Husband doesn't want sex - how to get passion back
The natural properties of a man and his inner state greatly affect the perception of sex. Understanding all the shades of a partner's mental characteristics means revealing the reasons why a man stopped wanting intimacy.
American scientists believe that men think about sex about 19 times a day. Situations when the husband does not want sex in principle, apparently, did not fall into this statistics. The training "System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan" allows you to objectively see the whole kaleidoscope of male desires and states and return passion to a couple. Understanding why the husband has cooled down to sex, the woman will be able to fill the relationship with pleasure for both again.
Male attitudes towards sex in numbers
The natural properties of a man and his inner state greatly affect the perception of sex. Understanding all the shades of a partner's mental characteristics means revealing the reasons why a man stopped wanting intimacy.
Some system statistics:
- 20% of people have a high libido, but a very fragile psyche, "breakdowns" in which affect sexual desire;
- 24% - have a balanced libido, but tend to change partners often under certain circumstances;
- 5% are asexual but not hopeless;
- 100% of men unconsciously want to be around a happy woman.
Behind these numbers is the woman's ability to understand her husband and restore his desire for sex.
Offended for a long time, but you have to suffer without sex now
Have a wife, have a high libido, what else do you need? But childhood traumas can ruin the whole life of respectable family men.
The husband does not remember how his mother scolded him for masturbation or for saying an obscene word at a young age. But in the unconscious, the association of sex with something dirty and shameful was imprinted.
The authority of the mother for the owner of the anal vector is unshakable. And a contradiction grows inside: on the one hand, my mother’s command from the past “sex is bad”, and on the other, a natural desire for intimacy. Such an imbalance in the psyche can lead a man to a stupor and serious problems in the sexual sphere, up to impotence.
A woman can help her husband. Knowing the qualities of the anal vector, she will not rush her beloved and put pressure on him, but will create trust in a couple, give a feeling of confidence and a reliable rear. When a woman gradually, gently and sensitively shares her childhood stories, dreams, fears, ups and downs with a man, he always follows her and also opens up. The husband feels that his wife understands him, and this relieves his stress.
The best way to help a husband get rid of children's anchors to the end is to understand them at the training "System-vector psychology" by Yuri Burlan.
In pursuit of new victories
Compared to other vectors, the owner of the cutaneous vector has a balanced libido. A man wants a woman and is able to satisfy her desires, but there are some deviations:
- Enterprising owners of the skin vector limit themselves and others and save resources, such is their nature. But sometimes the restrictions become redundant. And then they can even save their own ejaculate. It is a mistake to believe that a person is assigned a certain number of sexual contacts. Having sex less often, they seem to unconsciously save themselves pleasure for the future.
- Striving from nature to change, the owner of the skin vector can look for novelties outside the family bedroom.
The main reason for this behavior is insufficient social fulfillment. The husband could be the owner of his own business, run a department, or come up with engineering solutions. He needs to feel the rhythm of life, constantly adapt to new conditions. Then his natural desire for novelty and the desire to save resources are realized not only for himself, but also for the whole society. And to have sex on the side in this case does not pull. It happens that a skin man is simply bored of doing this in the same place at the same hour. You should not immediately run after the Kamasutra, just show him your willingness to experiment. And he himself will instantly take the initiative.
A woman can put her husband on the right track sexually and socially if there is a trusting bond between them. Emotional closeness is the most important foundation for sensual sex and long-term relationships in any vector set of partners.
Husband doesn't want sex - it's not important for him
The desires of a person with a sound vector are not associated with the material world. He is directed into the unknown spiritual. If your sonic husband is passionate about an idea, he may forget to eat, wash, say hello. His interest in sex will largely depend on his other vectors and the state of the sound vector. The less realized the sound search, the more depressed the sound engineer, the less he is interested in the world around him, including sex.
What should a woman do so that the sound husband “comes down from heaven” and again draws attention to her? In the film "Salute 7" there is an episode when the astronaut, overwhelmed by the suspension from flights, speaks to his wife. Feeling that he is not here, but is still flying in zero gravity, she is indignant: "What is there in your damn space?"
A woman who has systemic knowledge, otherwise she will build a conversation with her native sound engineer, who also always flies somewhere in her thoughts. To be interested in his "planets", to accept the importance of his searches, to be ready to listen or just be silent, looking at the stars, without pretensions, but with understanding - this is how your emotional connection will gradually develop, which is more significant for the sound engineer than physical contact.
And in order for the desires for sex and other earthly pleasures to wake up in him and not fade away, he needs to fill his sound aspirations for knowing himself. Your understanding of your husband's needs can be an important step towards this. Everything that a man does, he does under the inspiration of the desire of his beloved woman.
The scent of a woman is a guarantee of a masculine "I want"
A man does not want sex for various internal reasons, but there is one external, no less important. This is the woman herself. If a woman smells of anger, resentment, apathy, depression - no matter how much she portrays happiness, the man does not want her. It is an accurate pheromone language that cannot be fooled.
At the training "System-Vector Psychology" Yuri Burlan reveals the nature of women, and each receives the key to self-awareness. And when a woman is in harmony with herself, she does not need to think about how to seduce a man. He reaches out to her with all the fibers of his soul and body. Because man and woman are created as complementary parts of one whole.
