Psychological problems 2024, November

Butterfly Complex, Or How Not To Become Hostage To Passion

Butterfly Complex, Or How Not To Become Hostage To Passion

“I can't live without her! Where is she, where? Flew to Hawaii? Really with that blond puppy? I can't believe it! Only yesterday her eyes promised so much! " - the heart of the anal man breaks. The swift bird slipped out of the slow hands for the umpteenth time and now forever

Burned With A Slander And Burned At The Stake. Petrel Of Culture And Sex

Burned With A Slander And Burned At The Stake. Petrel Of Culture And Sex

Many of you have probably heard of the so-called bonfires of the Inquisition and the trials of witchcraft in Europe. To the question "When was it?" more than half of the people will answer: "Sometime in the Middle Ages." Of course, such atrocities as the witch hunt and the burning of innocent women seem to us the lot of humanity in the era of the "dark time", when ignorance and obscurantism reigned

About The Widow's Complex

About The Widow's Complex

“Oh my God, who did you leave me for? Why didn't I die with you? How am I going to live without you now, love? " - a beautiful, sobbing woman in an elegant black dress quickly follows the coffin. There are many people around her: friends of her husband who passed away so early, colleagues at work, relatives, neighbors. All here. Everyone brings condolences to her, but she is inconsolable: "Bury me with him!"

The Prisoner Of The X Castle. Without The Right To Be Yourself

The Prisoner Of The X Castle. Without The Right To Be Yourself

Helen, go play with the kids! Why are you grabbing me! A glance from under furrowed eyebrows, a plump little hand digs even more firmly into my mother's skirt. … - Mom, hello! Take me out of here! - But Lena! You have only been in the pioneer camp for three days! Such weather, fresh air, children … Rest! - For-take-ri! … - Len, how long can you stay at home! You've already learned everything! Go to the movies with the girls! You sit like an owl over your books.

Can't Say NO! - Norm Or Pathology?

Can't Say NO! - Norm Or Pathology?

Unusual sick leave - Timur, how are you feeling? Are you ready to tell us about your problem?”The big-eyed girl psychotherapist asked sympathetically

Black And Black Microphone, Or How To Overcome Fear Of Public Speaking

Black And Black Microphone, Or How To Overcome Fear Of Public Speaking

There is a lump in the throat, the shoulders are under a boulder, the legs are wadded, the head is wooden, the tongue is concreted

This Is A Terrible Word For Deadline. How To Do Everything On Time And Without Hassle

This Is A Terrible Word For Deadline. How To Do Everything On Time And Without Hassle

I was always shuddered by strict deadlines, especially under the "vital" label. The terrible word deadline, which in translation means "death line", was frightening with its doom. It seemed that if I did not complete the work on time, my life would end there. Moreover, this fear did not obey any logic. Being a responsible person, I never put things on the back burner, I did the work even in advance. And I knew that I could do it efficiently

How To Make Yourself Work Without Putting Things Off

How To Make Yourself Work Without Putting Things Off

Eh, you are my work, a worker, a nurse-mother! How much I have connected with you. Paralysis of the sofa-seat type, for example: when you would work with all your soul, but you can't tear the seat from the sofa. Or here is the weakness of the upper limbs - a mouse with a keyboard and those from the hands roll. In short, now I will only wipe my tears - and I will immediately go to work, my beloved, beloved

How To Make A Career In A Crisis

How To Make A Career In A Crisis

How to make a career, if you are jarring from the word itself and in the depths of your soul it has not become clear what exactly needs to be done. Building a house, conducting analysis, being an expert is understandable, but making a career? .. Has it broken down or is it delivered disassembled?

I Hate My Sister For The Pink Dress

I Hate My Sister For The Pink Dress

I was the unloved child in the family. As far back as I can remember, my sister was taken as an example for me, even though she is younger. She is a sweet, sociable, affectionate girl. I am an absent-minded, withdrawn, selfish kid. I've never been able to be like her. She has always been the most beloved, constantly in the spotlight. Everyone is delighted with her, she is so charming and attractive. Stuffed fool

Age "I Do Not Want", Or Boring Ending Of Endless Love

Age "I Do Not Want", Or Boring Ending Of Endless Love

“I used to want to dress nicely, look after my appearance and receive compliments. Now there is no such desire at all. Of course, I don't start myself at all - I go to the hairdresser, dress cleanly and tidily, but I don't get any pleasure from it. Moreover, it is even unpleasant for me "

How To Find A Job?

How To Find A Job?

