How to make a man happy
And a woman, having read the recommendations, understands that in order to make her husband happy next to her, she must be a supermodel, and an intellectual, and a better housewife. They say that men love and so that there is something to talk about, and a tasty meal, and sleep on a clean bed, and so that a woman in this very bed is an ideal lover. And often a woman realizes that she does not live up to the ideal. But everything is much simpler. And you understand this at the training of Yuri Burlan "System-vector psychology", which equips us with a compass in the world of human desires. In order not to get lost …
How to make a man happy - this question worries every woman who loves her man and wants to maintain a relationship for many years. After a romantic period of beautiful courtship, declarations of love, bouquets, restaurants and joint travels, ordinary life begins when it begins to seem that the beloved husband has somehow grown cold and distant.
And sometimes the anxiety squeezes the heart - what if he stopped loving? What if I'm doing something wrong? And how to make him always feel good next to me?
Why other people's recipes for happiness don't work
The first impulse is to read horoscopes or ask friends for advice. But other people's advice without an accurate understanding of the nature of a man and a woman is dead patterns, ways to try on a suit from someone else's shoulder, because the personal experience of different couples can be very different.
And a woman, having read the recommendations, understands that in order to make her husband happy next to her, she must be a supermodel, and an intellectual, and a better housewife. They say that men love and so that there is something to talk about, and tasty food, and sleep on a clean bed, and so that a woman in this very bed is an ideal lover. And often a woman realizes that she does not live up to the ideal. Better not read!
But everything is much simpler. And you understand this at the training of Yuri Burlan "System-vector psychology", which equips us with a compass in the world of human desires. In order not to get lost …
Two ways to make a man happy next to you
A man needs only two conditions for happiness:
- filled intimate life with a beloved woman;
- the joy of social fulfillment.
And both conditions are interrelated.
When is sex life satisfying for a man? Let's answer this question from the point of view of the laws of nature.
How to make your beloved man happy in sexual relations
Man and woman are attracted by smell, unconsciously. At first, sexual relationships are vibrant and exciting. But passion does not last long - about three years. Then the attraction becomes not so strong, and there can be a cooling in the relationship if an emotional connection is not created in the couple. And the woman is responsible for creating this connection, because by the nature and characteristics of upbringing she is more emotional. After all, girls in childhood, unlike boys, are allowed to cry, and this develops feelings. A woman turns out to be more sincere, open and able to feel the person next to her.
You need to start when the passion is still hot, then it will be too late. Gradually reveal the secret corners of the soul, involve the husband in frank conversations. Do this delicately and with love for a man, with respect for his feelings, experience and natural structure.
The knowledge about vectors, which is given by the training "System-vector psychology", allows you to deeply know your man. The path to the soul of every man is strictly individual. There are no universal recipes for establishing a spiritual connection.
As an example: it is not necessary for a husband with an anal vector to talk about his former lovers in a fit of frankness. He is painful that he is not the first, which means, as it seems to him, not the best in his wife's life. You shouldn't press a man with a sound vector with violent emotions. He doesn't like it.
But you can talk about childhood, revealingly revealing little children's secrets. This is the basis for further frankness, deep and genuine interest in each other's life.
The spiritual bond between spouses creates trust, an intimate world that belongs only to two. And only in this world the most delightful sex happens. A man gets the greatest pleasure from sexual relations with his beloved, desired woman.
She trusts him, which means she is able to relax, say what she wants, and have an orgasm. And for a man there is nothing more pleasant than feeling that he was able to give his woman this pleasure.
How to make your husband happy if the past gets in the way
It so happens that no matter how hard the wife tries, she is not able to influence the mood of her husband. The reasons may be hidden in the past - in childhood or the negative adult experience of the husband.
For example, a dysfunctional relationship with a mother causes resentment in a person with an anal vector, which he can carry throughout his life and transfer it to other women. And no matter how ideal a wife is, she will always remind him that women are not worthy of love.
For such a person, negative past experience in communicating with girls will also be significant, which will not allow them to trust in new relationships.
Different scenarios and problems can arise in different vectors. It is possible to cope with this only through understanding the vector properties of the husband, careful clarification of the circumstances of his past life. Negative scenarios, when they are realized, dissolve, and family life is getting better. Systemic vector psychoanalysis is the best choice in this case.
Happy man is a realized man
For the sake of his beloved, a man is capable of much - to master new lands and even space, invent a new tool of labor and develop the latest technologies, discover the laws of nature and call them into the service of humanity. A man who is successfully realized in society is first happy in his sexual and family life.
This was the case throughout the entire development of mankind: the human male brought the mammoth prey to his female so that she could keep herself and the baby alive. And as a reward he received the greatest pleasure, the desire for which was laid in him by nature - an orgasm. These basic relationships are firmly inscribed in the collective memory of humanity, and this record, bypassing consciousness, affects every person.
Allowing your beloved husband to work for the sake of the family, and most with joy and gratitude to accept the “mammoth” he brings from the “savannah” means inspiring him to work actively in society, means making him happy. A person gets the greatest pleasure from the use of innate properties.
Making a man happy means helping him understand himself
And again, the wife may be faced with the fact that not everything depends on her. For example, a husband does not find himself, rushes about, he does not have a relationship with work. The situation only seems hopeless. The way out is in understanding the properties of the person who is next to you.
It happens that we do not hear ourselves and do not follow our true desires for life. We don't know what we want. We are influenced by parents, friends, environment, society. A person capable of being a talented scientist goes into business. Potentially, a great speaker works in a warehouse. Taking a wrong place in life is not pleasant.
Who, if not a woman, understand what a man needs to be happy? She is the closest to him. And if she managed to create a trusting relationship and supports him, and even knows everything about his vectors, it is not difficult for her to help him realize himself to her liking. The main thing is to put things in order in the head.
The happiness of a man is in the hands of a woman
The wife's happiness depends on the husband's happiness, who loves, protects, cares. But at the same time, the happiness of a man is in the hands of a woman, in her ability to understand, accept, suggest, share life with him. A woman is able to do it wisely and with a 100% result, as thousands of women have already done, who have undergone the training "System Vector Psychology".
And do not forget to take your husband with you to the training!