How to find a job and find yourself in work
You don't have to be a rare professional or have a lot of experience to find a good job, although, of course, professionalism is very important. It is important to understand that many employers are ready to educate their staff. That is not the main thing. What's the main thing?
Finding a job is often an exhausting process that lasts months or even years. How to find a job despite the crisis, age and strict selection of employers?
To uncover the secret of a successful job search, let's first figure out which employees the employer is interested in.
Everyone knows that cadres decide everything. And every employer will say that it is not easy to find an employee. The employer's goal is not to find employment for those who are concerned with finding a job, but to find the right person.
On the one hand, we have a lot of job seekers who cannot find a job, and on the other hand, employers have a problem finding valuable employees.
Who is the employer looking for
You don't have to be a rare professional or have a lot of experience to find a good job, although, of course, professionalism is very important. It is important to understand that many employers are ready to educate their staff. That is not the main thing. What's the main thing?
The secret of the irreplaceable
There are people who never have problems finding a job. The feeling is created that they are irreplaceable. It doesn't matter how young they are - they are in demand until old age.
Everyone can become such an irreplaceable employee and find a high-paying job at home or abroad by discovering and realizing what is inherent in him by nature.
How to recognize your talents and strengths, how to take advantage of them, and finally, how to find a job that will bring satisfaction? Answers to these questions at the training "System-vector psychology" by Yuri Burlan.
How can I find a job that is interesting and suitable for me?
Each person has innate mental features that allow them to ideally perform a certain job, enjoying it. Knowing yourself “from the inside”, it is easier to realize yourself professionally, find a suitable job, your unique place of work and specialty.
After all, people often find work in which they cannot reveal themselves. To work “in its place”, to be a specialist “from God” - this means that a person not only found a job, he found a place to realize his talents.
Let's take a few vectors as an example.
Skin vector (24% of people)
The properties of the skin vector are rationality, logic, discipline, the ability to subordinate and obey, limit oneself and others, optimize, save (time, money, effort, resources).
To find a good paid job, the owner of the skin vector needs to understand how to apply their qualities to other people. For example, he can become indispensable for the employer if he applies his desire to benefit and benefit not for himself personally, but for the entire enterprise. Will save the costs of the company, like his own, look for ways to increase profits.
If you have a skin vector, you can find a job in sales, the job of a supervisor, a middle manager is suitable for you.
Anal vector (20% of people)
The properties of the anal vector: analytical thinking, the desire to do everything efficiently, the desire to accumulate knowledge in the specialty, the desire to transfer experience and knowledge.
By correctly realizing his properties, the owner of the anal vector can become a high-class professional in his specialty; it will not be difficult for him to find a high-paying job.
Analyzing the activities of the company, making proposals for improving the quality, identifying errors, suggesting ways to solve them - this is invaluable for the employer. This is painstaking work that only the owner of the anal vector can do. He will find his calling in such work.
Why are many of these potential professionals unable to find permanent jobs in their specialty while employers complain about the shortage of qualified specialists? Because most of the owners of the anal vector do not know about their strengths, and other people's guidelines and advice do not help, but interfere with finding a job.
The owner of the anal vector is suitable for a job that requires perseverance, attentiveness, quality - "golden hands" or "golden head".
Visual vector (5% of people)
The properties of the visual vector are imaginative thinking, a sense of beauty, empathy, the ability to create emotional connections with people.
Finding interesting creative work is what a person with a visual vector strives for. If he has good taste, dresses well, he can use these qualities in his work. Finding such an opportunity is not difficult in the field of art and fashion. The work of a make-up artist, stylist, fashion consultant, designer, photographer and more is suitable for a visual person.
A higher level of realization of finely feeling visual people makes it possible to find a job that allows them to empathize, express and evoke emotions. These can be not only creative professions, for example, theater and cinema, but also medicine, participation in social projects.
Sound vector (5% of people)
The properties of the sound vector are abstract thinking, a tendency to concentrate, interest in the word, meanings, in everything hidden, metaphysical.
For the owner of the sound vector, it is very important to find in work not only income, but also the satisfaction of sound desires. His work should make sense. A sound engineer can create ideas, devote himself to their implementation. For example, create programs, Internet projects, develop IT technologies or science, write or translate texts (books, blogs, articles, scripts), write music.
So, knowledge of the characteristics of the psyche makes it possible to navigate in the choice of a field, to find a decent job. What else influences finding a good paid job?
