Feminine guy: man of the future
A feminine guy in the modern world has every chance of becoming successful and happy. For this you do not need, as some recommend, to accept yourself with all the shortcomings. You need to understand your nature. There are no flaws - there are talents that are not used for their intended purpose …
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Everyone adapts as best they can. Especially if the world around you seems hostile. If a guy is feminine, he faces many dangers - real and caused by fears. Fear of the dark, for example, is the least evil possible.
In a big city, there is a lot of motley audience, it is easier to get lost, and people are more tolerant of the peculiarities of others. This gives the skin-visual guy the opportunity to hide from fears by dressing up in women's clothing. Or to attract attention, bringing your image to the point of absurdity, as did Kirill Tereshin, for example. In a big city, no one will be surprised and the question of how to become a feminine guy - such an image is in demand in advertising, in the modeling business.
It is more difficult if the guy lives in a small town where a slightly brighter shirt is guaranteed to provide gay fame and can lead to violence.
How to become a brutal feminine guy
Anticipating questions like “I have a feminine guy, how to turn him into a macho” or “I'm a feminine guy, how to become brutal,” I will answer right away - nothing. Also, no operations will turn a guy into a girl - the form will be new, but the essence is the same, and there will be no satisfaction from life. And there is no need to make such sacrifices. If you understand your own nature, realize your desires and properties, there can be no obstacles to realizing yourself in society.
Surely you have come across numerous tips to go to the gym, do combat sports and the like. If you exercise without fanaticism, going to the gym has not hurt anyone yet. Guys with a visual vector appreciate the beauty of the body, and girls also like athletic guys. But breaking your nature with martial arts, you cannot find happiness. A feminine guy seems feminine because his nature is the opposite of violence. It was created for love in the highest sense.
The most important thing is to change the inner state. In the perception of their own kind, people are not far from the animal world - we perceive each other by smell. Unconsciously, of course. And not by body odor, but by pheromones. We only see what smells. The stronger the smell, the more attention. And fear has the strongest smell. The smell of the victim cannot be hidden by any external attributes. The problem is not that the guy is feminine, the problem is in internal throwing due to a lack of self-understanding. It is worth getting rid of fear, and a feminine guy will turn into a handsome man spoiled by the attention of girls. The training "System-vector psychology" by Yuri Burlan makes it easy to solve this problem.
Not only moms make sons gay
It is imperative to touch on why feminine guys become gay. Where do such desires come from and what contributes to this.
It is generally accepted that a boy raised by his mother grows up feminine, infantile and he has a straight path to become gay. It's a delusion. If we talk about a skin-visual child, he is much more likely to become gay if a dad with an anal vector takes an active part in education, wanting to raise a "real man." A feminine guy will definitely not become a "man", but psychosexual development from improper pressure on his properties can be suspended - he will not be able to become a demanded member of society.
How will it look like? He could have grown into a star (like Justin Bieber, for example), but a hysterical and fearful creature has grown. Quite naturally, not having a sense of security and safety, the guy starts looking for someone who will protect. It could be a friend, classmate. By analogy with the skin-visual girl, he develops an emotional connection - strong feelings for the one who protects him. And with girls - it does not add up. After all, such a guy, even in theory, is not able to realize the fantasy of all boys in our mentality - to save a girl from bullies.
The more the boy is pushed to "masculine" activities, the more he feels feminine, out of place. The boy sees his opposite of masculinity. Mom, other relatives, and school teachers can try to make a hero out of a crybaby. Everyone who, not having knowledge of system-vector psychology, is not able to see the differences in the properties of the psyche.
What if a guy is like a girl
It turns out that it is contraindicated to make a brutal man out of a feminine guy. Such guys feel best in the company of girls. There they also see their opposite, but in relation to girls. In the society of girls, the skin-visual boy is a real man. This is the best way to develop gallantry in him, to teach the rules of etiquette.
Dance school, theater studio, children's ensemble. There his sensuality will find its application, and fears will arise less - after all, the properties of the visual vector will be realized. And they will develop until the end of puberty. And don't think that every feminine guy is gay if he dances. There is hip-hop and other popular trends among young people - there will be something to amaze friends and girls.
Reading classical literature is also vital for a boy with a visual vector. It is better to start from an early age with fairy tales, where the heroes can be compassionate and no one eats anyone. This is an important point: scary tales reinforce fears even more. But empathy - on the contrary, serves to develop sensuality, relieve fears. It's also a great development for imaginative visual intelligence. Girls like feminine guys who are capable of showing tender feelings.
If childhood is already over, reading classic works of literature will still serve as a good prevention of emotional breakdowns. Don't be ashamed to cry. This is just the case when tears will cleanse the soul and … remove fears. The influence of art and classical literature on the state of the visual vector is examined in detail at the training by Yuri Burlan "System-vector psychology".
Not gay or trans - the man of the future
A feminine guy in the modern world has every chance of becoming successful and happy. For this you do not need, as some recommend, to accept yourself with all the shortcomings. You need to understand your nature. There are no flaws - there are talents that are not used for their intended purpose. Therefore, the surrounding reality seems hostile.
While skin-visual guys en masse do not reach special heights, but it's a matter of time. The culture created and maintained by skin-visual women throughout the development of mankind is exhausting itself. She can no longer contain the general hostility. It's time for the skin-visual guys. They will be able to bring humanity to a new level of relations -
- if those on whom the upbringing of the younger generation depends, learn to see the potential for development in every child;
- if, instead of proving their right to be different, to become gay or tranny, feminine guys channel their sensuality to support those who need compassion and help.
And you can take part in the creation of this future with the help of the knowledge of the training "System-vector psychology" by Yuri Burlan. And for starters - you just stop being afraid of life and will never be a victim of bullying. This is a side effect.
