Holiday romances: love until the end of your vacation
Others do not even dream of this, even if their feelings have faded, and there is no sex with their husband for a long time. Others will be tormented by their consciences and their own feelings of guilt. Strange, but she does not know such feelings. She just wants to love and feel loved herself. Let not for long, but with all the madness of passion, as if for the last time …
A year of waiting. A year of running around at work, in stress and in a hurry. Five minutes at the mirror and three hours in traffic jams. No privacy (when ?!). No female weakness. One concern: to be in time for everything. And if there is also a family, then you need to do it many times more. And only the thought of a long-awaited vacation revives, like rain drying up in the desert.
Finally, there will be an excuse to get hold of all the dresses bought in the year. Throw all strict skirts and blouses into the far corner. And with a light gait, go into the hot embrace of the resort sun under the passionate glances of men on vacation.
Sinful. Passionate. Daring
Long legs, short dress, bright lips. When the doors of the hotel open in front of such a beauty, the receptionist at first glance determines: it will not be bored. People like her love to feel wanted. And how can you not wish? When, her every movement whispers: "Do you want me?"
Light flirtatious look. Brittle bare shoulders. Hair that is loose specifically to be playfully wiggled with a long neck. She responds to every man's smile. She gladly accepts gallant offers to help. In her presence, even an exemplary family man begins to beat the ground with his hoof. And the wife instantly sensing something was wrong is trying to drag him away.
Willingness to love and be loved
How else? She rushes out of the house, ready to love. To freedom, from this "fortress wall", where everything is known and predictable, where feelings are cramped for a long time … He growls more and more, dissatisfied with this and that. She said something wrong, did the wrong thing … and she so wants to spread her wings and take off … from feelings that have turned her head, from a sudden outbreak of passion. She wants romance, spontaneity, lightness, playfulness, a surge of emotions and breathtaking tenderness … consciously or not, she dreams about it when going on vacation. Her entire emotional and sensual arsenal, which has not survived in harsh everyday life, is eager to fight. Who is she? - Skin-visual woman.
In the cage of conscience
Others do not even dream of this, even if their feelings have faded, and there is no sex with their husband for a long time. Others will be tormented by their consciences and their own feelings of guilt. Strange, but she does not know such feelings. She just wants to love and feel loved herself. Let not for long, but with all the madness of passion, as if for the last time.
And here's another woman. No less attractive and passionate, but decent, sometimes with a touch of self-doubt. She seemed to be embarrassed for her relaxed friend, for her defiant behavior. It's awkward and at the same time a little enviable. She wants the same admiring male glances. But she does not admit this to anyone.
She wants the same dizzy feelings. At least a drop, at least for an hour. But an obstacle in your own head will not allow: it is not decent, unacceptable, too fast. She does not know how to open up in the first minute of acquaintance. And he will suffer for a long time if he accidentally falls in love with a married man.
She will, as usual, just watch her friend break off 100%. Listen to her delighted stories about the new novel. Treat her morning hangover after a sleepless night. Then he will wipe her tears when the moment of parting comes. And secretly try on her adventures.
And why can't she be as liberated, as desirable? After all, there is a beautiful appearance, and feelings rushing out, and the opportunity to have at least one resort romance in your life.
But seduction is not her strong point. A skirt that is too short causes discomfort, so she does not wear them. Too high heels impede balance. Therefore, they are also not in the arsenal. And if the husband is left at home, then it is impossible to even think about cheating. After all, to have others, even a fleeting relationship, is to betray. And as a punishment, you will have to endure the torment of conscience for a long time, which does not forgive such things.
I wonder why some want, while others do?
Holiday romances are not fun for everyone
Minx or blue stocking? So it is customary to judge female behavior. The stigma of accessibility or an unappreciated halo of chastity. Such "opinions" are just cliches, labels from ignorance of one's own nature. The world is not divided into good and bad. And black and white are just paints on paper.
The joy of being yourself
Seduction is an art. Being faithful and monogamous is also a special gift. Everyone gets their own at birth. And he lives, driven by predetermined desires. We choose a job, decide what to do, and even dream about how to rest, based only on our own characteristics.
Therefore, some - resort novels, and others love - on the worn pages of books. What you yourself and your partner are capable of, what a holiday romance can turn into and how to get out of the obsession of falling in love - you can learn about this and much more at the lectures on system-vector psychology by Yuri Burlan.
Not a single desire, not a single emotion will remain secret when you learn how the psyche works. When you understand every movement of the soul as well as a change in the facial expressions of a familiar face. It is extremely exciting and unusual to know what is going on in the head of each person. And it's incredibly nice to understand why I myself am just like that, and not different. Condemnation disappears, false expectations and resentments disappear. There is no room for disappointment.
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