About love at first sight and at first smell
In the film "Tomorrow Was the War," a convinced Komsomol activist Iskra indignantly reprimands her friend, the skin-visual heroine Natalia Negoda: “It turns out that her dream is to be a woman! Not a pilot, not a parachutist, not a Stakhanovka, finally!.. But a woman! A toy in the hands of a man!"
The best remedy for love at first sight is
to look closely a second time.
In the film "Tomorrow Was the War," a convinced Komsomol activist Iskra indignantly reprimands her friend, the skin-visual heroine Natalia Negoda: “It turns out that her dream is to be a woman! Not a pilot, not a parachutist, not a Stakhanovka, finally!.. But a woman! A toy in the hands of a man!"
Today, perhaps, so much surprise can cause just the opposite: a rare woman will dream of becoming a parachutist or a pilot. But in the depths of her soul, almost everyone dreams of being loved, adored by the goddess and beloved half. But these dreams are usually limited to the expectation of a sudden meeting with the fairy-tale prince. Remember, as in a fairy tale: "The king found out that there were rejuvenating apples somewhere, and sent his sons to get them." So are the girls: they will find out where the men hang out, and go there to "walk their faces." The man has become a kind of prey for women of fertile age, almost the same as an expensive anti-wrinkle cream, a fancy handbag or a gym membership with a giant discount. Open any women's magazine and be sure to stumble upon an article with a title like "10 ways to fool a man"Secrets of a win-win flirting" or "Any man will be at your feet if …"
What's going on on dating sites? Most of the women's ads seem to be carbon-copy. All completely successful, accomplished and knowing their worth, everyone is looking for support, support, understanding and are ready to provide comfort. All as one declare: “Love me the way I am”, but at the same time they are ready to give their hand and heart not to a man of flesh and blood, but to some ideal male, necessarily generous, intelligent, successful, rich, handsome, athletic, without m / f problems, not from MLS, no bad habits, etc.
In other words, for some reason, many believe that it is worth meeting "their" ideal man, and life will become like in a fairy tale: "… and they lived happily ever after and died on the same day." For some reason, few people think that there are no ideals in life, and relationships need to be worked on, even if at the first meeting all the puzzles coincided and love broke out at first sight. But can it really be premature to think about it before the fateful meeting takes place, which will ignite the fire of desires in the chest? After all, meeting a man to your heart, attracting his attention to yourself is also not an easy task.
On the lure of pheromones
Love at first sight could well be baptized into love at first sight. Despite the fact that men "love with their eyes" and women with "ears", in fact, all relationships are tied to the foundation of animal attraction. And we owe our "lightning-fast love" and sudden sympathy to pheromones, which convey many times more information than words or looks. And no matter how we embellish ourselves, no matter how we try to look like someone else, the information that pheromones carry cannot be drowned out by the smell of perfume or skillful makeup. Of course, you can drape your figure with clothes, make a war paint like a "vamp woman" or, conversely, pretend to be a shy woman and a dandelion of God, but if these images are chosen to try to hide the true essence of a woman, and do not correspond to her vector set, they will not bring success …
For example, if a chubby anal girl does not manage to wear short skirts as elegantly and boldly as her slender skinny girlfriend does, you should hardly imitate her - a fat woman in such an outfit will look ridiculous rather than appetizing. In any situation, you need to remain yourself, corresponding to your vector and trying to develop what is inherent in nature, and especially in a situation when a girl is trying to attract the attention of a man who interested her. There is no point in pretending to be someone you are not.
And if you meet a man who, at an animal level, reacted specifically to your pheromones, you need to support this desire in him. Again, not adjusting to the standards imposed by fashion and not depicting the fatal type seen in the cinema, but corresponding to yourself, your vector set, your innate inclinations and temperament.
There was an incident with one of my friends. Noticing that her husband began to smarten up, getting ready for work, she decided to urgently take action. And for the full program. I poured a lot of money into an expensive dress with a plunging neckline, new lace underwear and sparkling high-heeled shoes … I bought wine, cooked a festive dinner. And she met her unsuspecting spouse in the evening at the door fully armed. The husband, of course, was speechless from such beauty. During dinner, they thoroughly venerated the wine, after which they smoothly moved into the living room to the TV, on which they showed the next "dances with the stars." Either a drunken courage hit my friend in the head, or a desire to hit my spouse and knock out the thoughts of a mythical homeless woman from his head, but she only decided to prove to him that she can lift her legs no worse than screen beauties. As a result, I couldn't think of anything smarter than to show him that she can turn on the light with her foot, reaching the switch at the level of her shoulder …
The end of this story is predictable. An unsportsmanlike homemade donut, accustomed to pamper herself and her husband with donuts, cutlets and goulash, who loves to roll around with a book on the couch and who sits at the computer in the accounting department all working time, made a wide swing with her leg. The only fulcrum in the form of a full leg swollen from drunk wine on a thin hairpin could not withstand the load and turned up. The net remnant is a broken leg, a ruined evening, a sick leave and a host of other thrills.
