How to help with depression
The sound head is focused on its thoughts. The soundman is trying to catch something that would explain WHY this is all. Why people and bodies? What am I here for? Where and where do I go from? Without receiving sensible answers, having come to the conclusion that life is a dead end, and defending against ridicule, a person in depression gets used to not sharing his painful thoughts with anyone.
The husband is like a stone: cold, unhappy and indifferent. The daughter is like a tornado: she roars, then she laughs, then she threatens to leave the house or cut her veins. And the wife and mother are like a flimsy heck in attempts to contain the irreparable, to understand how to help loved ones with depression and not give up on her own.
A native person in depression is an abscess on the family's body. But if you know how to help a patient with depression, it is close people who can become a saving straw.
First aid, the chance for recovery of a depressed person is his exact understanding.
How can you help someone with depression?
To help a person get out of depression, you need to clearly imagine the way in which he got there. To do this, you do not need to be a psychiatrist, scour the psychological forums or get depressed yourself.
Today, Yuri Burlan's System-Vector Psychology, for the first time, allows everyone to understand a person in depression not through their perception of the world, but to accurately understand the patient's thoughts, determine the causes of his conditions and help him get rid of depression.
Depressed person - different types of bad conditions
Before choosing a “medicine”, that is, an approach to a person in need of help, we determine the area of the human psyche damaged by the “tumor” of depression.
| Symptoms of a person in depression | Localization of depression in the human psyche |
| A loved one in depression wants nothing (not even sex), does not enjoy anything, is always exhausted. The look is empty. He constantly thinks about something, but does not share his thoughts. The conversation doesn't go well. The feeling that he is in his gloomy world. It seems that he is much better alone than with loved ones. | Sound vector |
| A depressed person plagues household members with mood swings, throws tantrums, demands attention, blackmails by leaving home and even suicide. | Visual vector |
How to keep someone depressed
It is possible to help a man or woman, girlfriend or boyfriend, adult or teenager when depression has already burned out the chasm between you. From what to build a bridge over the cliff to a dear person and be able to please him?
1. How to help a depressed husband
Sometimes women think that a man needs a hearty dinner on the table and a warm wife in bed to be happy. But what if he forgets even to eat, not to mention sex? A depressed person wants nothing. He can fulfill the prescriptions demanded of him by the environment, but without a single spark of interest.
And all because sound desires are not about the earthly, they are beyond the understanding of ordinary people. Even without having systemic knowledge, we often call sound engineers “out of this world”.
The sound head is focused on its thoughts. The soundman is trying to catch something that would explain WHY this is all. Why people and bodies? What am I here for? Where and where do I go from? Without receiving sensible answers, having come to the conclusion that life is a dead end, and defending against ridicule, a person in depression gets used to not sharing his painful thoughts with anyone.
Trust cannot be restored by force. In order for a depressed person to want to open up to you, he must feel that you understand exactly why it is difficult for him, that his condition is not a whim.
Contact with people who look at the world in a systemic way gives pleasant sensations even to a depressed person. Why? Because you naturally, without interrogation or lamentation, understand it. And if you understand, then you won't hurt. When basic trust is achieved, it is possible to help a loved one with depression, overcome alienation.
A person has depression - how to help?
To better understand how a person gets out of depression, imagine that he is always under the rule of the Dementors from "Harry Potter", sucking out happiness, depriving positive memories that bring sadness.
The soundman is like an “antenna” created to capture the meaning of life for all of us. But his device is knocking, the necessary wave is not caught. Instead of tuning in the receiver and focusing on decoding the signals, the depressed person hears a dull hiss. He closes in on himself, like in a closet littered with junk of empty thoughts, not knowing how to help himself. Gradually depression, apathy do not let him go.
How to help a depressed person if you understand that his pain is caused by unfulfilled desires of the sound vector? System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan shows: a person does something with only one purpose - to get pleasure. Sonic, especially if a person has been depressed for a long time, this is the most difficult thing.
His pleasure is not associated with cutlets, but with the disclosure of the laws of the universe. Not many in our time know how to get pleasure from this. Perhaps Stephen Hawking. Although his joy of comprehending the world order is limited to the physical world.
Modern sound scientists want more, not limited by matter and form of awareness. And they can get it. Today, there is a way to help overcome sound depression. Accurate, proven by hundreds of results.
Watch the video how the training in systemic vector psychology helped a person cope with depression and gain meaningfulness in every minute:
There is a way out of depression, the main thing is to understand what is happening.
What to say to a depressed person?
You can help a husband or a friend in poor sound states with depression by gradually luring him out, like an oyster from a shell.
How to talk to a depressed person?
- With a sound person, especially in depression, you need to speak quietly, not verbose, but “multi-meaning”.
- Verbalize his aspirations for the non-material world and lack. For example: “The goals of other people seem small, the world is empty, primitive, something is missing. And not at all what everyone has."
- To interest in accurate systemic knowledge about the structure of the unconscious. Many sound specialists woke up from a depressive hibernation, as if by chance hearing a lecture on system-vector psychology, which was included by someone close. Why don't you try it too?
To help overcome depression is to release sound abstract intelligence from the matchbox of your own head into an immeasurable sea of meanings. At the training in systemic-vector psychology, the structure of the unconscious is revealed to them, which allows them to fill their thirst for knowledge of the world order and get out of focus on themselves. Understanding how the psyche of other people is structured allows you to know yourself on differences - this is what they strive for. As a result, the perception of the world completely changes, depression goes away, avoidance of people is replaced by interest in them.
2. How to help a visual daughter to cope with depression
And how can you help a young girl overcome depression if her symptoms and behavior are not at all the same as those of her husband, but she is also unbearably ill?
With the systemic skill of observation, a woman notices the difference, keeps track of who is behaving and how and what is behind it. This means that for every household member he can find an approach and help get out of depression.
The visual person is very sensitive. It sways like a leaf in the wind for any reason. If sound ears are designed to catch meanings, then visual eyes are sharpened to "hunt" for beauty and emotions.
Want to help your over-emotional daughter in depression? Systemic mom can do it.
System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan does not define the worst states of the visual vector and even its neurosis as depression.
Melancholy, sadness, dramatic mood swings in an oversensitive visual adolescent can be caused by various reasons, including severe stress. The main source of visual distress is lack of feelings. A visual person needs them as a guide dog to a blind person. Without a strong emotional connection with people, they feel helpless. They are very scared.
In principle, such people do not know how not to take to heart. Therefore, advice to calm down, not to get upset will fly past them or cause irritation. The problem at school is immediately into tears, the girl's first love suffering is a catastrophe of a universal scale.
How to please and cheer up someone who is depressed and in a bad mood?
Parents do not get along - a visual child has the conclusion "I don't need anyone." The boy did not pay attention - "nobody loves me." The fear of remaining defenseless fetters and forces you to attract attention in all possible ways, including threats of suicide.
What to say to a person in "visual depression"?
Listen. As a natural extrovert, the spectator, shrouded in your care, will talk about suffering and get relief.
Redirect her feelings to compassion for the worse. So she can deal with her fears.
Help a person gain knowledge about the causes of his bad conditions.
You can read more about depression here.
And most importantly, to help a person when he is overcome by depression, you yourself must be internally balanced and psychologically literate.
A depressed person cannot cope alone, he needs your conscious and effective help. To be able to help loved ones and ourselves, to find a happy life is what Yuri Burlan's system-vector psychology gives. Sign up for free online trainings here and find out how to help a person get out of depression.
