Practical psychology 2024, November
Every time people treat me with sympathy, anxiety settles in their souls: what if they get to know me better and their opinion of me will change for the worse? The tension and fear are so strong that it's easier to avoid contact altogether than to experience the pain of the thought that I have disappointed someone. Surprisingly, sometimes it seems that to please another person is even worse than not to like him
Why is sex and is it really needed? For some, it all starts with attraction. Exciting touch. Passion, indescribable thrill. He and she are alone. The feeling that you are desired, merging with whoever you desire. Sex with a loved one is the highest pleasure that a person can experience. But these experiences are not familiar to everyone. In the modern world there are entire communities of people who do not know what sex is for and consider it a relic of the past
Man and woman - the psychology of the relationship of such different representatives of humanity worries, probably, everyone. Many novels and poems, scientific works and psychological bestsellers have been written about them. But the question remains. And over the past thousand years it has not become clearer how they can understand each other and find a common language. An exhaustive answer is given by the System-Vector Psychology of Yuri Burlan
“I am writing you a letter because I don’t know what to do with all this. What should we do with our life? A wedge of white light has converged on you. My whole life is in you. I love you so much that I lose my footing when you touch me. I am bursting with happiness that you are and you are next to me. When we are together, I am in endless euphoria, drunk from emotions that take somewhere in the sky
The investigative and operational group works at the scene. The militiamen are unusually sullen. I can't hear the usual "black" jokes, loud cursing, shouts. This is because the case is not an ordinary one: their colleague died. The body of a young man in uniform lies on the floor in one of the toilet cubicles. Nearby, in a spreading pool of blood, his service pistol and his mobile phone
Misunderstanding, condemnation, insults, ridicule and offensive nicknames … Any guy who is very different from others has known this palette of relationships from childhood. A feminine guy often gets almost a double portion of all this "pleasure". Not only is he different from other boys, he is also "like a girl." Growing up and advice “to be a man” does not solve the problem. Where to such?
Etiquette. Who needs these outdated aristocratic conventions? Even the rules of modern etiquette are far from being known to everyone, as is the very fact of the existence of such a concept - modern etiquette. And yet reality proves: the more successful a person is in life, the more rules and restrictions he observes. Strange, isn't it? But first things first
They were crazy about each other. They could not live a minute apart, but it didn't just end - everything depreciated, turning into its dark side
"You're fired!" - once again, like a razor blade, this phrase cut your ambitions to shreds. And if you heard this for the first time, then perhaps you would find an excuse for what happened. But it happens all the time. Regardless of who and where you work, every time after a short time, either you are fired or you leave yourself, as you are forced to do it
The uselessness of existence no longer lies like a concrete slab on his soul
Until the moment I got to the training in system-vector psychology, I did not understand that you can live differently
Yes, you belong to me. I settled in your heart for the first time when you decided that your mother loves her little sister more than you. Every day I strengthened this conviction in you, nurtured it and nourished it. But what about? I had to grow. As a child, you did not understand what drives your actions. I needed you to remain a little hurt child forever. Because then it's easier for me to control you
I love you with all my soul. How to get closer to you? I want to share my thoughts with you. Get them from the most intimate corners. Only the purest, only the most faithful, only the most accurate, who come suddenly, when you don't expect them, in a rush
He is sophisticated, bright, knows how to take care of himself, and will always give advice on what shade of blue is in trend this season
The dim light of everyday life often lacks bright colors and emotions, as well as lightness, carelessness and fun. Fatigue knocks you down, you want to rest, relax and forget. Let everything go to hell, and all questions disappear and stop worrying! Down with problems and worries! Long live unbridled fun and laughter
Intercourse between a man and a woman is a great magic and pleasure. Intimacy is a significant part of our enjoyment of life. Naturally, this topic worries us and gives rise to many questions: How to behave when intimacy occurs between you for the first time? How to behave so that the relationship never cools down and brings both maximum pleasure? What to do if there are clamps, complexes, fears? Comprehensive answers are given by the training "System-vector psychology" by Yuri Burlan
Fragment of the lecture notes for the Second Level on the topic "Sexuality": We live in a new world. We, of course, have a relationship of continuity with past generations, but in relation to us, past generations lived in a completely different way even some 100 years ago. We can't even be guided by mom and dad, let alone grandparents
A person behaves differently with different people
Ah, if I had ignored those psychology books for women! If I trusted my own feelings! Then everything would have gone differently
Heavy on the heart, disgusting. A conversation with a friend left a bitter aftertaste: a feeling of resentment and annoyance, thoughts constantly revolve around her words. Neither forget nor throw it out of my head. I can't even sleep. And at least she could not remember in half an hour what they were quarreling about
