Practical psychology 2024, November
Training, master class, coaching [1]
I'm afraid of people
Social phobia is a frequent phenomenon in a modern big city. The strongest hindrance and great torment is fear, which becomes a constant companion of a person suffering from social phobia. Scary on the street. Scary in the subway. Scared at the blackboard at school
Stuttering is a real curse. Such things that an ordinary person does not cost anything to do are a difficult test for a stutterer. Elementary situations turn into torture: making a phone call, contacting a stranger, buying something in a store. The first word is the hardest to say. It gets stuck in the throat. Especially if this word, for example, in the letter T. Or in the Z. Or in O. Almost the entire alphabet of a stutterer can be written as sworn enemies
Life requires more and more competitiveness from a person, not everyone can easily adapt. You can see a successful person right away, they envy him, they look up to him and set him up as an example. It's a shame when a neighbor has a new Mercedes, and you are patching up an old nine. You have to do something about this, and your wife is nagging: “You are smart, why are you so poor? Go, study, there are trainings for success, become like people "
STOCKHOLM SYNDROME - a paradoxical reaction of attachment and sympathy that occurs in the victim in relation to the aggressor
“Of all the arts, cinema is the most important for us
People are used to getting a chance for happiness and giving it back without taking advantage of it. The failure of the union can be easily explained by various reasons, and the question WHY remains unchanged? Hundreds of why: - Why didn't I see before what he really is? - Why didn't I understand that she needs something completely different from life? - Why couldn't we be together - after all, it all started so well?
Obsessive thoughts are a signal that is important to understand correctly, it is a kind of reminder of an unfulfilled natural role. To free your own head from the captivity of an endless stream of obsessive thoughts and fears, you need to identify what it is, my natural task, and start moving towards it with specific actions
Adults are never really fun. And what are they doing: boring work or fashions, but they only talk about calluses and income taxes … A. Lindgren. Peppy Long Stocking. When do we become adults? For each of us, this is a fact of a personal biography. This is an inner feeling that comes without asking us about it
Dear daughter, how did you leave us? So young, so beautiful
We visited a car service with our two-year-old son. Literally twenty minutes he watched as winter tires were changed to summer ones. After that, the little one spooled the wheels on all his cars. Young tire changer. In addition, he began to spit on the floor with relish. I learned from the locksmith there. Needless to say, we drove productively: they prepared the car for the new season, and the son acquired new skills
I, again I and many more times I am
He is married
Attempts to control emotions are only good in theory
It happens that some people cannot but slander, but you still need to know when to stop
Interesting, however, thoughts come to mind when you are not thinking about anything
Anything can make me cry: from a dramatic plot in a movie to a homeless kitten in a neighboring alley. And when there is also a real reason (for example, from resentment or jealousy), I generally cannot calm down for a long time. Sometimes tears turn into hysterics, I start screaming and stop managing my condition altogether. How to stop crying and constantly screw yourself up?
I don't want anything. Just sleep. Weakness, and hands have long since dropped. Constant thoughts in the head or a complete vacuum. What is the use of me in this world if I cannot do anything, even with myself? Anyone who is familiar with the state of hopelessness, when there is absolutely no strength to live, will understand. It's hard to explain why it's bad. I would like to get out of this quagmire in any way. Or do it all, no strength to suffer
Many people experience negative states
When you receive an invitation to a meeting of alumni and classmates 25 years later, at first you rejoice at the opportunity of meeting - such a great opportunity to meet people whom you have not seen for many years, to find out how school or university friends are doing, to remember joyful moments
Roars and roars, what are you going to do? Fell down - screaming, pushed - into tears, dropped the candy - hysteria, the toy broke - the end of the world
How many times have already tried to explain to a child that learning is necessary for him, and not for adults! That in the modern world only wipers live without education
My child does not want to study. We've tried everything. Punished, forbidden, encouraged. He does not listen to anyone - neither parents nor teachers. The last hope is you, a psychologist. Tell him to start learning! He's just lazy, make him take his mind! Eh, why aren't psychologists given a magic wand? Parents so hope that an aunt who is unfamiliar to the child will tell him something at one time that he will become passionate about doing his homework and turn into an excellent student
The realization that my child is an outcast among his classmates fell on my head with a concrete slab. The son always avoided talking about relationships in the classroom, explaining the bruises and bruises with the usual fights among boys. But one day, seeing a fresh bruise on my head, I threatened to tell the teacher or the director about these fights. After all, such actions can lead to unpredictable consequences
Does your child come running home and immediately stick to the computer? He prefers modern gadgets to books, sits on social networks for days, and getting him to do his homework is always a feat. You ask at least to clean the room, but after five seconds he forgets about it. You buy him books that you yourself could only dream of as a child, but he does not even look at them. Every time you have to go to the tricks and tricks to get your child to read and write. “And what is this child?
