And I fell in love with Kai. How to deal with a morbid ice boy attachment
A person with a sound vector is an absolute egocentric, the world is illusory for him. Living life inside the capsule of his own consciousness, he hardly connects himself with the outside world. The soundman is low-emotional, focused, or a genius, or a villain. These states are more pronounced and the more strongly affect his relationships with other people, the closer he is to a state of depression.
How to understand what he needs and melt the cold heart of the sound engineer?
He is laconic, the Universe is reflected in his eyes. It blows cold, but you believe that "your great love is enough for both of you with your head." The harsh truth of life is that such love is not enough even for you alone. But do not rush to break off relations. How to understand what he needs and melt a cold heart?
I dreamed of a prince, but he ended up with a chilled soul
It has depth, secret pain and enchanting disregard for the postulates of this world, an arrogant grin, a quiet voice and … This smell, either a special mixture of cigarettes and perfume, or an extraordinary all-consuming calmness, but pulls to it just like a magnet. His mere appearance in public is akin to a terrorist attack. Representatives of the weaker sex are dying en masse, without having time to say goodbye to the mind: "Adyu!"
He is confident in his mind, easily refutes the value of everything. Cynicism bordering on genius. Or madness?..
The specific role of a person with a sound vector is the night guard of the pack. The soundman is a natural thinker. Music, philosophy, literature, programming - all this is his handiwork.
The sound vector is dominant, which means that all other desires of a person are negligible in comparison with the spiritual search that constitutes his essence. The soul of the sound engineer strives to eternity, looking for answers to fundamental questions: “Who am I? Where did you come from and where am I going? What is the sense of life?"
When his natural desires for the sound vector are not fulfilled for a long time, they turn into frustrations, which most often lead him to prolonged endogenous depression.
A person with a sound vector is an absolute egocentric, the world is illusory for him. Living life inside the capsule of his own consciousness, he hardly connects himself with the outside world. The soundman is low-emotional, focused, or a genius, or a villain. These states are the more pronounced and the more strongly affect his relationships with other people, the closer he is to a state of depression.
Running ahead, “man is not fed up with sound alone”, your favorite sound engineer has other vectors. How to reach them?
How many joules of warmth does it take to melt Kai's heart?
External coldness does not become an obstacle for either visual or sound women: they fall in love with the sound person without a trace.
The visual woman finds relief from fears in her Kaya. This is a very ancient relationship scenario. Tens of thousands of years ago, she was looking for salvation next to the soundman at night. Her supersensitive eyes in the dark are powerless against a predator, and his supersensitive hearing can sense the approach of a threat even in pitch darkness. And after thousands of years of evolution, the spectators are drawn to the sound people as a force that conditionally protects them and unconditionally relieves them of their natural subconscious fear of death.
The owner of the sound vector, like the sound man, is aimed at finding the meaning of life, and then they are even more along the way. They are able to understand each other like no one else, what happiness it is to be silent together, immersed in reflections “about globals”.
Sometimes she does sound transfer. Instead of searching for the meaning of life, the sound woman unconsciously takes a detour, “appointing” her beloved to the role of God. One such "falling in love" even without realizing a relationship can fill a sound woman with a sense of the presence of meaning in this life.
Most often, a woman chooses a sound engineer for the role of her own God, because in him she feels similar desires, a single direction of spiritual search. His conclusions can become for her the fundamental philosophy of life.
However, the sound man often remains indifferent both to the spectators, generously endowing him with seething emotions, and to the sound ones, who elevate him to the rank of the supreme.
You can't despair of love
However, the situation is not as hopeless as it seems at first glance. Thanks to Yuri Burlan's System-Vector Psychology, it is possible to unravel the mystery of the sound soul.
The sound man, like any other person on planet earth, wants to get pleasure from life. For him, a source of joy becomes a sensual and, most importantly, a conscious understanding of life. Without it, he simply refuses to live. It is vitally important here whether the sound engineer has found a way to reveal the unconscious, in which all the desired answers are hidden.
Moreover, the sonic man, like any other, needs fuel for life - an attraction to a woman. If the woman who turns him on has the correct values and the direction of desires, then in order to get it, the sound engineer will with all his might fulfill the specific role, which means that he will reach unimaginable heights in his sphere of realization - creativity, exact sciences and any other.
A woman who does not struggle with the nature of her man, but helps him to fill both of them with vector pleasure from life, receives in return the desired attitude towards herself.
Happiness in love with a sound person is a solvable problem for those who are familiar with system-vector psychology. Here is what people who have undergone training in system-vector psychology by Yuri Burlan say:
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