How to stop being jealous of a girl: anti-Othello checklist
You are confident in yourself, but not in her. Do you really have a reason to be jealous? Check yourself against the anti-Othello checklist.
You love your girlfriend, she's like you too, but as soon as she smiles broadly at her former classmate, there is an explosion inside you! Jealousy drives you crazy, even if you lock it at home! System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan knows a more constructive way of how to stop being jealous of a girl and start going crazy over each other.
Do not be jealous, but learn to experience happiness together
Jealousy is a loose screw inside your own machinery. Let's try to find it and tweak it so that you can easily stop being jealous.
Psychologist's advice to work on self-esteem does not help. You are confident in yourself, but not in her. Do you really have a reason to be jealous? Check yourself against the anti-Othello checklist.
There is no need to be jealous if you:
☑ provide your girlfriend with a sense of security and safety
In childhood, we get this feeling from our parents. And when we grow up, boys and girls receive it differently. System-vector psychology explains that the more a man realizes himself in society, in his profession, the stronger he stands on his feet, the better his companion is with him, the safer she feels in life.
After all, a girl seeks to receive safety and security first of all from a man, no matter how realized in her work she may be.
You may be interested to learn more about this in the article "Security and Safety before puberty and after".
☑ know how to please her
The poke method doesn't work anymore.
For a modern girl, an exact method is required to give her pleasure.
And systemic vector psychology reveals to you clear instructions on how to bring a girl to mind blowing pleasure. Knowing her mental and physical characteristics, you will understand for sure whether she feels good this way, and whether it is worth trying even like this. For example, massage and foreplay will suit the owner of the skin vector, but a completely different approach is needed for the urethral queen.
☑ you let her trust you and you trust the innermost secrets
Does the girl talk to you about what is in her heart? If not, then she thinks that her friends will understand her feelings better. It's in your hands to change that.
If you understand exactly her inner world, you will become mentally closer to her than any friend.
An emotional connection is the key to a warm relationship without a single thought of being jealous.
Stop being jealous and start understanding
To make her feel good with you so that she doesn't even think of others, it is important to learn to understand your girlfriend from the inside, and therefore, to satisfy her individual (vector) needs. Let's see how you have already succeeded in this:
If it is skin, ☑ give her valuable gifts;
☑ trust to manage finances;
☑ appreciate her weekly rearrangements.
If she's anal
☑ you praise her (for the cause!);
☑ hang pictures evenly;
☑ you crush her buns;
☑ you give a lot of time to choose comfortable shoes.
If she is visual
☑ you give bright and fragrant flowers;
☑ you meet sunrises with her;
☑ read poetry to her;
☑ write confessions on the asphalt;
☑ dancing with her under the moonlight.
And if sound, ☑ you give privacy;
☑ you can keep quiet with her;
☑ you discuss important topics in writing;
☑ talk about the structure of the solar system;
☑ Riding a star, you fly with it to another planet.
Thousands of men already know how to stop being jealous. The psychologist's systemic advice changed their lives and helped create lasting, happy relationships with the opposite sex.
How to Stop Being Jealous: Psychologist Tips for Building Lasting Happiness
Vector systems psychology shows that we are mostly monogamous. This means that they are able to get tremendous pleasure precisely from stable paired relationships.
That is, if a girl gets in a pair what she needs, her smile to a classmate will mean no more than just “hello”. But her smile will be a sure sign of inspiring love, gratitude for happiness and understanding. And proof that she doesn't need anyone else but you.
Relationships can be filled SO that there will be no room for jealousy. Do you want to know more? Register for free online lectures on systemic vector psychology by Yuri Burlan here.