Of course, not all experiments on dressing up anal "donuts" in skin "birds" end so badly. But, in fact, all of them sooner or later lead to failures with the opposite sex. Because men subconsciously react to pheromones, the roots of their attraction lie precisely at the animal level. And all their confessions from the series "I fell in love with her beautiful eyes" or "She had such a charming smile that I could not resist" - these are just subsequent rationalizations of a sudden attraction. And if pheromones say that in front of him is a domestic "chicken", an ideal wife and potential mother of his children, and his eyes see a defiantly painted lady with a vulgar neckline and a smoking cigarette, then the man has a brain explosion. Of course, this does not mean that you can run yourself and not work on yourself, relying on pheromones alone,even urethral women cannot afford it. But you need to understand that it was you who attracted him. The way you are.
As mentioned above, the attraction between the sexes arises primarily due to pheromones, in fact, smells, which are unconsciously interpreted as attractive and activate the male libido, causing the desire to look "a second time". And already during this second look, men pay attention to the purity of the skin of the face, to the figure, hair, smile, chest, eyes, etc.
Depending on their vectors, men focus their attention on different parts of the female body. Men with an anal vector often gaze at a female ass, they even have their own preferences in this part: someone likes a round ass, someone is small and lean … Men with a skin vector first of all pay attention to female legs, and then to figure as a whole - is it slim, fit? Muscles prefer corpulent women - with large forms, especially highlighting the lush-breasted and steep-hip beauties, subconsciously such forms are interpreted as signs of a high potential for motherhood. Men with a developed visual vector look women in the face, trying to see the expression of their eyes, the degree of spirituality, character traits. The sound engineer will listen to the voice,for him, the timbre and sound of a potential partner's speech may be more important than her external data.
Understanding how it works, you can only make one logical conclusion: to attract a man with some artificially stuck to his image details is stupid and pointless, because every woman initially has everything that can attract a man to her. The one who should be attracted. The only thing that can make a woman more attractive in the eyes of a man is an internal balanced state and, as old Carnegie advised in time immemorial, her sincere interest in a man.
Lips to lips, eyes to eyes
By focusing our attention on a man and understanding what vectors lie at the basis of his personality, what he thinks about, what he wants, we arouse his reciprocal interest and sympathy. Men with an anal vector are especially sensitive to the benevolent female attention, perceiving it as a sign of understanding and empathy.
By the way, it is anal men who supply the types of cute idiots and charming shy guys in romantic comedy films. Remember Novoseltsev from "Office Romance" - a typical anal man. Kind, humble, caring, efficient, reliable. An ideal family man, a caring father. It is quite possible to attract such a man if you show more activity and attention. After all, he is by nature shy and uninitiated. And he may not even notice that you are making eyes at him! In the literal sense of the word, he is able to react to female shooting with his eyes, as in the joke: “Marinochka, why are you blinking so often? You probably got something in your eye? Take my handkerchief …"
Any other man will react to an interested woman's gaze, but an anal man may not "cut through the chip" the first time. But if a woman manages to catch him with her eyes and show him her interest, she has every chance to attract his attention seriously, without waiting for him to come closer to "sniff" the scent of her pheromones … As in Valery Obodzinsky's song "These eyes are opposite ". Remember?
So fate brought us together, so fate brought us together, so fate brought us together, Just don’t let us down, just don’t let us down, just don’t look away …
So, if you like the man, you can take the initiative and start dating yourself. Try to attract his attention with an interested gaze, a turn of the head, a "accidentally" dropped handbag and other simple tricks. If you are not mistaken with the "chemistry" and the man will like your pheromones, some time later he will tell everyone that it was he who "caught you" in the crowd and met the woman of his dreams himself.
Just do not forget that in life, real relationships begin exactly from the place where fairy tales about handsome princes usually end. And even if a spark of animal magnetism slipped between two people, from which a flame of love or passion was kindled, it can quickly fade away if the relationship is not worked on, if you do not put a strong foundation of emotional connection under them.
I have a wonderful friend of thirty. Clever, beautiful, sportswoman; successful and advanced skin-visual girl. She is surrounded by boyfriends and often falls in love, each time lighting up like a match. However, no romance lasts long enough to develop into a serious relationship. The crazy romance with the handsome security guard from the bank ended because he was "dumb." The courting of an intelligent and successful lawyer, at first favorably received, quickly became boring, because he turned out to be "a bore and a miser." Recently, a new gentleman appeared on the horizon - a cheerful, fiery and generous restaurateur, to whom she had already agreed to give her love, but could not … because he is "too fat". So he has been sorting through men for the last ten years, not noticing how time is running away like sand between his fingers.
He is not looking for a partner, a person, a person with whom it will be possible to build relationships, but is looking for a means to love himself beautiful with someone else's hands. To immediately get a "ready-to-eat" ideal man, in a relationship with whom you will not need to invest your mental strength …
Alas, even the strongest attraction and mutual interest must be strengthened by emotional connection, spiritual interpenetration, otherwise it will burn out. It is impossible to drive a car without knowing which pedals to press. System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan - this is the very knowledge "about pedals", which allows you not only to critically approach your merits and demerits and to know yourself vectorially, but also to clearly understand what vectors are desirable for a man with whom a successful union. Moreover, understanding the nature of different vectors and their range of acceptability, you clearly understand what exactly can become the basis for a strong emotional connection with a loved one.
Armed with this knowledge, you can not be afraid that love at first sight will melt like March snow under the rays of the spring sun. And adding to this knowledge the desire to keep a man and discarding the idea that "everything will grow together by itself", we get an excellent recipe called "happy and long relationship."
