Alcoholic depression
The unconscious cannot be deceived by conscious attitudes. The tension in the psychic does not go away, it is not even realized, and for a long time it is impossible to force oneself to smile by willpower while sitting on a hot frying pan.
Alcohol is a pain reliever that relieves mental stress, provides relief and has the side effect of post-alcohol depression.
How sickening! As if something is tearing apart, incinerating from the inside. An unbearable condition! A dazzling encounter with reality, like the harsh light of a lamp in your eyes. I woke up sober, but the feeling that if I don’t drink again, I would burst with melancholy. Alcohol depression?
I would like to put this emptiness, anxiety, aggression, apathy somewhere. You want to run away without looking back, but where to run away from yourself? And it goes on continuously, does not go anywhere. How to live without alcohol for depression, if only it makes it easier?
Alcohol for depression
Long-term depression and alcohol dependence are inextricably linked. We never become addicted to alcohol because of unexpected happiness. Drinking is always preceded by a state that causes the need to drink: loneliness, unhappy love, failure at work, or simply melancholy and meaninglessness. We are treated with alcohol for depression.
This often results in alcoholic depression or, in other words, post-alcoholic depression.
What is alcoholic depression
Alcohol depression is a mood disorder during withdrawal symptoms.
How does alcohol become a habit for depression?
Problems at work, in the family, with loved ones … There are many reasons due to which depression and alcohol addiction become our companions. We start with alcohol for depression, but we don't really solve the problem, as a result we get post-alcoholic depression.
Often we cannot formulate what is happening to us, why alcoholic depression enters our lives as an old friend. What? We expected relief, but it is not.
We do not know how long such a “life” lasts, we ask ourselves the questions: how to cure, how to stop, how to get rid of both post-alcoholic depression and the depression and alcohol addiction that preceded it.
But it is impossible to cure melancholy with the help of alcohol.
Post-alcohol depression
When alcoholic depression becomes habitual, we just start looking for how to remove the symptoms of post-alcoholic depression, how to prevent its onset - we buy alcohol and immediately "anti-hangover" … But it does not work out with prevention and removal of symptoms.
We look on the forums to see if someone has managed to remove alcoholic depression and whether we can overcome it ourselves. We feel that we have to fight, but we remain in a vicious circle: alcohol in depression is followed by post-alcohol depression. This circle has become practically the only way to survive. But is this life?
I want to get rid of alcohol for depression
Communication on the forum does not help to understand how to cope with depression and alcohol addiction and their annoying companion - post-alcohol depression. Apart from the realization that I am not alone, it gives little.
The most amazing thing is that there are examples of cure on the forums. But where does the feeling come from that this deliverance is not forever? Why is there no certainty that alcohol will no longer be needed for depression?
Because the reason is not defined
The system-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan defines a person as a principle of pleasure. To get it, everyone is given an innate set of desires, as well as properties for filling them. We are different, and what makes one person happy is not the same thing as making another.
This is potential. For various reasons, we do not always realize the properties set by nature and fill innate desires. Then we experience tremendous stress, which we often do not realize - not physical pain.
Due to a lack of understanding of the reasons for the unsatisfactory state of our psyche, it is difficult to get rid of alcohol depression - we do not know what causes it.
No wonder there is a feeling that the craving for alcohol with depression is completely out of control. We make promises to ourselves that this was the last time, and wake up again in the morning "after yesterday." It's like rewinding a movie!
The unconscious cannot be deceived by conscious attitudes. The tension in the psychic does not disappear anywhere, it is not even realized, and for a long time it is impossible to force oneself to smile by willpower while sitting on a hot frying pan.
Alcohol is a pain reliever that relieves mental stress, provides relief and has the side effect of post-alcoholic depression.
Alcohol depression is different for everyone
That for one a happy life, another can lead to alcohol depression.
For example, ambition is a natural property of people with a skin vector. They are earners and conquerors: material goods, stars for shoulder straps, medals in sports. Their natural striving is further, higher, stronger. They are leaders, organizers, strive up the career ladder, to be the first.
For people with an anal vector, the main values are family and recognition in the profession. They by nature have a phenomenal memory, perseverance, the desire to thoroughly know the subject, attentive to details. They make the best teachers, experts, professionals in their field. They are honest and decent.