Life passes, but there is little joy. How to be happy? On the basis of Yuri Burlan's training "System-Vector Psychology", it becomes clear why it is difficult for a person to enjoy life, although each of us was born to be happy
He who loves is loved. Who is bright is holy
I sink into emptiness. It envelops me completely, so sweet, so inviting. Suddenly, I see indistinct shades of colors that gradually spread into absolute darkness. They are intertwined, framed in bizarre forms, penetrate each other, like lovers eager to meet. And now I find myself in a completely different space - beautiful, bright, mysterious and attracting me every second of my life. I dive into the world of my dreams
The sexual revolution, which gave rights to gays, lesbians and bisexuals, was the beginning of major changes in society
Shrinking into a ball, I squeezed out of myself the story of what had happened, drop by drop. From the terrible shame that I had to say these things to my mother, it took my breath away, as if I was one continuous mud and dreamed of only one thing - to die right here and now. Those who survived rape in childhood, became a victim of pedophilia, know how unbearable it is for a child to talk about it aloud, to reveal these details in a circle of loved ones
Do you want to reproduce with pixel precision the portrait of the ideal darling, which is painted in his head by a brutal macho man, a timid family man, an intelligent handsome man and any other man? We offer to dive into the issue, relying on an accurate understanding of the psychology of men and the role of women in their lives
All my life, as long as I can remember, I am lonely. No, of course, I don't live on a desert island. It's even worse: there are people around, but I feel in a vacuum, and I don't see a way out of this. Incomprehension, rejection, I have no place among people, I am an outsider
That unfortunate day destroyed everything I had - my husband died
“The big problem is the fear of death for some people, including me. As they got older, from 16-17, attacks of fear of death began. I don't know how to call it otherwise. Turn off the light, go to bed. Nothing bad happens in the head. And then there is literally one fleeting thought about death, as all attention immediately becomes fixated on it. A few seconds later, screaming and terrified, I was thrown out of bed and walked around the rooms. As suddenly as it began, it passed. I'm 21 now
In front of the door, I shuddered, as if a machine gun had hit me. Sticky sweat streamed down my face so that the collar of my blouse could be twisted. As luck would have it, cold, shaking hands groped for anything in the bag except napkins. Lord, how to overcome fear and calm down, eh? Keys, wallet, documents … But where are the napkins, damn them ?! The door flew open, and an overweight aunt with a stern face flew out to meet: “Girl, are you for an interview? Do you have your resume? "
Each spring is experienced by me as a small end of the world. It seems that everything is awakening to life - the birds are singing, the greenery covers the trees with a haze, the sky becomes endless. Covered with a thick layer of dust and littered with debris, previously hidden under the snow, the city is gradually cleared of dirt, renewed, and begins to sparkle with bright colors under the rays of the sun. But I don't see all this. I have an annual aggravation - I don't like people
What is a panic attack - Can I come to you? - Masha's uneven voice did not suggest a choice. - I cannot be alone, and my husband has a rush at work. I don't understand what's wrong with me, I feel very bad. Masha was pale and smelled strongly of valerian. Her cold hands were shaking, and she was chilling. We didn't do anything special, we just drank tea, talked. It helped
Exhausted. I only wished that your name no longer echoed with a tremor in my whole body, that it didn’t sweep the sensation of your hands, it didn’t hold me in a gentle voice in the receiver, it didn’t drag me back into the abyss. I wanted to understand how to forget a loved one, to tear him out of the heart. They say time heals. I found a way more efficient than time. System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan showed me how to forget the person you love, but you can't be with
There must be something wrong with me. I am constantly haunted by feelings of anxiety and anxiety for no apparent reason. I wake up with him and go to bed, with him, one way or another, I spend the day. How to get rid of anxiety and obsessive thoughts?