"We will call you back

I Can't Concentrate On My Work. How To Help Yourself Turn Your Head On

I Can't Concentrate On My Work. How To Help Yourself Turn Your Head On

Your work is connected with intellectual activity, therefore the brain is your main capital

How To Become Stronger In Spirit: Tips For The Insecure

How To Become Stronger In Spirit: Tips For The Insecure

Any film, any song, any story always tells about them, they strive for them, they are remembered, respected, admired, they are welcome everywhere. Often they are socially successful, self-realized in society, loved ones, rich. All of these are strong-minded people. Therefore, the one who knows how to become a strong person undoubtedly knows the recipe for happiness

How To Become A Good Leader. Part 2. Realities Of A Leader's Life

How To Become A Good Leader. Part 2. Realities Of A Leader's Life

How to Become a Good Leader. Part 1. What kind of soldier wants to be a general At work, we spend a significant part of our lives. That is why it is important that the work is pleasant and enjoyable. The realization of abilities for the benefit of others gives a person the greatest pleasure, but only if he is in his place. Of course, each person himself decides on the choice of work, but a lot depends on the leader

I Can't Concentrate. How Do I Get My Head To Work?

I Can't Concentrate. How Do I Get My Head To Work?

I can't concentrate at all … My head doesn't work, as if stuffed with cotton wool. You look at the world as through a cloudy glass, as if everything is not happening to you. The body is lethargic, and I don't want anything. Only sleep … What is this state? So I want to return the time when my head was clear and I could ponder for a long time, ponder. How do I get my head to work again? System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan will help to understand this issue

Mother Cuckoo. Social Abscess Of Our Time

Mother Cuckoo. Social Abscess Of Our Time

The mother left the child on the porch of the clinic, threw it into the trash can, “forgot” it in the locked apartment. Cuckoo - putting it mildly! Not a man - a monster! Yes? “When I got pregnant and told about it, he simply replied:“I don’t need this. These are not my problems.” He left, and we never saw each other again. I was left alone again. Also pregnant. I understand that this is terrible, but I saw no other way out. She will be better in another family. " Tatiana [1]

Give And Spit

Give And Spit

Imperceptibly taking a penknife from my briefcase, I put it in the right pocket of my jacket

How Each Of Us Affects The Brain Drain From The Country

How Each Of Us Affects The Brain Drain From The Country

In a sense, World War III is in full swing. Countries are fighting for bright minds, because intelligence is the most valuable resource in the modern world. In the old days, they drove away livestock, robbed warehouses, and took prisoners. Today food is plentiful, robots are about to go to work. Society needs those who improve weapons and train neural networks, not collectors of silver and marten skins. It's a matter of well-being and national security

Film "T-34". War Is Not A Game Or An Adventure

Film "T-34". War Is Not A Game Or An Adventure

The premiere of the film "T-34" in Russia took place on January 1, 2019. The director and scriptwriter Alexei Sidorov, whom we know from the films "Brigade" and "Shadow Boxing", set the task "to tell the history of the war in such a way as to captivate young people and not cause contradictions among those who still keep the Great Patriotic War in their memory." Did the director, actors and crew manage to cope with such an important and difficult task?

How To Recognize A Pedophile And Protect A Child From Violence

How To Recognize A Pedophile And Protect A Child From Violence

When sending children to school and kindergarten, we make sure that there are cameras

I Work, But I Don't Earn. Where To Get Money?

I Work, But I Don't Earn. Where To Get Money?

“Where can I get the money? Where do they all get them? Definitely steal somewhere! Eh, at least I'll go buy a lottery ticket, maybe I'll be lucky to win a million this time! " Such thoughts visit you throughout your life

How Mate Is Associated With Antiseptics, And How It Threatens Each Of Us

How Mate Is Associated With Antiseptics, And How It Threatens Each Of Us

Cords on the cover of Esquire, on Channel One and in the headphones of the players. His freedom of self-expression is protected not by some cattle, but by quite intelligent people. But he does not turn their souls over with a violin, although his musical education allows him. What for? Matom is much more likely to assemble the stadium. Shnurov is the answer to a public inquiry. As well as a string of obscene performers like him. Neither give nor take - "the hero of our time"

The Meaning Of The Concept Of Culture Is Exact, What Is Put Into The Definition

The Meaning Of The Concept Of Culture Is Exact, What Is Put Into The Definition

It's 2019. The Public Council under the Committee for Culture of the State Duma of Russia is growing with new names. This time, the notorious pop foul language was included in the council. Shock! Internal protest was felt even by those who have never considered themselves to be a cultural community. Comments on the Internet predicted the end of the world: the mere presence of such a person on the committee erases the very meaning of the concept of culture completely and irrevocably

Why Everyone Was A Hero In The Rear. The Mystery Of The Invincible Russians

Why Everyone Was A Hero In The Rear. The Mystery Of The Invincible Russians

My ancestors did not fight on the fronts of the Great Patriotic War. And yet, when on May 9 we remember the feat of the Russian people in this war, I have reason to be proud - my grandfather Ilya Ivanovich Ageev worked permanently in the rear in the small Ural town of Sukhoi Log, Sverdlovsk region, making his contribution to the victory

How Can The Memory Of War And Victory Be Passed On To The Next Generation?

