Happy pils for juvenile suicide
So here she is - a magic pill! And it seems like you can live on, lets go, the clouds disperse, there is no emptiness, depression, life is getting better. What harm is it if I feel better? It helps me … Great. What's next?
ANTI-DEPRESSANTS - SWEET PILL "FROM LIFE"
It's good to live in the era of high technologies - they have already invented drugs for almost everything.
Get nervous - sedative.
We cannot sleep - sleeping pills.
We Can't Live - Antidepressants! And I will be happy!
Such a farmrobot, which has its own tablet for each function.
Of course, it is easy to say when everything is in order, when nothing hurts somewhere in the soul, when it does not press from all sides, but most of all - from the inside this black hole, emptiness, funnel that draws into itself all feelings, thoughts and desires. Life loses its meaning, those around them become faceless mannequins, you want to cover yourself with a blanket and only sleep, sleep, sleep …
How not to go headlong into this darkness?
So here she is - a magic pill! And it seems like you can live on, lets go, the clouds disperse, there is no emptiness, depression, life is getting better. What harm is it if I feel better? It helps me, what's wrong with that?
My son has a difficult period: transitional age, new school, unrequited love. He began to withdraw into himself, does not make friends with anyone, does not go anywhere. It is hard for him, I understand, and the doctor advises him to help …
It's not forever: we will remove the acute period, and then, you see, there will be new friends, interest in studying will appear, the guy will stir up a little, and everything will be fine.
Perfectly. What's next?
After every trouble in life, grabbing pills? And what if they don’t help, or … oh, horror!.. will get even worse?
ANTI-DEPRESSANTS INCREASE THE RISK OF SUICIDE
And are you ready to give them to your children?
An easy road … to hell. For your child. Why do we say that?
The quick effect and momentary stress relief turns into the impossibility of adapting this life in the future. Yes, and don't be surprised!
We all once went through this period of the first 12-15 years of life - the intensive development of properties set from birth. During this period, you and I acquired all the basic skills of interacting with people, learned to defend our opinion, and looked for our place in this life.
Why did we do this? Why are we doing this at all? Why are we developing? For pleasure? Setting a goal and moving towards it? Are we going for "gingerbread"? This is the perfect picture. And if we are honest with ourselves, it turns out that we develop from the opposite - from a lack of pleasure and even from suffering.
As children grow up, they feel this suffering especially acutely. Building relationships with peers, competition, uncertainty with subsequent life, lack of confidence in their abilities. Many things. But it is precisely by overcoming these difficulties that they develop.
By giving them a "magic pill", we do not make them happy, but we alleviate the feeling of lack of pleasure, alleviate suffering and … do not allow them to develop.
Yes, it's hard for him now, but this is the only way to learn to live. And what will happen then, in adulthood, when there is no dad, mom and the one who will slip the pill on time? When will he be ALONE WITH HIMSELF?
HIM HARDER THAN ALL
There are children who are the hardest. Children with an indefatigable restless sound vector, who do not need any benefits of this life, and whom everything pulls somewhere there, to look for SENSE, to understand WHY this world was created.
Why is it the hardest? Yes, because its lack cannot be filled with either love, respect, or implementation in studies (and subsequently, in a career). He can have everything at the level of the physical world and not have ANYTHING there, inside.
He is a special, brooding child with a precocious adult gaze directed somewhere in himself. It seems to us that it is he who most of all needs medication. Everyone runs, shouts cheerfully, rejoices in childhood, and he silently suffers alone with his thoughts.
It has a potential of such a scale that it needs all childhood and adolescence to take control of it. To acquire the skills to use your unique abstract thinking.
Such children are prone to suicide. But by giving them a "magic pill", we deprive them of their future once and for all.
Instead of comprehending the universe at all its levels, he will listen to hard rock. Instead of making ingenious discoveries - gazing at the stars from your balcony and being tormented by the treacherous thought, "maybe step there, into eternity … right now?"
We will ease his suffering, but we will not give an answer to his inner search, which means that his life will not be filled with meaning, and sooner or later he will do the irreparable.
The way out of depression and the most difficult conditions for such a child lies in knowing himself, and the most that parents can do is help him do it.
You will learn everything about antidepressants, sound vector and sound children at the training on systemic vector psychology by Yuri Burlan.