The causes of alcoholic depression for such different people will naturally differ.
Alcohol depression - causes of occurrence
Let's consider some psychological reasons for turning to alcohol in depression, and how they lead to alcohol depression in carriers of different vectors (for example, depression on maternity leave or depression during pregnancy, but now we are talking about people in "normal" states).
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Formed (in childhood) negative scenarios
A person with a skin vector can lead to alcohol depression, a scenario formed in childhood for failure. It arises as a result of the child's moral and physical humiliation, when his flexible psyche adapts pain and learns to enjoy it.
So a loser grows up in life, alcohol with depression is only a consequence. He subconsciously seeks, creates conditions so as not to achieve success, as nature has set for him, but to fail. The pleasure was obtained in a "strange" way, the psyche suffers from the impossibility of realization and is anesthetized with alcohol.
For people with an anal vector, a resentment becomes a child's anchor that makes it impossible to be fulfilled. As a rule, the mother - underestimated! Such a person does not live his life, but only looks for someone to be offended, to blame. The reason for his strong friendship with the glass is formulated as follows: “Where is the justice? I am the best, and they …”Resentment leads to inhibition. No movement and no life. Alcohol depression occurs as a consequence.
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Unrealization of properties (unfulfilled desires)
Mental stress is clearly manifested when we seem to work somewhere, but do not really correspond to the position we hold. For example, a person with an anal vector works in the commercial department of a company. Slowness is given to him by nature, so for him all working hours, when it is necessary to quickly solve skin problems, turns into incessant stress. How to relieve mental stress? That's right, with a bottle in the evening.
Alcohol with depression became a mass problem for the owners of the anal vector in the 90s, when their work ceased to be honorable, they became sharply unnecessary for the country and lost the possibility of natural realization. Following the problems at work, discord in the family began. Post-alcohol depression has become a daily companion of the previously demanded and realized representatives of the anal vector.
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Inconsistency of realization with the strength of innate temperament
For example, a skin-visual actress of a county theater with an auditorium for 500 people strives for a large stage with tens of thousands of spectators. The acting profession is her business, but the temperament requires bringing culture to large masses of people. And if it didn't work out?
She, in a circle of local fans in paints, tells how she could shine on the world stage, but - alas, oh! - is content with cognac in their provincial circle … And in the morning, in visual hysterics, she breaks the dishes and drives the household crazy - she has post-alcohol depression.
The same reason will force a person with a skin vector to drink, when his potential requires organizing the work of thousands of employees, and not four, but a relative of an influential person has already been appointed to this place, for example. And then what? Yes, alcohol for depression - we pacify the temperament.
So that's where alcoholic depression comes from
The inconsistency of life with inner aspirations does not seem to us mortally dangerous - people somehow live. But we do not realize that they live like this because their psychic does not require another. But ours requires, and this cannot be removed. And if we ignore its requirements, it begins to torment us with internal discomfort, which, reaching a certain level, becomes unbearable.
Then the hand itself reaches for alcohol in case of depression, and then a disease appears - alcoholic depression.
Can you get out of the circle of alcoholic depression?
Today, yes. Thanks to the system-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan, many people were able to feel their real desires, deeply realize the causes of mental stress, from which they want to get rid of as soon as possible, with which they want to cope in order to live their lives for real.
Thousands of people have managed to get out of the vicious circle. Here are the reviews of some of them:
So how do you deal with this couple - depression and alcohol addiction?
Treatment for alcoholic depression consists in completely getting rid of depression and alcohol addiction.
It is no secret that psychotherapy is often prescribed as an accompaniment to drug treatment for alcoholic depression. The psychotherapeutic knowledge of SVP is a kind of treatment at the psyche level. It helps you understand the real causes of depression and alcohol addiction, be it unloved work, loneliness or problems in a couple, and eliminate them.
You will also get the opportunity to get rid of alcohol with depression through a deep understanding of your mental nature and awareness of the reasons leading to post-alcohol depression! By realizing your innate desires, you will return the natural joy of life, and the craving for alcohol will disappear by itself. Register for free online lectures on systemic vector psychology by Yuri Burlan here.
