Roza Rymbaeva. When a man holds a woman's happiness
Roza Rymbaeva was born in one of the inconspicuous auls in the Kazakh endless steppes. Her ascent to the pop Olympus seemed like a miracle, luck - unknown to anyone, young, and suddenly such a stunning success!
There is a woman behind the success of every man, his muse, who inspires, supports, performs many functions, without which climbing to the laurels would be impossible. Man is the realization of the pleasure principle, and a man, inspired by a woman, reaches the maximum. There are many stories written about this. This is an axiom that is accepted without proof.
Everything flows, everything changes. And over the past hundred years, women have begun to play an active role in society. They are no longer content with the role obediently performed for millennia - children, kitchen, church. This is especially true for skin-visual women, who, unlike other women, have a social role that has been developed for centuries. They always had to survive despite the circumstances, rely only on themselves and their strength, because they were not married. This includes an unambiguous hint: for the success of a woman, look for the seduction of a man.
However, every rule has exceptions. And the success story of Roza Rymbaeva, the golden voice of Central Asia, is one of them.
Taskyn
Taskyn Okapov was at that memorable competition dedicated to the 30th anniversary of Victory in the Great Patriotic War. For his twenty-eight years, he made a good career - the chief conductor of the republican youth-variety ensemble "Gulder", and four years later he will become the director and artistic director of another youth group, when he gathers talented people into the "Aray" group.
Taskyn was a generalist - conductor, arranger, teacher at the conservatory, producer. With full dedication, he did whatever work he took on. He knew how to find and unite talented creative people. The appearance of many pop stars took place thanks to his participation.
Educated, well-mannered, he professionally did everything he undertook. The developed and realized innate properties of the psyche, combined with hard work, modesty and high moral principles, allowed him to reach incredible heights in his business.
rose flower
Roza Rymbaeva was born in one of the inconspicuous auls in the Kazakh endless steppes. Her ascent to the pop Olympus seemed like a miracle, luck - unknown to anyone, young, and suddenly such a stunning success!
However, this is a misconception. She was born into a musical family where everyone sang. The name of the girl was given in honor of the Kazakh singer Rosa Baglanova. The singer herself recalls her mother's absolute ear for music, who sang well without any education.
Roza Rymbaeva chose musical education under the influence of her older brother, who played the button accordion and collected gramophone records. I remember the songs performed by Robertino Loretti, Galina Nenasheva. In a small village of twenty yards, there were two accordion players, one accordion player, guitarists, and everyone sang.
The atmosphere in which the future star grew, plus her natural talent, left no other choice - to sing on the big stage, which the future singer dreamed of.
Now I'm not singing - love sings
The camera lens recorded the historical moment when Taskyn was carefully looking at one of the contestants - an unknown girl from Semipalatinsk. The small, fragile member had a wondrous lyric soprano with a range of four octaves.
Perhaps even then Taskyn saw her future. As an experienced craftsman, he understood that such a nugget needed an appropriate cut. Following her victory in the competition, Rosa receives an unexpected invitation to come to Alma-Ata and become a soloist of the Gulder ensemble, which was directed by Taskyn.
In May, Roza Rymbaeva joined the Gulder collective, where she enthusiastically began to study professional wisdom from Taskyn. And four months later, two talented people realized that the feeling that arose as a professional relationship grew into love.
According to all Kazakh customs, a wedding was played, and then success came within the country and abroad. They joked that Rosa Rymbaeva got into the habit of winning the Grand Prix in all competitions where she participated.
The love that reigned in the relationship between Rosa and Taskin was transmitted through songs. Sensual, heartfelt, they reached the heart of every listener. The voice is just a means for conveying the feelings that the singer lives.
The happiness of the two was great. Taskyn took upon himself all the worries about the house, family, and everyday life. The wife's voice, her talent should serve people. No problems should bring disharmony into her state. According to the memoirs of Roza Rymbaeva, she did not even know how to pay the bills for the apartment, how to go to the store for groceries, had no idea how to arrange concerts and other organizational subtleties.
Rosa, seeing her husband's education, learned everything from him - both on stage and at home. Her taste and preferences were formed under the influence of her husband. Respect and admiration for him was natural, organically complementing their feelings. It was interesting for them to be together.
At the same time, the talent of Taskyn Okapov was revealed: thanks to him, the aspiring singer quickly entered the top three singers of the Soviet Union. And later, under his leadership, the star of the Arai group rose, which later became known as A-studio.
