All women su … Cheating wife or cuckold cry
Igor felt deeply deceived, offended, reviled, trampled, mixed with dirt. And he wanted to do the same to her. How? Burn her car? Trap her near the house and express everything that he thinks about her?
Everything in the apartment seemed to have died out. Half-empty bottles of beer, vodka and cigarette butts were mixed on the table. He suffered. Alina reminded him absolutely everything in this apartment, which they furnished together. He recalled with pain and bitterness her sonorous laughter, and a salty tear reluctantly rolled down to his chin. “A man shouldn't cry,” somewhere flashed in his subconscious, but Igor knew that no one could see him here, and he could give vent to his feelings.
Everything was mixed in his head: days, dates, events. What's the date today? What day of the week? These questions seemed mediocre to him. In my heart it was as if everything had died, after leaving, after the betrayal of his wife. "A whore," he kept spinning in his head, "scum." Over the bottle, he more than once thought out a plan for revenge, going over the heap of events of the last days.
It happened suddenly, as soon as he loosened his grip. He never gave her the opportunity to go to clubs alone or even to her friends' birthdays (they are all whores too, Igor knew). The phone was carefully checked, contact, soap, personal folders. He knew all her passwords, every little detail: even the time and place of her manicure, beautician, gym sessions. All this was carefully monitored and rechecked. If someone was thinking about how to find out that his wife is a whore, he could conduct a master class, so total was the control of all contacts of his wife.
Once she already tried to leave him, but at the cost of incredible efforts he managed to return Alina. She was an attractive girl, and Igor was now certainly sure that these whores should be kept in tight-knit gloves - otherwise, a little something, and will give dyoru. He would not have allowed a second hint of his wife's betrayal. But still, it happened, and now he does not stop thinking how to take revenge on his wife for treason.
“I never beat her even once, but I should have,” thought Igor, with regret and rage, recalling their life together. "A woman should know her place," he repeated to himself over and over again, clutching a pack of cigarettes in his hands, so that they have already turned into a mess of tobacco and paper. - She also specially wore such short skirts to work. I know, I know, I threw them all out, but she still took with her and changed."
Igor felt deeply deceived, offended, reviled, trampled, mixed with dirt. And he wanted to do the same to her. How? Burn her car? Trap her near the house and express everything that he thinks about her?
After his wife's betrayal, he sent her a dozen messages with this text. He was overwhelmed with indignation, a feeling of some kind of inner heaviness. All the foul language in the world would not be enough to describe her vile betrayal. "Cheating wife. Cheating wife. CHANGE OF WIFE, - pounding in Igor's temples. - Corrupt prostitute, flattered by his car. I suppose I brought him here too, fucked him right on this bed."
Igor felt that something was wrong. He was absent for a week - he went to his grandmother's funeral in the village, called her every hour, and several times she did not answer the phone. Then she answered and said that she was in the shower. It was at this moment, Igor was sure, and THAT was happening. They were here on this bed. He could not, did not want to represent Alina with another man, but obsessive thoughts did not leave his head.
He had to pull out the confession of his wife's infidelity for a long time. Alina did not want to confess to anything, and he even had to threaten her with his fist a couple of times. He knew for sure that something had happened, could not but have happened.
Igor even read that according to Sharia law, betrayal of his wife was punishable by death. “Very correct,” he thought angrily, imagining the most atrocious tortures that he would happily carry out on Alina. And female circumcision was generally invented by very smart men. He satisfied her regularly. He knew that she could not help but love their sex life. Look - others are cheating, and he constantly pointed this out to Alina, and he is faithful, he never looked at another skirt!
To prevent his wife's betrayal, he specifically told her the stories of his friends: some of them were even regulars of prostitutes, and in general they believed that a man could be cheated on, but not a woman. He himself agreed with this point of view and more than once talked about this to Alina: if a man periodically walks "to the left", but this is just sex for one night, this is not treason, but if he got himself a mistress and regularly sleeps with her, - then yes, this is treason. Sex with another man, whatever he may be, in any case is a betrayal of his wife. His friends agreed with him on this, and he knew it was right and fair.
On the one hand, Igor wanted to take revenge on her, but on the other, to return her, and both of these thoughts haunted him. Either he imagined the cold corpse of Alina and her new lover, then he imagined her on her knees in front of him, then how she would kiss his feet, begging for forgiveness. He will scoff at her, she will still regret that she did so. In his dreams, he went further: he imagined how she would be left alone, pregnant, disgraced. As the whole city will say: "Alina is a whore" … Yes, he would put some effort into this.
Igor looked at his watch. After his wife's betrayal, he did it out of habit, because he knew what time her work ends. He watched her there more than once, but she refused to talk to him in private. Several times he called her a whore with the whole team and was pleased with this: "Let everyone find out what she really is."
It was already eight o'clock, and Igor began to pull on his pants. I had to go for vodka, and at the same time walk past her gym. He imagined how he would spit in her face and push her into a dirty, black puddle that remained after the rain.
Cheating wife: debriefing
Why does our hero react so sharply to betrayal? Why does he want to avenge his wife's betrayal, why can't he forget her? Why did he torment her with pathological jealousy, why does he want to return? How to identify men who will never forgive their wife's cheating, and how to recognize women who are prone to cheating?
Yuri Burlan's system-vector psychology answers these and many other questions, reveals the real reasons for Alina's departure and the current situation.
In the context of treason, it is most acutely perceived by a person with an anal vector, which is Igor.
As is obvious from the text, Igor had a grudge against women even before he met Alina. An unsuccessful experience of a previous relationship (possibly, again, a betrayal of the wife) or some events related to the mother - we do not know for sure, and it doesn't matter. Igor projects his accumulated resentment on women in general and on new relationships and becomes a real domestic tyrant who is unconditionally convinced of the venality, commercialism and debauchery of the entire female race on planet Earth.
Moreover, an anal man always thinks in terms of “clean” and “dirty”: a “clean” woman for him is the one who is innocent, the “dirty” woman is the one who had sexual intercourse before marriage, she is also a prostitute. The whole essence of the anal person is turned into the past. In his thinking, the world is always degrading, and what was before is always better. Therefore, such men always strive to find out about the past partners of their woman, but in no case should you talk about them even at gunpoint.
Cheating on his wife is a filth that affects him too. After all, this is his woman, his house, and she made treason there, and, therefore, defamed, polluted. Men offended by women will be pathologically jealous in order to "prevent" this situation. They have a heightened sense of justice, but this is the justice that divides everything equally: as I do, so should be done to me, and if this is not so, then it is wrong, unjust and should be punished by a righteous court. If he was treated unfairly, it means that it is necessary to take revenge so that the offender experiences the same pain as he himself.
By their nature, they are monogamous and expect the same from their partners: I am not cheating, so they should not cheat on me. This is a rule, a law, a dogma, an inviolable commandment of relationships, so cheating on a wife for an anal man is not just a betrayal and a knife in the back, it is the end of the world!
An anal person becomes sexually attached to a partner, the novelty factor is always stressful for him, so it is difficult for such a man to leave his woman, it is difficult to forget her. And a situation arises that he cannot switch to another woman either, and he himself suffers from the inability to return and forget his first woman.
A deep understanding of yourself and your partner, as well as the keys to a happy family life without cheating on your wife, with the knowledge of how to prevent and prevent the occurrence of such situations in the future, is what you will get by mastering the knowledge of Systemic Vector Psychology. And even if the worst thing in your life has already happened, it's never too late to start all over again.