Job search: what prevents to pass an interview
When looking for a job, you have found many articles about the need to make an effort to find a normal job yourself. You already know that you need to look for both online and with the help of dating, that you need to use job search sites and social networks, that you need to correctly compose a resume and actively send it out. You've already done all this, but you can't find a job yourself. What if it takes months and there is no result?
Consider the psychological reasons that prevent you from getting an interview and finding a normal job.
1. At the interview, fear and stupor cover
When you can't find a job for a long time, you feel in constant stress. In this state, at the interview, the person does not know how to stop being nervous.
For example, the owner of the anal vector may fall into a stupor. The brain seems to be paralyzing, this makes it difficult to clearly answer questions during an interview, present your strengths, and eventually find a job.
Fear grips the viewer in difficult situations. An employer is unlikely to like a hesitantly mumbling job seeker. Often uncertainty and shyness make it difficult to find the first job without experience.
What to do?
Psychologist's advice: you can increase stress resistance and get the skill of free and confident communication at the training "System-vector psychology" by Yuri Burlan. A strong self-control skill will not only help you find a job, but will also stay with you for life.
What can you do right now if the interview is on the nose, and your hands tremble treacherously? First, read the article How to stop being afraid.
Be sincere. It's better to alert you to your worries than to look silly during the interview. Sincerity disposes. It is for this reason that it is worth giving up deception and fraud during interviews and when writing a resume. Any discrepancy during the conversation with the employer will create mistrust and will not help to find a job.
Regardless of your excitement, talk about your real strengths, strengths, and experience (or lack thereof). Decent behavior will help you find a decent job.
2. It is difficult to find a job because deep down you don't want to work
And you can feel it in the interview. You may or may not be aware of this. Perhaps someone close to you insists that you find a job, gives advice on how to do it, but something inside you opposes this idea.
Even a simple temporary job makes you happy if you need money or really want to realize yourself. On the other hand, you can find flaws in any “good” job if you don't feel like working. Either the work schedule is not suitable, the place of work is not pleasant.
The reasons for reluctance can be different. For example, a sound engineer who is immersed in himself seems to want to find a job, but deep down he would like to isolate himself from people, noise and senseless, as he feels, fuss. The owner of the visual vector may feel a threat from people (social phobia), unconsciously trying to avoid contact with them. This also makes it difficult to pass an interview and find a job.
What to do?
Psychologist's advice: the reason that "sits" in the unconscious and blocks the search for a job can be found and eliminated by studying system-vector psychology. States are leveled, come back to normal, when there is an understanding of the structure of their own psyche, the deep reasons for their reactions.
The study of systemic vector psychology is the study of oneself and others, an understanding of one's desires and states. In a short period, this eliminates many psychological problems, allows you to understand yourself and find your dream job.
Get rid of the reasons that prevent you from finding a job
It happens that a person is not hired for unknown reasons. He is not shy at the interview, he really wants to find a job. It doesn't matter for him whether he is an official place of work or not, he agrees to any conditions, to any work schedule. Perhaps he is even an excellent specialist with great experience. Why can't he find a job?
When choosing a new employee, the employer is also guided by irrational feelings: “I liked it - I didn’t like it,” a pleasant feeling remained after the conversation or not, whether I want to deal with a person or not.
It will be difficult for a person with whom they do not want to deal with a new job.
The reason is his inner suffering, which he communicates to others with his smell (pheromones). Simply put, if a person is tormented by depression and fear, if he lives in grievances, phobias, those around him unconsciously feel this and avoid him.
Fortunately, the situation changes when lightness and joy come to the place of suffering. It is not difficult for a person who inspires overwhelming sympathy to find a job without experience, even if it is his first job.
Bad internal states are nothing more than unfulfilled desires:
- Depression, which completely discourages the desire to look for work, arises if the desires of the sound vector to cognition of oneself and the structure of the world are not filled. A depressive sound suppresses desires in other vectors, it becomes very difficult for a sound engineer to find a job to his liking - any work seems meaningless. But depression disappears as soon as the desires of the sound are fulfilled.
- Fear fetters the owner of the visual vector if he does not realize his enormous emotional potential. Conversely, the ability to direct emotions forever frees from fear.
Each vector is a whole system that can work harmoniously, or it can fail. When vectors are in order, I feel good, I am pleasant to others. When the system fails, I suffer and bring suffering to others. Just understanding how it works removes many bad conditions, and therefore allows you to become capable of realizing yourself in professional activities, to answer the question yourself - how to find a job.
After the training "System-vector psychology" people easily find work:
See for yourself by registering for the free online training "System-vector psychology" by Yuri Burlan. This knowledge will definitely help you understand your strengths and find a job for your soul. Registration by link.
