Faces of hatred. Why beauty can no longer save the world
Against the background of high hostility, hatred and aggression, we also observe outbursts of selfless labor for the sake of other people. We see a willingness and desire to help those in need without reward, sometimes even without gratitude, and in some cases even at the risk of our own lives …
Ice and fire of our hearts
The residents of the house banned the construction of a ramp for children with disabilities … The
parents of the students achieved the dismissal of a teacher who brought her daughter with Down syndrome to class …
An enraged driver beat a pregnant woman who refused to give him way, and no one stopped him … The
teenagers beat to death a homeless old man …
There are a lot of similar incidents. Each outburst of hostility is exaggerated on social networks, acquiring their supporters and opponents, many consider it their duty to speak out on this matter, and to a greater extent it is those who support the aggressor.
At the same time, we are witnessing numerous volunteer movements, on whose help social institutions are counting today even more than on state aid. Orphanages, large families, oncology departments, nursing homes, lonely old people, refugees and even the army are provided with the necessary things through volunteers.
Against the background of high hostility, hatred and aggression, we also observe outbursts of selfless labor for the sake of other people. We see a willingness and desire to help those in need without reward, sometimes even without gratitude, and in some cases at the risk of our own lives.
What caused this contrast? Someone will say that all this is exaggerated, that the colors are deliberately exaggerated and everything is not so catastrophic. Another will assure that it has always been like this, at all times there have been scoundrels and people capable of compassion. And, of course, there will be those who will ask why talk about it at all, why raise the issue if it still cannot be resolved, they say, the time is now and it just needs to be lived through. The purpose of this article is to highlight what is happening from the standpoint of the system-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan and, possibly, cause a desire to change something.
Understanding in detail how the car drives, sometimes there is a desire to get behind the wheel. So here too - the awareness of the clear mechanisms of what is happening gives rise to a desire to influence the situation. The main thing is to know how.
It's one step from love to hatred
System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan clearly and vividly explains the fact that high sensitivity, even sacrifice, the ability to compassion, empathize have a common root with the most frank indifference, callousness and complete inability to share the feelings of another person. And there is nothing contradictory in this. It is a person with a visual vector, who from birth has a high emotional amplitude, the ability to experience, manifest and feel the emotional state of another, who can both develop these psychological properties in himself and remain at the most primitive level - the consumer of emotions.
The development of innate qualities occurs before the end of puberty, and then the existing properties are realized at the level to which they managed to develop in childhood. An emotional and extroverted visual child himself loves to be in the spotlight, bathe in applause, and attract glances. Very often, parents support this behavior, being moved by and admiring their own child. Of course, there is nothing wrong with children's matinees and school concerts, problems begin when it is precisely attracting attention to oneself that becomes a priority in any activity, turning into the goal of life.
The skill of consuming emotions in the style of "look at me", "love me", "admire me", "admire me" does not require much effort, this is the elementary level of development of the visual vector, a primitive that does not need to learn for a long time, you can simply use …
Conversely, the ability to give back emotions and feelings can be developed, but this requires certain steps, efforts, exit from the zone of psychological comfort, requiring a shift in focus from "give me" to "take mine."
The snag in the upbringing of modern children is also in the fact that they obviously have a greater development potential than their parents. This means that the enjoyment of realization at a lower level is not able to satisfy the needs of complex, potentially highly organized personalities, which are born of modern children. Such a temperament requires the embodiment of their properties at the highest and most complex level, only then their activities bring them pleasure, only in this case they feel the fullness of life, joy, happiness.
A person fixated on himself will still feel a lack, a lack of realization, and try to get, “fulfill” the existing potential in any other way, often slipping into fears, superstitions, tantrums, panic attacks and other psychological problems.
The erroneous education of visual children of such a high temperament leads to the fact that a whole generation of indifferent, busy only with their own person, narcissists, who are not capable of such complex feelings as love, compassion, empathy, desperately fighting for attention to themselves from society with an outrageous appearance, appears. behavior, statements and others.
Against the background of such spectators, those who nevertheless received development to a high level - the ability to compassion - manifest themselves even more clearly. These are people who are ready for real actions for the sake of another person, they acutely feel their desire and ability to share emotions, share grief, suffering, help those who need help, who need support, who are in trouble. A developed visual person receives great satisfaction from such an activity, even if it is not his main place of work.
Fulfilling the duties of a volunteer, doing charity work, social programs, voluntary help to those in need, the visitor realizes innate psychological properties at a high level, receiving fulfillment from the return. Thinly feeling the emotional state of his charges, he feels how it changes as a result of his work, he clearly observes the fruits of his labor, he provides help, bears good, realizes his need for love for people, for the whole world. And this fills him more than anything else.