It seems that it was not by chance that after a long search, it was Rosa Rymbaeva who was chosen as the performer of the song "Love has come". And it's not just her voice. She was able to convey to millions of listeners the depth of living feelings thanks to her husband, his love.
In this love, all the natural talent of a woman was revealed, which this couple gave to people. Not feeling sorry for yourself and not looking for easy ways. Having received all possible awards and titles in a short time, they could rest on their laurels, reaping the fruits of past victories. But Taskin was not like that: "We must work out the trust that we received in advance." Not receiving material benefits was his goal, but serving the people. The highest pleasure for a developed person is receiving for the sake of bestowal.
The ensemble "Arai" was created from young talented musicians, in which Roza Rymbaeva became a soloist. Many rehearsals, concerts. Rosa tries her hand in other areas, acts in films, studies at the theater and art institute.
According to Kazakh custom, it's time to think about the heirs. Years go by, but creativity absorbs a young family without a trace. And only in the early 90s, the first-born was born, who allowed the singer to move away from active concert activities for a while and devote herself to motherhood.
The dashing 90s are not called that for nothing. Everything changed before our eyes. Seemed unbreakable ties were torn, creative collectives disintegrated. Kazakhstan did not escape this fate either. Taskyn was especially acutely worried about the disintegration of symphony orchestras, which had been created with such difficulty for more than one decade.
He experienced all the pain of the crisis of that time like a man inside himself, protecting his wife from unnecessary worries. I was looking for solutions to problems in order to realize my creative potential and talent as a wife, to support my family. His heart could not stand such intensity, and one morning he did not wake up.
As before, the two of us
And life went on in every sense - under her heart, Rosa Rymbaeva carried her second son, whose birth she was so waiting for. She had to cope with all the difficulties that hit her at once. Later, to the care of their sons, the care of Taskyn's two nieces, who remained orphans, and the registration of guardianship over them will be added.
Probably, the stars become just such - with an inner core, capable of withstanding any tests, withstand any blows of fate.
Four months after giving birth, Rosa Rymbaeva is already on stage again - giving a concert in memory of her husband. We must live, we must raise children, we must cope with the problems that the husband used to solve. And at the same time, comply with the principles laid down by Taskyn.
“Never be late. Nobody owes you anything. Remember, everyone has their own families, they must feed them”- these words of her husband Roza Rymbaev follow to this day. It was thanks to Taskin's lessons that she received a vaccination against star fever.
The People's Artist corresponds to this title, not allowing herself to rest even in the Rest House, - she gives concerts at any stage suitable for a performance, if suddenly people, having learned about the arrival of Rosa Rymbaeva, come to express their gratitude for her songs.
After all, she sees her purpose in bringing culture to people, enlightening them, developing taste. Does not recognize any phonograms - only a live voice accompanied by a symphony orchestra. No sky-high prices for tickets to her concert: "I sing for people, and it should be available to them."
Taskyn Okapov is invisibly behind her every choice. It was from him that Roza Rymbaeva learned everything. She took over what is called a culture that removes hostility to another, reveals the best human qualities, gives birth to love.
Today Roza Kuanyshevna still performs a lot, combining concerts with the work of a professor - teacher at the Kazakh Academy of Arts named after T. Zhurgenov. Millions of people admire her talent. Sons and nieces grew up, received an excellent education. In Moscow, on the Square of Stars, there is also her name. Life goes on…
System analysis
The relationship between Taskyn Okapov and Rosa Rymbaeva fell out of the usual family format. Beautiful, romantic and unusual. Where has it been seen that a man shoulders all the worries that have been considered feminine since ancient times, and the wife made a career?
The traditional form of marriage is a thing of the past. A woman can no longer be content with the role of a housewife. Its increased volume of the psyche requires more implementation in society. In addition, a woman outgrew a relationship when she was subordinate to a man, had no desires of her own.
A new type of relationship is emerging when he and she become one, when you understand the other in the same way as yourself. When there is no jealousy, resentment, betrayal, quarrels. One soul for two, when each takes care of the development and satisfaction of the needs of the other, as of himself.
Love of Taskin and Roza is a model of a family from the future, the first swallow. She showed how in such a union the most daring ideas can be realized, how the talents of each are revealed, how they grow spiritually together.
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