A land of losers not marked on the globe
Everyone must have met a person who simply attracts misfortune to himself: he will certainly slip on a watermelon peel thrown by someone, a passing car will sprinkle him with mud, his wallet will be taken away, he will be fired from his job, and so on. In a word, all imaginable and inconceivable troubles constantly happen to him …
We often hear: “I’m not lucky! I got into a streak of bad luck! Black streak in life! " Why is this happening? Why does luck run away from people? What is it? Hard luck? Bad Karma? Or the punishment of a Higher Power? Or maybe the person himself is to blame for everything? "It seems they are not idlers and could live!", But it does not work!
Let's try to find answers to these questions using the system-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan. First of all, it is necessary to understand how a personal scenario of failure arises and how a social scenario changes the fate of many people.
Personal life scenario for failure
Everyone must have met a person who simply attracts misfortune to himself: he will certainly slip on a watermelon peel thrown by someone, a passing car will sprinkle him with mud, his wallet will be taken away, he will be fired from his job, and so on. In a word, all imaginable and inconceivable troubles constantly happen to him.
Circumstances always develop in such a way that any business for which he undertakes will be a failure, and he will definitely refuse a profitable deal. And it's not a lack of intelligence at all - it's just a life scenario for failure, formed in childhood.
As Yuri Burlan's System-Vector Psychology explains, such a scenario is formed in a child with a skin vector if he is beaten physically or psychologically by his parents in childhood. It is about physical punishment and verbal humiliation ("who are you with me, such a moron, you were born"). To protect himself from the often repeated unbearable pain, at least somehow adapt to it, the body of such a child begins to produce natural pain relievers - opiates that cause addiction.
This addiction is akin to a drug addiction, when a child unconsciously literally begins to provoke the environment to physical violence, which will bring him another dose of pleasure. The child develops masochism, which even in adulthood makes him look for pain, failure and humiliation on an unconscious level.
This is how a personal negative scenario for failure is formed, which creates an unhappy fate for a person.
In addition, in our country, unfortunately, a social negative scenario has developed, which affected the fate of many people.
Social scenario for failure
The collapse of the Soviet Union and the change in social formation turned the foundations of society upside down. Former ideals, somewhat decayed by the end of the twentieth century, nevertheless, formed the basis of public consciousness. Everyone was convinced that stealing is bad, lying is bad, taking bribes is bad, speculating is bad.
This did not mean at all that no one lied, did not take bribes and did not steal, but such actions were condemned by society. The people who committed these acts were despised and neglected. Thieves and other criminals formed the "bottom" of the then respectable society, and the attitude towards them was appropriate.
As Yuri Burlan's System-Vector Psychology says, in the 90s of the last century, as a result of a sharp transition into individualistic skin values alien to our mentality, a terrible tragedy occurred: the “bottom”, represented by archetypal representatives of the skin vector, went up and began to create a new formation called "Democracy", according to their understanding.
They began to buy up for a pittance, or even just seize factories and ships, while most of society was at a loss. The redistribution of property took place according to the most elementary gangster scenarios, according to the principle "who is stronger is right."
The former elite, consisting of scientists, doctors, teachers, engineers, artists, musicians, was out of work in the new country. Enterprises, scientific institutes were closed, collective farms collapsed. The specialists who were respected in the old days were left without a livelihood.
The usual life has collapsed! It was necessary to adapt to new circumstances, and not everyone succeeded. Millions of people feel like worthless losers at the bottom of the trough. A social scenario of failure emerged in the country.
New realities
System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan examines in detail all the consequences …
The time has come for failure for decent smart people. It was difficult for the majority of the population to adapt to the new realities, when "if you don't steal, you won't live!" Only those who have always lived like this felt easy. The time has come for speculators, grabbers, thieves - people with a skin vector in an archetypal state.
Decent people are disappointed in the changes. Corruption raged around, the courts did not defend, the authorities did not care about them. People have neither a sense of security nor hope for a better future.
Everyone began to build their own defense as best they could: someone hired guards who did not have such an opportunity, they hoped only in God and threw them into the church, as the only refuge for all the offended and offended.
Those in power understood this and the construction of temples began throughout the country. The representatives of the authorities, standing with candles in their hands, diligently demonstrated their own religiosity to the people on major church holidays.
The degree of hopelessness in the country has reached such a level that a huge number of psychics, clairvoyants, fortune-tellers have appeared. The educated people driven to despair went to the charlatans for advice, just to somehow relieve tension, to get a tiny relief for a short time. And this is in one of the most highly educated countries in the world with a materialistic worldview!
Those who did not believe the false prophets got drunk or died of heart attacks. How many people disappeared in this way, no one counted!
Our communal urethral mentality somehow kept people together, prevented the collapse of the state in the most difficult times, but the psychological trauma of the people remained, the resentment remained. We have become a state of the injured and offended, a country of Bad luck!
Even developed skin people everywhere were forced to adapt to the “new reality” - and use their properties not for constructive creation, construction, organization, but for “grabbing” into themselves. This is how we got a collective mental deformation, where the “bottom” dictates to everyone how to live, where to “throw a sucker” is honorable.
Deep "scars" all these changes have left on the soul of people with an anal vector. They are still not able to free themselves from resentment: society is to blame, Putin is to blame, people of other nationalities are to blame! They are guided by their bad experience, and having a bad experience, you can't build a good one!
A bad experience is the worst that a person can gain, because defending himself against another deception with bad experience: “Ah! It's not true! Another deception!”, He misses another chance. The result is a bad life.
Trust but verify
How to live? Indeed, there are really many scammers and crooks around who take advantage of the fact that not everything is still regulated by law in our life. To deceive the "sucker", "to cheat for money" is a favorite pastime of this public.
We can easily mislead the buyer and sell him a low-quality product, promise a fantastic result in advertising, and no one is responsible for this.
People can deliberately lie, people can make mistakes, this must be remembered in order not to get into a mess and not become a victim of scammers. Especially often people with an anal vector are deceived. Like everyone else, they judge everyone by themselves: "Look, I trust you!" In such a case, he himself will try not to let the person who believed him. For the owners of the anal vector, the trust placed in them is of great value.
You should not push everyone and everything away. You need to know and check, especially when it comes to money - everything should be open and understandable.
How to "escape" from Bad Luck
We live in a society, among other people. If we know how to interact well with other people, build connections with them, then our life develops happily, if we do not know how, then our life turns into a complete failure.
However, resentful and traumatized people are afraid to form bonds with others. Everyone is trapped in a total distrust of each other, of society, of the government and, accordingly, does not interact with other people.
So developed skin people do not seek to develop business or trade ties: "With whom to do business?"
People with a visual vector do not create emotional connections: "Who should I love?"
Anal people do not create family ties: "All women you know what!"
The sound people, instead of creating special connections with others, got lost in their own inner world: “Everyone is stupid! There is no one to talk to!"
And the like, depending on the vectors available.
From archetypal leatherworkers into society came attitudes that only fools and suckers give from themselves. As a result, everyone sits and waits for someone to offer something, fall in love, appreciate, understand. You can wait all your life and you won't wait for anything!
It's time to shake things up and start extroverting and interacting with other people yourself. However, this should not be done blindly, without guessing at the coffee grounds, but relying on a deep understanding of people, which is given by Yuri Burlan's training in system-vector psychology.
Knowing how to distinguish people by their properties, you will not be mistaken in choosing a business partner, you will understand what kind of person you can build a strong family with and whether you should vote for this candidate who is eager for big politics.
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