Waiting for love. Who should take the first step, man or woman?
Any relationship, including between a man and a woman, develops according to an exact formula determined by our nature. Each couple has their own requirements for a partner, sometimes they are not even realized. Nevertheless, "ignorance of the law does not exempt …".
Fashion magazines strongly urge women to remain a mystery. And to men, Alexander Pushkin himself commanded the well-known "the less we love a woman, the easier she likes us." So who, then, should take the first step? And how to establish a relationship with a guarantee of mutual unlimited happiness?
How a relationship begins
My heart skipped a beat, the color rushed into my face, my tongue began to braid. Those around who noticed this will slyly grin and purr: “Love will come by accident …” What really happened?
The system-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan for the first time unravels the mystery of the origin of love, giving a chance to build an unusually sensual, strong relationship, unknown even to Shakespeare.
More often than not, it all starts with passion. This is a natural attraction at an unconscious level. The outbreak of feeling signals that, in theory, this person is ideal to build a relationship with him, both sexual and the highest.
On the fuel of sexual attraction, you can last up to three years. Some manage to get married and give birth to a child. That's what Mother Nature is counting on. Passion is needed for people with disabled brain hormones to do the main thing - to continue the human race. But what about big and light?..
Any relationship, including between a man and a woman, develops according to an exact formula determined by our nature. Each couple has their own expectations from the partner, sometimes they are not even realized. Nevertheless, "ignorance of the law does not exempt …".
A man unconsciously expects feelings from a woman. It is her task - to initiate the emergence and development of an emotional connection in a relationship. Simply put, a woman “feeds” - shares her innermost feelings, her experiences, thoughts and feelings - and he already “beats off”.
A woman expects from a man clear signs that he is ready to bear responsibility for her - to feed, dress … She longs to feel a sense of security and safety. This is the base. If a man is greedy and afraid, the mirage of falling in love instantly dissipates.
This is the psychology of man and woman, sincere emotional impulses. Problems begin when He and She begin to "soundly" think about who owes what to whom.
No chance, no options …
Both He and She in a relationship follow false attitudes that destroy the relationship.
The woman tries to keep her mouth shut and in every possible way hide her worries from the man. Like, you need to remain a mystery, and indeed, to take the initiative - bad manners. The emotional impulse, the responsibility for which lies entirely with the woman, does not arise, and the man loses interest.
Men are warned to spend money on the chosen one. And now He arranges a test for "lice" - will vaunted love live without material wealth? It turns out it won't. After all, it was nature itself that endowed women with the desire to receive alimony from a man and a sense of security, because in the future, She will walk pregnant for nine months, and then give birth and feed the baby.
Thus, both are not ready to fulfill their direct duties as a couple. And even the spark of natural attraction that has arisen is extinguished.
Request for happiness
Relationship failure is a huge problem. "Where to find a partner?" - Ask people living in cities with hundreds of thousands and even millions of inhabitants.
The problem is not that there are no normal men and women left. It's just that we, remembering well our bad experience and following false attitudes, deprive ourselves of the chance to be happy.
System-vector psychology tells us the important components of mutual happiness: how to find that one, the only one with which you want to live your whole life, and how from the first sparks of attraction to create a large and warm heart of love that will unite you in any life circumstances. Free online training will help you look into each other's souls and learn to understand your loved one.