Psychological problems 2024, November

Every visual person is convinced that he is capable of great and bright love simply because he is the owner of the visual vector. In fact, this love often takes on bizarre forms that are far from real feelings. In this article, we'll talk about emotional pressure. What is emotional pressure and where does it come from? Emotional pressure is a state when we throw out on another person all the unspent amplitude of the visual vector, emotional exaltation under the sauce of l

She turned to his back and started kissing his neck with absolutely "Russian language"

Have you ever buried yourself in a cloud of her hair so that you wanted to sleep forever? And lips … When they touch your lips, it's like the first sip of wine after crossing the desert. Breasts … look at you like secret spotlights. Legs … it doesn't matter if they look like Greek columns or Steinway's legs. The main thing is what is in between. Pass to paradise

The dominant asexual sound vector affects the personal life of sound people to such an extent that many are already beginning to get lost and doubt - do I need a relationship at all? On the one hand, sound needs will always prevail over any others, on the other hand, there are no single-vector sound engineers, and “any other” needs have not been canceled

How to reveal your sexuality and fill your life with vivid experiences of moments of intimacy? Everything depends on the answer to this question in the literal sense

"I just want to be happy

“I can't say that sex has never interested me. Of course I was. But I refused the guys for a long time. Was waiting for her man. And so he appeared. I heard from other women that intimacy, orgasm is something incredible! There is no greater pleasure! I was anxiously waiting for this to happen. But when there was an intimacy between us, I did not feel anything special. Moreover, it was unpleasant for me

Well, how can a woman and a man understand each other, because they both want different things: a man wants a woman, and a woman wants a man

Once upon a time, the topic of sexual relations was not as open as it is today. A woman's desire to have an orgasm was not always perceived as natural, on the contrary, it was considered something abnormal, a problem. Fortunately, in his time Sigmund Freud removed the false accusations of promiscuity on women and initiated psychoanalysis

You stand in front of the mirror, choose a dress, everything is not right

American scientists believe that men think about sex about 19 times a day. Situations when the husband does not want sex in principle, apparently, did not fall into this statistics. The training "System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan" allows you to objectively see the whole kaleidoscope of male desires and states and return passion to a couple. Understanding why the husband has cooled down to sex, the woman will be able to fill the relationship with pleasure for both again

You fell in love with him at first sight, and (lo and behold!) Your feelings are mutual

Intimacy. Fear of failure for the first time Fear of intimacy with a woman, as a rule, arises in men who have a high libido, who have a special priority of family values, loyalty and purity. Every woman dreams of such a man … Failure at the first intimacy with a woman can undermine self-confidence for a long time, prevent the creation of relationships, and this happens quite often, and with those men who by nature have a great libido

“Twenty years of marriage, two children, and I'm still ashamed of my husband. It's a shame when he sees me naked. Because of this, I cannot relax during sex, I do not get pleasure from intimate relationships. " Many people - both men and women - are ashamed of their bodies, cannot appear naked in front of a loved one, or feel pinched during sex. And this is not such a harmless problem. Outwardly absolutely prosperous, they do not get the expected pleasure from life, because h

2 years ago, this room smelled of passion. Sexual attraction, like electricity, permeated two lovers, as soon as they meet their eyes or touch each other. Everything was so easy, relaxed and beautiful - it seemed that they were made for each other and will always be so. On those crazy nights, attraction kept me awake. The same sofa, the same fireplace, the same bed … The same two, still in love, just as beautiful and sexy. But where did that strong sexual attraction go?

"I'm tired, my head hurts, get up early, eat garlic, wake up the child!" The number of her excuses is growing every day. My wife doesn't want sex, and I'm climbing the wall. A man is a desire for a woman. What if there is no response from her to his desire?

Half-nun, half-harlot. I should have been born like that! How do I combine the incongruous? How do I live the non-living? Danilovtseva Ludmila

“I want an orgasm, but it doesn't work”, “An orgasm happens, but not the way I would like, and not every time

How to survive the betrayal of your husband? This is not just a question. This is pain tearing the soul and heart into small sharp fragments. It is difficult to find words to convey this difficult experience. I know from personal experience how ruthlessly and cynically the fact of her husband's betrayal deprives him of vitality

And that - tell me, for God's sake, Who should put your hands on your shoulders? The one from whom I was stolen, In revenge, she will also steal. He will not immediately answer with this, But he will live with himself in a struggle, And unconsciously he will outline

