Practical psychology 2024, November

Someone else's trouble is not my problem

Will a healthy lifestyle help me stay healthy? “It's a strange question,” you say. - A healthy lifestyle is intended for this! " Now, as never before, mankind has gotten into the taste of preserving health and prolonging youth. This is a massive phenomenon in the West. Everyone, regardless of age, is jogging or Nordic walking. Fitness clubs and spa centers grow like mushrooms. Various diets, healthy food are of interest to literally everyone. It seems that humanity has finally found an answer

If you set yourself a goal and remember, then among our friends there are many people who often joke

Already that day the soul hurts

Why wasn't I born in the days of Jim Morrison and Aldous Huxley? I would dance barefoot on the grass to the hypnotic rhythms of the Jefferson Airplane, celebrating freedom of spirit and equality. There is no gray life, no narrow perception - there is only music as a part of human life! Where is now this paradise that cannot be recreated?

Part 1 And remember: no zoologist knows what kind of animal it is. Sofia Parnok

Part 1. Childhood: house on First Meshchanskaya at the end Where are your seventeen years old? On Bolshoy Karetny. Where are your seventeen troubles? On Bolshoy Karetny. Where is your black pistol? On Bolshoy Karetny. Where are you not today? On Bolshoy Karetny

Part 1 - Part 2 To love is to see a person the way God intended him and did not fulfill his parents. Marina Tsvetaeva

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I Insensitive brute! I love you, he says, but your face is stone! If only that! He brought me to hysterics, and then, like an instinct, repeated "I love you", then he locked himself in his closet and spent a day in solitude! Where is Love? I put on a new dress. Spun and so and so - does not see! Point blank! He doesn't notice me at all! Sits among the books and his calculators - so that they all burn out - for days on the Internet! Let him die himself

On a warm autumn day, a "party" gathered on the playground, as usual. All mothers and children have known each other for a long time, and the topics of daily conversations hardly go beyond the framework of "how my day ate, played, what he said." The monotony of parenting everyday life and such conversations thanks to the training System-vector psychology was transformed for me into fascinating systemic observations

The plane, ready to take it on a long-awaited vacation, was just taxiing for landing, and the passengers already felt that worries and problems remained behind the turnstiles. It was as if they had set foot on another planet, where the attraction was less and each step became like a light ballet step, and their thoughts were focused on that joyful, which is simply but succinctly called vacation. Vacation from everyday, familiar, and maybe not very happy life

Emotional games are a puzzle that sometimes falls out of sight when raising a child

Remember there were boys at school who didn't respond to their names? The name Yegor, which has now become familiar, sounded in my generation as overly extravagant

Childhood Jealousy: Elder vs. Younger When preparing for the birth of their second child, one of the many concerns of parents is the thought of how the firstborn will get along with the future brother or sister. Conversations, persuasions, explanations that a newborn will require a lot of strength and attention … All this often does not help at all to avoid the appearance of such a feeling as childhood jealousy

“… We think, sometimes, naively believing, That we are destined to throw stones only. But, all the same, the time comes like a boomerang, When we reap what has risen. " From the poem "Boomerang" by Vitaly Tunnikov

"Your child is retarded!" - the verdict sounded in the ears of the parents of eight-year-old Ishan Avasti

Parenting Secrets - Kid on the Roof: Future Violinist or Rapist? When a baby is born, each parent is sure that his immeasurable love is enough for happiness in the family and mutual understanding with the child. It seems to us that we will unravel all the secrets of raising children intuitively … When a baby is born, each parent is sure that his immeasurable love is enough for happiness in the family and mutual understanding with the child. I

As a rule, if parents began to read articles about how to adapt a child to school, it means that they faced serious problems. We do not grab our heads and look for an answer until a roasted cock pecks us. Life itself pushes us to find answers

In this new era of women's rights, we have come to a point where everyone must recognize the need to make difficult choices. (E. LeShan. When your child drives you crazy)

“First grader, first grader, you have a holiday today

Today the world is becoming global, we are all connected. If earlier bird flu in some China would hardly have aroused the interest of someone other than virologists, today the whole world shudders with horror from such news. All bad, as well as good, instantly spreads across our blue planet. And although everyone today is a personality and individuality, we are all in undeniable dependence on each other

Early childhood autism is considered a poorly understood disorder. Because autism has multiple symptoms and signs, different approaches are being sought to treat it. For their part, the parents of an autistic child are looking for something to rely on. They are striving to find a verified scheme according to which effective treatment of autism is carried out. Is there such a scheme and where to find it? How to cure autism in a child and to what extent is this diagnosis amenable to treatment?

Children's autism, the correction of which requires a whole range of measures, still remains a disorder not fully understood. Parents strive to grab at any "straw", use all possible methods and techniques for the successful treatment and rehabilitation of an autistic child. Therefore, the correction of autism today is most often based on the work of a whole team of specialists (doctors, psychologists, correctional teachers)

A doctor in the resuscitation car is holding the head of a 16-year-old patient with an awkward, "ragged" hairdo. The girl cut her hair in defiance of her pimp when he sent her to sexual abuse to another client

You will not find this meaning of the word "point" in the dictionary

The time has passed when any "deviations" in the child's behavior were decided to be solved with the help of father's belt or mother's tears

You raise and nurture your child in the hope that he will grow up and meet all your aspirations, be happier than you. She will receive an excellent education, become a great person, meet a good decent girl, be happy in the family, give you grandchildren … Isn't this a dream of any parent! We all want children to be healthy and happy. It all ends in one moment when you learn the news that breaks your heart - your child is a drug addict

The last call … Such a letter, of course, is unlikely to ever see the light of day, but if it were written, it would look something like this: Hello, Mom

Why can't things be the same? Why don't they love each other anymore? What happened? Maybe it's my fault? I don't want to choose just one of them! I want everything to be the same. So that we would laugh together and play, so that they would go for a walk in the park and they would hold my hands - on the one hand, my mother, and on the other, my father, and so that I would jump, and they would lift me up by the arms. Together, together, my parents, mom and dad. Is always! You are welcome

What are children for us? Their appearance radically changes our life, dividing it into stages "before" and "after". We begin to understand that all our concerns are now connected only with children: about their health, appetite, mood, activities, relationships with friends, teachers, their school success, their development and upbringing

Imagine that you go into your child's room, and there it is as if Mamai was walking

Is it possible to hate a child

You are tired of the fact that your child lies, fidgets and dodges, and when you try to punish him, you find that he starts to lie even more! Your outrage at this behavior has reached the limit. But no methods of influence help. It’s good if he doesn’t start to steal, otherwise it’s possible … Indeed, there are children who easily tell lies. And there are those who, under no circumstances, are not capable of twisting their souls. Why? And how to get honesty from the child?

Nowadays, the famous Olympic slogan "Faster, Higher, Stronger" has acquired new meanings. After all, we live in a world of speed, when speed is valued in everything: in technology, in actions, in decision-making, since every second is precious. We adults live in a truly crazy pace. What about our children? Is it easy for them to grow up in the modern world?

Part I. The crisis of three years: the formation of the child's self-awareness Understanding the set of innate mental properties (vectors) of the baby, an adult helps him to pass the crisis of three years correctly - with positive "gains" in the development of the psyche

We are not mice, we are not birds, We are night ahi-fears! We fly, spin, catch up with horrors

“Lord, what is it? I can't take it anymore! Why are you so stubborn ?! Or are you just dumb and don't understand what I'm telling you? If you don't understand, then you need to put in a good belt