Marilyn Monroe. Part 2. I wannbe loved by you
If in a relationship with the opposite sex something did not turn out the way she wanted, the actress would start hysterics, sometimes ending in attempts to say goodbye to life …
Part 1. A timid mouse from an orphanage
The thought of "being someone else's wife" instills fear in the soul.
Marilyn Monroe
Fears and flirting with death began in Marilyn as a child. She seeks outside support, discovering some reassurance for herself in relationships with men. As a woman with undeveloped properties of the optic cutaneous ligament of vectors, Monroe, and still Norma Jeane, from a young age is distinguished by an intense change of sexual partners.
She creates relationships with men on which her career and, accordingly, financial well-being depend. In terms of money, Marilyn has long become independent, fees for photo shoots and roles are constantly increasing. But you need to think about new contracts with studios in order to provide yourself with permanent work for a long time and stay at the achieved level.
If in a relationship with the opposite sex something did not turn out the way she wanted, the actress would start hysterics, sometimes ending in attempts to say goodbye to life.
Her suicides, and usually pills were used, were caused by the fear of being alone. Whenever a significant man left Marilyn's life, she tried to commit suicide, counting on his compassion. Suicidal blackmail for people with a visual vector is a favorite way to attract attention or achieve their goals. It is used when the emotional ties between the spectator and his partner break up in order to keep the latter or cause him to feel guilty.
Suicide attempts by Marilyn Monroe should be viewed not only as blackmailing an undeveloped visual woman, but also try to see in them a certain hopelessness, ignorance of how to live and what to do next. Marilyn did not have anyone who could give her simple everyday advice. She lived, as if by touch, in confusion and fear, not giving account of her actions.
In the future, the unstable mental state of the actress and her numerous threats to commit suicide will become a trump card for those who try to get rid of Marilyn Monroe on August 4, 1962. It will be officially announced that the actress died of an overdose of sleeping pills, committing suicide. However, physiologists and doctors have not yet confirmed this version.
Marilyn hoped to get a sense of confidence and relief from panic states in a new marital relationship. However, marriage did not bring her the desired peace. None of the many partners of the actress managed to transform her fears into love.
The last two marriages of the star ended in divorce, initiated by Marilyn's husbands. The men who were married to her had almost the same set of vectors, with varying degrees of development of their properties. Consequently, they presented the same requirements to her, not realizing that a skin-visual woman, such as Marilyn Monroe, is not able to meet them.
"He managed to turn the fam de luxe into a fam de chambre." A. Vertinsky. Concert Sarasate
All of Monroe's husbands set themselves the daunting task of transforming the sexy actress, for whom all men in the world went crazy, from a “fam de luxe” (French) - gorgeous woman into a “fam de chambre” (French) - a domestic woman. Such an unrealizable dream can only occur to a very naive and inexperienced anal guy in relationships with women. Marilyn not only did not know how to run a household, she never had her own house, except for the last years of her life.
A sex bomb for a baseball hero
"Speedy Yankees" - that's what baseball fans called Joe DiMaggio. By the time Joe first met Marilyn, they had already left the big sport. The 39-year-old's arsenal consisted of a completed brilliant New York Yankees baseball career, solid capital, an unblemished reputation and an unoccupied heart.
Very decent and serious about this woman, Joe, even after several meetings with her, unlike most of the men who surrounded the actress, was in no hurry to take possession of her, which was extremely surprising to Marilyn. “He's so different from the others,” she said of DiMaggio. "I always felt special around him."
Twenty-seven-year-old Marilyn was intrigued by the novelty of sensations and an unusual boyfriend, which she, despite his athletic stardom, had never heard of before. Monroe demanded fresh intrigue in her disorderly life and agreed to accept the terms of the game proposed by DiMaggio.
At a modest wedding, in order to please the groom, the actress wore a brown suit, more suitable for a school teacher, and not for a bride on the wedding day. For reporters who met the newlyweds at the entrance, Marilyn promised to become an enviable mistress and give birth to Joe's children. It all ended with promises.
It was a union of prudence and eccentricity. Marilyn Monroe and Joe DiMaggio - a golden couple, two stars - cinema and sports, representatives of American mass culture, aroused keen interest in their fans.
In an anally measured and solid Joe, marrying the skin-visual Marilyn, he hoped to get his wife an exemplary hostess, a serious, homely and at the same time sexy beauty with ideal shapes, in shorts and high heels, who came straight from the screen to his kitchen.
"She's not a star, she's my wife." Joe DiMaggio
Having completed his sports career, DiMaggio dreamed of a quiet, wealthy life with family evenings in front of TV, beer and friends. Marilyn, who had already managed to gain a foothold in the status of the sex symbol of American cinema, had completely different plans, which she was not going to give up, as well as belong to one man. In this short marriage, she could not be suspected of infidelity, but she could not deny herself the pleasure of public self-demonstration. Then Monroe will say, "Men have a sincere respect for anything that gets bored."
All 9 months of family life with Joe, it was not only her husband on the couch who bored her, carefully controlling all bills, expenses and making her suggestions about her extravagance. A girl who, from infancy, changed more than one foster family and grew up on other people's grubs, not taught a reasonable housekeeping, did not know the value of money that she easily earned and easily spent. There were also noticeable gaps in her upbringing. Sloppy and careless Marilyn liked to eat in bed, and instead of napkins, wipe her hands on the sheets, leave an unfinished cup, a half-eaten apple or a peach anywhere.