Relaxed by three glasses of champagne, she entered the subway car

"Hello! I'm 29 and I don't want kids. I am not selfish, I treat children well, they don’t irritate me, but I don’t want my own children. Even one. It may not be right, but I don’t want to lose myself and lose the life that I have. Everything would be fine, but my husband, with whom we had a great relationship before, seriously wanted a child. On the one hand, I don't want to lose my husband. On the other hand, maybe I'm crazy, but I don't want a child

How to let go of the past if it does not go away? Bumping into him on the street, at work, in a dream, and you can not think about anything else. Everything around him is poisoned by his betrayal. A dull, aching splinter in the heart does not allow breathing deeply, trusting life and moving forward. Yuri Burlan's training "System Vector Psychology" helps to restore peace of mind and the ability to build relationships

You don't want to be with him anymore

Jealousy is a painful feeling … The worm of doubt sometimes reaches such proportions that it seems that the jealous person suffocates himself and blocks the air for his beloved. A jealous person drives himself and his loved one to a frenzy. Relationships cannot live long in such incredible tension. Even the most resilient and stable threatens to fall into ruin

A fragile girl who does not know what tremendous powers are hidden in her soul. Her call was not unexpected. Excitedly, she told me that she tried to get away from him. But he does not give her things and documents. She didn’t cry, didn’t complain, she simply said: “I have nowhere to go, can I come to you?”

We have ceased to feel the value of a common table, we eat on the go, in front of the computer, on the way to work

“What suddenly came over me? Why did I do this? Lord, why am I such a fool ?! " Many important things often end this way or something like this. As if someone prompts stupid decisions, pushes to stupid actions that she herself "would never have done." It's time to figure out once and for all why this "someone" is always driving you into a dead end and arranging completely unnecessary adventures. The knowledge of the training by Yuri Burlan "System-vector psychology" will help in this

"So that her legs are no longer here!" The husband cannot stand his mother-in-law and is already openly rude to her. Everyone at home is between two fires. The training "System-Vector Psychology" by Yuri Burlan reveals: the most common cause of hostility between mother-in-law and son-in-law is failure in the delivery of emotions. To establish sensual logistics in the family and to reconcile people close to you will help to reveal the deep background of their dislike

He: I coped with my problems myself. Therefore, I wanted, hoped that you would cope with your problems yourself. I considered your problems to be housework, childcare, because I was completely immersed in work. I closed my eyes when you needed support, when you needed to cry, when you needed to comfort you and listen. I pretended not to notice your unspoken requests

Even if you're a thousand times right, what's the point if your woman is crying?

How to understand that my husband has stopped loving: it seems to me or is it the end?

With a smile on her face, Tanya carefully wrapped two large tubes of unpacked paste and a new toothbrush in a new pair of men's socks

How to make a man happy - this question worries every woman who loves her man and wants to maintain a relationship for many years. After a romantic period of beautiful courtship, declarations of love, bouquets, restaurants and joint travels, ordinary life begins when it begins to seem that the beloved husband has somehow grown cold and distant. And sometimes anxiety squeezes the heart - what if he stopped loving? What if I'm doing something wrong? And how to make him always feel good next to me?

What to do when a couple's relationship is declining? When wormholes have accumulated that destroy your love: quarrels, boredom, or just a monotonous life. How to give new life to relationships, to preserve them, to make them deep and stable? There is a way to maintain a relationship - to learn to see the soul of your partner, to know his every thought, every movement of the heart in the same way as you managed to study moles on the body or facial features

In a big city, you feel loneliness so keenly! Everyone is running somewhere, it seems that nobody cares about you. And I want spiritual, human warmth. To have a beloved man nearby: strong, kind, dear. But how to meet him in this human anthill? Where and how to meet a man for a serious relationship?

Sometimes we get lost when it comes to feelings. Especially about that mysterious, intimate thread that connects a man and a woman. How do you know how your partner really feels about you? How to distinguish true love from falling in love, sympathy, attraction on his part?

Warm, fine day. An elderly man and woman are sitting on a bench in the park. They feed the pigeons and talk quietly about something. Their faces are so bright, in their eyes there is tenderness, happiness, love. Here a man, leaning on a stick, helps his companion to rise, carefully takes her arm. Slowly, they stroll around the fountain. You watch them, and from overwhelming feelings involuntarily tickles in your throat

It is difficult to entrust this pain even to a mother or best friend: “My husband does not love me, does not want me, he does not need me

I will never forget how on May 9 one of the classes decided to dance the cancan. A young trainee, a future teacher of literature, could not understand what was so embarrassing to me. There was something wild about these unbridled dances on the day when sad songs are sung and tears are shed in memory of the war. Then it was difficult for me to understand and formulate