Many couples go through the exciting preparations for Valentine's Day every year
You told me "sit down", told me "get up", Then the smart one was tired and lay down on the sofa. I understood - this is a hint, I catch everything on the fly, But it is not clear what exactly you meant. From the song of the group "Accident"
Frigidity I made this diagnosis to myself when I was 18 years old, when I was desperate to enjoy sex. No, I won't say that there was no pleasure at all. Something was, but small, insignificant compared to what is described in the books that my sister and I under the covers as a child with a flashlight whispered
The next day (after the wedding) Volodya Zavitushkin went to the civilian department after work and got divorced. They were not even surprised there. - This, - they say, - nothing happens. So they lit up. M. Zoshchenko. Wedding incident
Sadly, it happens that relationships with men do not work out, and that's it. Everything is falling apart just before our eyes. Either right after the first date, or after a while there comes a feeling that this is not my option. And good, and smart, even kind and cheerful, and he likes me, but alas … the beginning of the end is already visible. And the one who is interesting to me is not at all interested in me
Have you ever wanted to understand what kind of women men like? To clearly see the psychological differences between a man and a woman and not to guess what a woman should be in order to get the desired attitude from a man, but to know it for sure. Have you ever experienced a wild, impossible despair from not understanding the psychology of love between a man and a woman? Feel complete emotional powerlessness, seeing the results of their actions, which turned out to be so far from expectations?
Women without a male society fade, and men without women become stupid. Anton Pavlovich Chekhov There is a great woman behind every great man. English proverb At the presentation of any award, the presentation of a new book or movie, the opening of a gallery or exhibition, you can hear the hero of the occasion speak, in which he first of all thanks his soul mate
You love your girlfriend, she's like you too, but as soon as she smiles broadly at her former classmate, there is an explosion inside you! Jealousy drives you crazy, even if you lock it at home! System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan knows a more constructive way of how to stop being jealous of a girl and start going crazy over each other
Foolish heart, don't fight. We are all deceived by happiness … Sergei Yesenin The pain of unrequited love for a person cuts the heart like a knife. Piercing longing torments the soul. How many times do you turn to the silent heavens the same question: how to stop loving the person who does not need you? And why in general is it given to me to love a person if it is not destined to be with him? Heaven is silent, and you are still alone with your love, which looks more like a serious illness
Love has passed, everyday life has stuck, and an inner voice hints that it's time to live for your own pleasure? Feel like you're not ready for a serious relationship? Click on the button "Advice from specialists in system-vector psychology". We will tell you how to break up with a girl without unnecessary nerves, tantrums and pangs of conscience
People meet, fall in love … and get married. True, not always. Sometimes it also happens that the development of paired relationships ultimately leads us to the need to part. And this is not always easy, because we are so different! And if the question of how to break up with a guy is so urgent for you, then it is obvious that it is difficult for either of you two to accept the changes that are taking place
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The phone call deafens the space of your room, where a minute ago everything was full of unspoken longing and vague either premonitions or desires … This call knocked you out of limbo, and your heart beat sweetly, as if reminding you that life is beautiful when there is someone be in love! An insinuating male voice in the receiver either whispered or sang that he was now very bad … And with a half-joking intonation he added: “Come, kitten. To console the poor … artist "
She is a fragile, delicate body and at the same time a persistent woman, he is a drunken alcoholic
It's a shame, isn't it? And it is doubly offensive when you want to figure out why, and he interrupts you at the beginning of the phrase. - Well, what did I say so boring? - All leave me alone. - Well, all the same? - This is already boring and is! .. Ten years of marriage, ten years of understatement, under-negotiation. Although for someone like! He thinks that he did not just speak, but said too much, but listened to even more
A year of waiting
Closing the door, your loved one left. Gone and will never return. And you can paint yourself a lot of pictures: what if everything were different? What if you were different? Would you remain that very one and only for him, as when he said that he loved and that you are together forever? But from the fact that you ask all these questions, nothing will change
We lived like everyone else
You so want tenderness, affection and just the feeling that you are the most desirable for him, and instead he is rude. You were sick of his criticism and undeserved reproaches against you. You try so hard to please him in everything, but for him friends and his beloved mother come first. For their sake, he is ready for anything, but he does not consider your interests. You are always in last place for him. Are you tired of his rudeness and absolutely not funny jokes
He was always interested in various esoterics, spiritual practices, teachings and philosophies