Practical psychology 2024, April
Covers insomnia with a demon, In my head thoughts and thoughts are fighting These are black angels with white On my territory, they quarrel. (G. Leps)
What is our life? Wrestling. Fighting for your own happiness. A series of unsuccessful attempts to build relationships and start a family. One, two, three … Each time a repeat of the previous one, only the interiors are different. Came - went, came - left and finally left forever. Maybe the evil eye? Maybe a celibacy crown? Maybe psychological problems? Everything is passed, everything is tested, there is no help. Everything will happen again
You tell them in Russian: "To conclude a contract, go to ten and have your passport with you." Show up at noon with a driver's license instead of a passport and a claim instead of an apology. Is it really incomprehensible ?
Guys, there is a conversation! Let's go out! - Alice said quietly, dragging two classmates with her to the schoolyard. She was almost two heads taller than them and looked more like a graduate than a sixth grader. A couple of months ago, Alice surprised the class by showing up on Monday with a shaved head instead of a luxurious head of hair. The mercilessly cut braids were replaced by a boy-like haircut. And to match the hairstyle, things of the older brother came into use
First of all, you need to think about why we send a child to one or another section? If the child himself knows what he wants and strives for something specific, then the question disappears by itself
The world-renowned British composer, singer and musician Sting is celebrating his 65th birthday this year. As before, he continues to create and perform music, stay fit, practice yoga and grow organic produce on his farm. An excellent example of a developed and fully realized personality - the owner of the skin and sound vectors. “When my uncle emigrated to Canada, he left a guitar in our attic. This is how I found my best friend in my life. "
Already three nights, three nights, breaking through the darkness, I'm looking for his camp, and I have no one to ask. Lead, lead me to him, I want to see this man! (S. Yesenin. Pugachev. Khlopushi's monologue)
I want to be understood by my country, But I will not understand - what then ?! I will walk side by side through my native land
Love is against the meaning of life. Loneliness in a pair or unity of opposites If one partner in a pair has a sound depression, and the other has emotional "swings" and hysterics in the visual vector, then their opposites will manifest themselves in a very large antagonism
To love is to see a person the way God intended him and his parents did not fulfill him. Marina Tsvetaeva
How soon will your not now turn into never?
Fragment of the lecture notes for the Second Level on the topic "Environment": Smell is politics
The Magic of Money, or What the Central Bank Doesn't Know How to attract these grandmothers, bashli, loot, cabbage, piastres, bucks and other synonyms of the phenomenon that is rarely understood correctly in the seeming, at a non-systemic view, chaos?
We are born, we live and we die
“When we win, we will turn gold into public latrines on the streets. This would be the fairest and most visual and edifying use of gold. " V. I. Lenin
On long winter evenings, especially around Christmas, many are wondering what awaits them in the New Year. Most of the divinations and conspiracies at Christmas, of course, are associated with finding a groom. And although by the end of the year we forget that we were promised mirrors for last Christmas, at the appointed hour we sit down at the candles again, peer into the transparent surface and watch whether the long-awaited image will flicker somewhere out there?
Social psychology - welcome to the matrix (start here)
On that day, a friend of Glafira came to me and announced that she was Robespierre. “It's good that it's not Napoleon,” I thought. Everyone is almost used to the extravagant antics of a friend, but you never know
Well, who do we have here? - the ultrasound doctor talked to Nikin the "puzzler". - Bah, we have a boy! I say exactly, waiting for the kid! Well, mommy, choose a name
Each of us wants to be happy, and the degree of our happiness is determined by what and to what extent we got according to our expectations: happy couples, obedient children, high salaries, career, status in society, and so on. We expect that we will receive all this simply for the fact that we, so good and unique, deserve it, but life is somehow in no hurry to give us happiness
Stuttering, logoneurosis, Sikorsky's neurosis is a speech disorder, which is characterized by either stretching of sounds, their frequent repetitions and distortions, or stops, breaks, inability to start a story. Often, people with stuttering develop logoophobia - a fear of speaking, especially with a large audience, in unfamiliar places or in a stressful situation
Inclusive learning, or inclusion, is the co-education of ordinary children and children with disabilities in a mainstream school and other institutions. This teaching method provides for the planning of schools, technical schools, universities and the organization of the educational process in such a way that the needs of any children, including special ones, can be met
Life is increasingly moving beyond the screens of gadgets. Work - at the computer, leisure - in front of the TV, the road - in the smartphone. Continuous flow of information, fast change of pictures, sharp switching of the topic of the material. We get used to thinking in fragments, remembering only the main things, without delving into the depth of the problem or event