“Everywhere there are open tubes of toothpaste, things scattered on the floor, taps from which water is dripping, light that has not been extinguished in the daytime - all these are flowers, its slovenliness will still make itself felt. Billy Wilder, the director of the movie in Jazz Only Girls, describes the bedlam in the backseat of her open-top Cadillac: “A pile of blouses, pants, dresses, belts, old shoes, used air tickets … receipts for violating traffic rules … Do you think she worries? Do I care if the sun rises tomorrow? " [Norman Mailer. Marilyn]
Meticulous and neat Joe was ready to endure even this, hoping that over time everything would change and his wife would learn to appreciate order. However, it was too much for him to withstand the sticky, lustful looks of other men on the body of "his" Marilyn. Before meeting Monroe, DiMaggio was not interested in cinema. Taking a star actress as his wife, he received as a dowry free bohemian morals, the delight of men, their outright harassment, to which she only shrugged her shoulders, the obligatory presence at social receptions and the iridescent label "sex symbol of America."
Boredom was caused by endless quarrels over the popularity of Marilyn and the crowds of her fans, scenes of jealousy, after which they went to bed in different bedrooms. The offended DiMaggio did not speak with his wife for several days, and the actress was annoyed by her husband's absolute non-romanticism. Once, in a fit of tenderness, Marilyn gave him a locket with an engraved quote from Exupery's The Little Prince: “Only the heart is truly sagacious. The essence of things is invisible to the eye. " Di Maggio was outraged: "What the hell does that mean ?!"
A complete break in relations occurred on the set of the movie "The Seven Year Itch." Joe was there just as the scene was filmed in which Marilyn stood with a flying white skirt above the ventilation grill. The air currents from the metro train passing every 2-3 minutes, escaping from below, lifted the laughing actress's skirt to the general glee of the crowd of onlookers.
Demonstration for the dermatological is the main way to stand out from the crowd and attract attention. For Monroe, getting naked was as natural as breathing. At a press conference in Mexico, journalists began to provoke Marilyn by asking questions about her underwear. Soon they had to make sure that the actress had nothing under the dress.
The skin-visual woman is public, does not give birth, she belongs to everyone and does not belong to anyone. Marilyn confirms this with the words: "I always knew that I became famous not because of my talent or beauty, but only because I never completely belonged to anyone and anything."
At home after filming, Joe gave Monroe a huge scandal. Divorce followed. After parting with Marilyn, Joe DiMaggio never married. Biographers claim that for the rest of his life, loving Monroe, he remained faithful to her just as he did to the promise made to his wife during his lifetime to bring unchanging red roses to her grave every week if she left before him. Having survived Monroe for several decades, he bequeathed to bury himself next to Marilyn.
"We left her alone and in fear when she needed us the most." Hedda Hopper
Exhausted by work on the set, setbacks in her personal life, endless sleeping pills and antidepressants with alcohol, the actress escapes from Hollywood to New York. It seems to her that there, hiding from prying eyes, she will forget her fears, overcome uncertainty and creative dissatisfaction, and find herself in a new role.
Marilyn's further actions are completely naive and more like a child's behavior. She changes her sonorous name Marilyn Monroe to the equally expressive Zelda Zork, hiding her platinum hair under a black wig. She thinks that in this way she can start a new life, separate from the Marilyn that the whole world knows.
Deep psychological voids caused by a lack of emotional connection, the aching melancholy of a creative vacuum, endless fears of invented madness cannot be covered with wigs or pseudonyms.
In New York, Marilyn makes an appointment with psychoanalysts, where she will talk about her loneliness and childhood years without a mother. Later, her “confessors” would form the concept of “Marilyn Monroe syndrome” in world psychology, taking as a basis the destructive psychological complex that develops in a child in the absence of attention, love and care from the mother.
"I wannbe loved by you, just you" / "I want to be loved only by you …"
Several years passed before the former model, extra and starlet Norma Jean Baker, "the love of soldiers and sailors", now called Marilyn Monroe, appeared before the world in the form of an unattainable and at the same time accessible to everyone and everyone star, platinum blonde with a languid gaze.
At the invitation of the American army stationed in Korea, the actress, who was honeymooning Joe in the Far East, suffering from lack of attention and deification, agreed to several recitals in front of the military. Of course, the newlywed did not like this idea. But who could have stopped Marilyn, whose heels were already pounding on the military roads of the ancient savannah?
Like a blond angel, she appeared on an impromptu stage to perform in front of a crowd of thousands of soldiers in order to raise her fighting spirit. “I guess I didn’t understand how I act on people until I visited Korea,” she later admits, feeling pleasure from these concerts herself.
Exactly fulfilling the natural role of the skin-visual female, which in ancient times with her fluids brought the muscular army out of the state of monotony, bringing it into a state of "rage", Marilyn Monroe, half-dressed at sub-zero temperatures, seduced and indiscriminately released pheromones to a crowd of thousands of spectators, consisting of of soldiers and officers.
At concerts in Korea, with unpretentious songs such as Diamonds are girl's bestfriend, and with her smells, she drove crazy, excited, excited, inspired the American army for next victories.
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