. Such genuine and sincere feelings did not leave any man indifferent.
But let's return to our time, where our heroine continues to spin the head of all men indiscriminately. However, the question of a long and lasting relationship remains open to her. Why?
Pheromones of love
And again we turn to the system-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan. It turns out it's all about the smell. But not in the literal sense. We are talking about smells that we perceive unconsciously - about pheromones of attraction.
When a skin-visual woman is in a state of war (attuned to seduction), then she exudes a special, attractive smell for men. Everyone wants her. And that man will be chosen, whose scent most of all instills in her a sense of security and safety, under the influence of which her inherent fears will disappear.
Mutual physical attraction is the basis for building relationships and the basis for the emergence of love. It seems that it will last forever, completely on its own, without much effort, and this is a strong delusion. The scent of a man will act on a beautiful muse for a maximum of three years, and then she will get used to it, and fears will return.
And then she will embark on a new search. Only one exception in the form of a prince with an urethral vector can awaken eternal love. But you shouldn't really count on this, because there are vanishingly few urethral men, and therefore efforts will have to be made for a long and happy life with a partner.
Nothing boded love
Is it good for him to be with me? Few people think about this, but it is with this question that a happy relationship begins. We often abuse the expression of a man's feelings and adopt a passive consumer position according to the principle “say thank you that I, so beautiful, are next to you”. Allowing yourself to be loved without reciprocal action - knowingly doom the relationship to failure.
Attraction is not love, and it is limited in time. Falling in love is a feeling caused by an excess of accumulated emotions, transient and fickle. It has more self-admiration and expectations of attention to oneself than true love. Love is born in action, attention to your soul mate.
The very first and foremost thing is to create an emotional connection. Any woman in the modern world can potentially build an emotional connection, and a woman with a skin-visual ligament can master this art perfectly and often intuitively uses it. The initiator of the creation of trust is always a woman, and a man miraculously reveals himself in response. This is the very case when the two of them manage to create a separate universe of intimate revelations, intimate secrets and small rituals known only to both of them.
Sensual and emotional background is extremely important and will at least remain in the hearts of a bright, unforgettable experience. To continue the fairy tale in reality, you need to work with your soul.
Love is sacrifice. To create a strong relationship, we stop being self-admiring in the entourage of romantic encounters and begin to pay attention to his desires. He loves home coziness and comfort - let's use our sense of beauty and give a head start to designers in the decoration of the house. On the contrary, he hates everyday things - we reduce the annoying factor to a minimum and think more about joint leisure, understanding what your partner really needs. The skin vector is psychologically flexible, which means that it will not be difficult to adapt to its preferences.
Evolution of love
If you recognize yourself in the form of a lovely heartbreaker, but are ready to reincarnate into a loving devoted friend of life, then you should reconsider your tactics right now. There is interesting work ahead, but it will be tremendous pleasure when you see the results of your efforts. It inspires you to become even more committed to building fulfilling, perfect relationships.
The visual vector, regardless of your knowledge of its existence, gives an excellent opportunity to emotionally feel the state of a person, and this is an invaluable advantage. But complete success is guaranteed if you understand your chosen one, not in the sense of individual words and deeds, but on a deeper level - at the level of the hidden unconscious that lives for them. In this case, you even know those of his desires that he himself has no idea about. It's hard to believe, but thousands of reviews show that it is possible:
Today the world is changing rapidly: we do not have time to keep up with technical innovations, the Internet has turned into an additional reality, and the volume of our psyche has grown significantly over the past hundred years. However, we are just learning to build strong emotional bonds in a couple.
Yuri Burlan's system-vector psychology offers a unique opportunity to be among those who already possess this skill perfectly.
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