Parents' Internet forums are screaming about the unprecedented prevalence of violence in schools. The media are not lagging behind. YouTube is overflowing with videos of school violence, no one knows what to do. There you can see everything - from beating teachers to rape of minors
Have you ever wanted to be a mother? - Well, as she wanted … Mom wanted … - And you yourself wanted? - Never … Yes, I must admit that the priority of a child in my friend's life is completely absent. My grandmother is like that too. It happens - there is no maternal instinct. Only the reasons are different and the consequences for the children of such mothers too. System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan reveals them completely
Zvukovicha wants more than anything to be left alone! She is immersed in her thoughts and experiences, silent, inclined to daydreaming, philosophizing. Often inhibited and held captive by her fantasies. In bad states of sound, it is able to completely disconnect from the outside world, go into depression. The outside world becomes illusory for her, life in the body turns into painful torment
When was the last time you felt extremely happy? When did you enjoy life, surroundings, weather, children? Even the happiest of us probably admit that life often brings unpleasant surprises, and at certain moments it even seems that “the black streak has somehow stretched out”. We do not take from life everything that it can give. Bad states arise and accumulate: resentment, anger, fears, depression, melancholy, dissatisfaction with life, people, fate
Is there a difference from whom the child learns, where and how children actually come from - from mom, from friends or from the Internet? Why even the most progressive mothers, after reading the recommendations about the need for sexuality education from childhood, begin to blush, turn pale, become covered with spots, hide their eyes and hum something unintelligible when the child comes to talk about this simple matter? What does not allow educated adults to honestly and directly explain to th
Gender identity disorders in men are not as common as reported by LGBT people. Nevertheless, we have repeatedly heard how young fathers discuss among themselves the signs of male and non-male manifestations: from the acceptability of pink shirts and male manicure to Conchita Wurst's performance at Eurovision. And the unequivocal conclusion of some of them: "God forbid, my grow up like that - I will kill!"
A child-dreamer is constantly inventing: he plays a whole performance with dolls, speaks with pictures in a book, composes a fairy tale on the go, and lying in bed plays with his fingers and carries on a dialogue with the ceiling. Nobody taught him this, he just comes up with everything himself. Can ask for a treat for his friend, take him on a trip around the room, and then talk about their adventures along the way
As soon as the child comes out of infancy, parents have many questions. The kid is constantly fighting. Stubborn, argues with everyone. How to raise a child with this character? The crybaby is growing. Can't give back to anyone. Tantrums and fears for any reason. How to be? The child steals. Can this be punished? The kid is restless, inattentive, does poorly at school. What to do?
Head injuries and related disorders are mostly the subject of study of traumatologists, neurosurgeons, neurologists, specialists in the field of sports medicine or disaster medicine, criminologists or forensic experts
In this article we will tell you what the development of a child's memory depends on, and we will offer you games for children that develop memory, which you can use for toddlers in preschool age, taking into account their individual psychological characteristics
Snarls, rereads, pinches, growls
Reasons for obedience
The teenager is no longer a child, but not yet an adult. Time for changes in the head, changes in life, the first decisions, the first consequences, the first successes and the first falls. How can we, parents, want to help, suggest, direct our slightly fledgling child precisely in this difficult period of the first independent steps in life. Support, protect, protect … But he stubbornly repels any interference in his personal space
Doctor, help! My child is very bad at going to the toilet "by and large." Every trip to the pot makes him hysterical. He cries and holds on to his tummy … He is afraid to push, this is constipation … he breaks out in a cold sweat and cries loudly. I myself can’t hold back my tears … Poor baby, how can I help him?
Until my strength, I will use all my cares and labors to serve my sick brothers … Oath of the sisters of mercy of the Holy Cross Community, 1854
When a chain of thoughts develops into a theory Have you ever thought that sometimes rather strange thoughts come to mind, as if leading away? Ideas, reflections, unexpected decisions, theories that could well become the foundation for brilliant discoveries that turned the whole world, if … If only they were understood by other people, if fate gave even a tiny chance to really show themselves
In England, when a child crosses the street, everything stops. In Russia, a child sets everything in motion. "His Majesty the Child" - this was said by Europe, and Russia is doing it. (M. Tsvetaeva, 1932)