Transition period
The current skin phase of human development is marked by the peak of the development of culture - the contribution that the spectators make to the general mental of society. At all times, it was visual culture, morality, morality that were those values that were instilled in each person by society, increasing with each generation the value of human life and thereby reducing the general collective hostility.
However, humanity never stands still. Today, the influence of visual culture is becoming insufficient. The potential in each vector grows with each new generation, which means that shortages grow in the absence of an opportunity or ability to realize oneself. All this entails an increase in the level of dislike. We hate everyone around us because we feel inner suffering. We feel bad and they are to blame for this.
Not understanding the ongoing internal psychological processes, we always justify ourselves and blame others (circumstances, relatives, bosses, anyone). Receiving a vision of the mechanisms for the development of hostility, we begin to realize the true reasons that lie precisely in ourselves, in the peculiarities of our perception of the world, world perception, and world outlook. Along with this, the desire to look for the guilty disappears, and an understanding of how to change your life comes. This is exactly what happens in Yuri Burlan's trainings on system-vector psychology.
The negative states of each vector affect the general mental state of society. Today, the only vector that does not get the opportunity to fully realize oneself is sound. Until a significant step in the development of this vector is made, more and more sound engineers will not be able to fully realize themselves. Their bad conditions will continue to affect the whole society, manifesting themselves as depression, drug addiction, and suicide.
But even without a sound vector, people often do not feel filled to the end, absolutely happy, do not receive full joy from their lives. The era of consumption is moving towards its end and this is felt by general satiety, fatigue from the accumulation of social and material goods. People want something more, more meaningful than a fat wallet. The absence of global ideas is felt by the inner emptiness and meaninglessness of being. Not as sharp as it is in the soundtracks, but still.
The dissatisfaction of sound specialists affects the state and visual culture as a whole. It loses its role in reducing the level of general dislike. This is more noticeable in the post-Soviet space, in contrast to Western countries, where mass culture has been formed, accessible and present in all strata of the population. We have always developed a culture of elite, refined and intelligent, giving the world the most famous poets, writers, painters, sculptors, theater and ballet workers. The previous development of a culture of this level in modern conditions is a rather problematic process, because it is illiquid, completely and absolutely insolvent, which means its development is futile.
Building our own lives, we change the world
Almost none of us is ready, and does not seek to change the world around us, but each of us wants to feel good, to feel joy, fullness of life, to be happy. We come to Yuri Burlan's training in system-vector psychology in order to solve our own problem, which, in our opinion, does not allow us to fully open up, prevents us from breathing deeply and living as we want. As a result, we get a systemic thinking, which not only allows us to independently solve this problem, but gives answers to a million unasked, but extremely important questions for us.
Self-knowledge for a modern person significantly expands his ability to realize his own potential. We don't know a lot about ourselves, we don't realize even more, we try to fight with others, adjusting ourselves to a certain ideal, a stereotype or an image of a successful person invented by us ourselves.
Suffering from emptiness in any vector brings pain, but we often splash emptiness in the visual vector on our nearest and dearest. The viewer is not capable of keeping everything to himself by nature. Our loved ones suffer from our tantrums and scandals, fears and panic attacks exhaust our emotional sphere, devastating even more, we are rocked from exaltation to ostentatious suicides, and the state is getting worse and worse.
Understanding the nature of the visual vector, the essence of emotions and feelings, the mechanism for filling psychological properties, you are able to choose exactly the option that satisfies as much as possible. What happens then? For starters, the biochemistry of the brain's neurotransmitters comes into a balanced state that feels like enjoyment. The innate properties of the psyche receive their fulfillment, you realize your full potential, feeling satisfaction, joy, happiness. It is happiness, not euphoria! Real happiness, because it is with sadness. Happiness that makes you want to cry.
By removing your bit from the common cauldron of hostility, you are already thereby reducing the general level of hatred that is raging in society today. In addition, any creative activity brings benefits to society, and the activity of a modern spectator itself is aimed at another person, at helping, empathy, compassion, sympathy and love for a neighbor, someone who is in need, suffers or suffers deprivation, who is worse. than you.
Giving away a piece of his heart, a person with a visual vector fills himself, and the greater the return, the more intense the filling. The visual heart is a bottomless source of love that hurts when overflowing. By realizing yourself, you make yourself happy, but at the same time you are gradually changing the world for the better. Sounds incredible? However, this has already been experienced by thousands of participants in the training on system-vector psychology by Yuri Burlan.
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