How Can The Memory Of War And Victory Be Passed On To The Next Generation?

The story that remained in my heart This story-true story about the events of the Great Patriotic War was told to me by my grandmother - the only time in her life and only to me

Catcher In The Rye. Will We Let The Country Be Destroyed From The Inside Or Will We Muster Up The Courage?

Catcher In The Rye. Will We Let The Country Be Destroyed From The Inside Or Will We Muster Up The Courage?

Today we live under constant pressure from external and internal threats, as between a rock and a hard place. The West's hatred of Russia is completely irrational, defies any logic and common sense, it is so strong that they cannot stop. But if external threats are easily observable and the country staunchly maintains its defense, then internal threats are not always fully understood by us

Nepotism And Corruption. Part 2. Invert Irreversible

Nepotism And Corruption. Part 2. Invert Irreversible

Part 1. Nepotism and corruption. Russia in reanimation How to fight corruption, when in our conditions the fight against it can be more dangerous than corruption itself, because we have no law in our heads? You cannot transplant the whole country … It is noticeable to the naked eye that the law in Russia does not work the way it does in the West. They also steal and take bribes, but corruption does not acquire the character of social psychopathology. This is due to the difference in mentality

How To Become Rich And Successful - Get Rid Of False Attitudes And Make Money

How To Become Rich And Successful - Get Rid Of False Attitudes And Make Money

A bag of money with the words "$ 1,000,000" bouncing before my eyes. - You won't catch, you won't catch! Smoke on a second-hand foreign car, live in a rented apartment. Still thinking about how to get rich? Ha ha! - But this is BMW, German quality! - I believe! Judging by the state, your grandfather drove her from Berlin back in 1945! - Wow, I love you! .. I lunged towards the bag, but it quickly flew up. Hands helplessly grabbed the air, and I, losing my balance, collapsed to the floor

Nepotism And Corruption. Part 1. Russia In Intensive Care

Nepotism And Corruption. Part 1. Russia In Intensive Care

Part 2. Nepotism and corruption. Reverse irreversible

Networking In Russia. Teach What We Can Do?

Networking In Russia. Teach What We Can Do?

For four years a new trend of “Networking” trainings of success has been moving through the business circles and information events of our country

The Reasons For The Effectiveness Of Soviet Education, Or How To Raise The Level Of School Again?

The Reasons For The Effectiveness Of Soviet Education, Or How To Raise The Level Of School Again?

The Soviet system was recognized as one of the best educational models in the world. How did it differ from the rest and what was its advantage? To begin with, a small excursion into history

My Child - What I Want Is What I Do? System-vector Psychology Of Yuri Burlan At The Metro Family Day Festival

My Child - What I Want Is What I Do? System-vector Psychology Of Yuri Burlan At The Metro Family Day Festival

Within the framework of the Metro Family Day festival, in the lecture hall on Elagin Ostrov (St. Petersburg), on July 9, 2016, a lecture-presentation from the specialists of the portal for system-vector psychology Yuri Burlan on the topic “My child - what I want, I do? How to Raise a Happy Personality ", which caused a lively response from the audience

Russian Question: What To Do If There Is No Law In Your Head?

Russian Question: What To Do If There Is No Law In Your Head?

The legal octopus is increasingly entangling Russia. We are increasingly concerned not with how we best do our job, but with how we, if something happens, will prove our innocence in court. Hence - the dominance of paperwork, for each action - a report and help. And more and more often you hear from people: “I used to go to work with pleasure, but now it’s like hard labor…”

Why Is It Either A Rush Job, Or Doing Nothing? Ragged Rhythm Of Self-management In Russian

Why Is It Either A Rush Job, Or Doing Nothing? Ragged Rhythm Of Self-management In Russian

The stories of successful people about overcoming themselves and circumstances inspire you except to pour a stronger coffee. You still only know two methods of work: either riding a chair around the office, or “Guys, akhtung! Everything is on fire! " After another crunch, when I had to spend the night in the office in order to complete the monthly volume of work by the morning, you are lying to yourself from the bottom of your heart: "I will never push it to the extreme again!"

Unity Virus Against COVID-19

Unity Virus Against COVID-19

Unity virus against COVID-19 The world seemed to be turned upside down. The universal problem revealed many shortcomings in all spheres of public life, showed how much people are ready to interact together. It became clear that the future was not far off