Practical psychology 2024, November
“My son is 14 years old. He became aggressive and out of control. What should I do?" A question from a desperate parent to a psychologist. The answer was not long in coming: "It would be surprising if your son behaved differently as a teenager." Cheerful emoticon at the end. Probably, it was he who should have convinced the mother that the aggressiveness of a teenager is normal, commonplace
Children grow up faster than their parents want. More recently, they played in the sandbox, cried over a broken toy, and the lost bear was the biggest problem in their lives. But then adolescence comes, and with it the problem of sex education for girls and boys. Parents are at a standstill, how and when is it right to talk about this rather sensitive topic with children?
Rock has burned the stigma on my forehead since birth. Playing Hamlet, Vladimir Vysotsky said that everyone thinks about the meaning of life, about why he lives. Everyone has a question "To be or not to be?" If "to be", then for what?
In the first part of the article, I briefly described the requirements for the paratroopers, and also analyzed a little from the point of view of the system-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan, the features of the skin and anal vectors
In so-called decent families, they are especially afraid of the influence of bad companies on the child
The battlefield, the death sentence of the great king, false accusations, the death of his beloved daughter, an unfair sentence, prison, exile, broken hopes, betrayal and, finally, suicide … All this gives the life of Demosthenes a tragic shade
Social psychology studies human behavior in society, considering each individual depending on national, racial, religious, professional or other affiliation, as well as the psychological characteristics of various social groups. Social psychology as a science intersects with both psychology and sociology, since it considers both the individual and society
In Russia, poets have always considered it their duty to speak on behalf of the people, deprived of their own voice. (Bengt Yangfeldt)
Migrants … They take our jobs, eat our bread, breathe our air. By their very appearance, they increase the degree of social fermentation, irritate the already bare nerve of popular dissatisfaction with life. Having come in large numbers with their charter to our monastery, they are uninvited guests, regardless of social status, appearance and behavior, strangers in our landscape. We don't want them. Just read: “They're shooting! They beat our children! "
Truth then for some reason necessarily triumphs. For some reason it is necessary. But for some reason it will be necessary later. (Alexander Volodin, Soviet playwright) Thanks to the mass media, the whole country became well aware of the name of the Black Sea gangster, the legend of the underworld, the thunderstorm of the Odessa bourgeoisie, the defender of the poor and "expropriator of expropriators" Mishka Yaponchik
Part 1. Isaac Babel. Benya Krik and everything, everything, everything … We have an ordinary street in the Moldavanka area
Part 1. Isaac Babel. Benya Krik and everything, everything, everything … Part 2. Robin Hood from Moldavanka Part 3. King of Odessa
Part 1. Isaac Babel. Benya Krik and everything, everything, everything … Part 2. Robin Hood from Moldavanka Mine tochter Surkele walks with urkele
"FATHER KURAZH" AND HIS CHILDREN He was rich, he loved luxury, cars and women, he got everything he wanted from life, and nothing could stop him, not even war. Having entered Poland together with the occupation forces, a successful businessman, player, race car driver and adventurer Oskar Schindler not only acquired the factory profitably, but also provided himself with cheap labor - Jews destined for destruction
Frida Kahlo - an affair with pain. Part 2. Nobody's husband "In fact, he is no one's husband," Frida Kahlo once said of Diego Rivera, whom she had married twice. It is impossible to consider her life and work without her husband, the famous artist Diego Rivera, who participated in the political life of revolutionary and post-revolutionary Mexico
In the modern consumer society, although spiritual principles have not lost their relevance, they have somehow materialized too much. And the very first, fundamental principle of "give-receive", promising harmony with the world and from all sides, seemingly understandable, is perceived in very different ways
Love rolls like a tsunami You are already afraid of her powerful pressure, destroying the usual established order of life. She breaks everything that is established and unshakable in your life. And again the nights without sleep, hot dreams of kisses and hugs, the happiness of shared feelings and at the same time pain. Pain when a loved one is not around. The pain that happiness simply cannot happen to you, from self-doubt. The pain of a possible loss, so real as if the loss had already happened
How to make a man fall in love with yourself
Some couples immediately draw attention to themselves
A group of children is returning from a walk
It so happens that in youth you fall in love with all your might, with all the strength of your feelings. You surrender yourself to this feeling to the depths of your soul, with all the passion you are capable of. But this most beautiful love is shattered, unable to withstand the collision with reality
"Hyperactivity is a set of symptoms associated with excessive motor and mental activity of a child." Increasingly, children seem to us too active, restless, unable to concentrate - not like us. Hyperactivity in children - today this diagnosis is like a stigma attached to children whose activity does not fit into the generally accepted framework. Hyperactive children sleep little, often cry, and are mobile and excited while awake. These children have an increased sensitivity
Over time, everything lost its meaning. Previously, it was still tolerant, now - do not care. Days in this hellish brew of life merge into one continuous gray day … The absence of meaning turns you into a homogeneous gray substance, binds you hand and foot, deprives you of the will to act. There are almost no feelings left. Only a burning sensation of injustice - to the point of pain in the chest: you are still here - alive, breathing, but why?
On the eve of September 1, an increasing number of parents, most often mothers, share their fears and concerns on forums on the topic: “My child will go to school! I'm afraid to give it there. " Although it would seem that school is not a kindergarten, and the question of whether to send to school or not is not on the agenda, many parents are seriously inclined towards family education. Consider systematically what such a choice can lead to and what to do with parental fears about school
Sadly, summer is coming to an end
The feeling of loneliness is familiar to everyone, and it is different for everyone. It can be the loneliness of a woman or a man in anticipation of a relationship. Or the loneliness of a person who finds himself in an unusual place for himself, far from his family and friends. Or there may be a constant state of loneliness, when even among people and surrounded by loved ones, a person feels lonely. This is loneliness, from which neither friendship, nor marriage, nor work in a team can save
It is sometimes very difficult to be a woman
Our families are tormented by quarrels, squabbles, Their seething stream is inexhaustible, We do not forgive the children for the vices that we ourselves instill in them
Girls, help! I don't know what to do anymore
Not so long ago, the scandalous series "School" directed by Valeria Gai Germanika was broadcast on Channel One. The series and its characters were discussed in all sorts of television programs and printed publications, and the names of Budilova, Nosova and many others even became household names
The rhythms and speed of modern life pose a difficult task for a woman
Just yesterday you were swinging your baby in your arms and braiding her funny pigtails
How to deal with depression on your own when you feel really bad? The forums advise you to love yourself and lead a healthy lifestyle full of positive events. But the one who does not find meaning in anything knows that these are empty words. If, in search of how to cope with depression and loneliness on your own, you have tried everything, and nothing helps, then it's time to dig deeper - to understand the causes of your conditions
The husband is like a stone: cold, unhappy and indifferent
“I don’t really believe in your blues
From happiness to grief, one wave of eyelashes There are people whose whole life literally consists of emotions. They take everything to heart. Every, even insignificant, event is accompanied by some kind of feeling, and the amplitude of these feelings is always maximum. I just wanted to laugh heartily, and after a moment I just as badly want to burst into bitter tears. How can you switch so quickly from one extreme to another, and who is able to constantly be at the peak of their experiences?
Pokemon is a small fairy-tale animal with supernatural powers, the hero of popular computer games and cartoons. His homeland is Japan. Already grown are those who in the 90s were passionate about playing Pokemon. And in July 2016, there was a new surge in their popularity
Uncertainty and constraint do not allow you to live a full and vibrant life, and therefore, more than anything in the world, you want to free yourself from this annoying lack
It is very difficult to live