Leave me alone! or Why am I annoyed by emotions?
If you yourself are a lover of silence, then the violent manifestation of emotions, frequent holidays and feasts make you want to hide away and be alone. It all seems like an empty and stupid pastime. It seems to you that emotions are annoying, but it is not at all about them …
“Why are you shouting? What is a fountain of emotions from scratch? What is the point in such a degree of feelings? " It seems to you that emotions are annoying, but it is not at all about them. With the help of "System-Vector Psychology" we will reveal the secret of what really irritates you, and we will figure out how to make your stay among people comfortable.
Two worlds - sound and sight
If you yourself are a lover of silence, then the violent manifestation of emotions, frequent holidays and feasts make you want to hide away and be alone. It all seems like an empty and stupid pastime. And if you yourself feel bad and nothing pleases, then you get tired of communication and people in general. The more difficult your own condition, the more hateful people around you seem.
This is how the owner of a sound vector feels among people with a visual vector. The soundman is an introvert. Its natural task is to comprehend, think. For this he needs to concentrate his thought. This is best done in silence and solitude. That is why these conditions are so desirable for him.
People with a visual vector, on the contrary, are bright extroverts, with a wide range of emotional states, sociable and open. Often they are noisy, talkative, enthusiastic and, in the understanding of the sound engineer, annoying.
The world outside is a reflection of the world inside
The owner of the sound vector can be in very different states. It depends on this how much other people's emotions will irritate him. For example, if he is depressed due to unfulfilled sound desires (a sense of the meaninglessness of life), he will be irritated precisely by joyful emotions, the very state of the holiday. "My soul hurts unbearably, but here you enjoy life …"
In more balanced states, for example, when the sound engineer has an intellectual job in which he realizes his potential, the irritation is less intense.
Of course, any sound engineer, even the most developed and realized one, cannot endure the noise for a long time (and a holiday, vivid visual emotions are always very loud for him). After all, the noise hits the sensitive ears of the sound engineer physically and does not allow concentrating mentally.
Under the influence of external circumstances, the sound engineer himself sways emotionally (especially if there is also a visual vector in his vector set). He feels how constant fun, laughter knocks down his concentration, interferes with thinking and work.
Moreover, those around him constantly pull, distract him, do not allow him to concentrate on himself. After a series of holidays, it is very difficult to concentrate thought. This requires a tremendous effort. And when the sound vector is not realized for a long time, that is, the sound engineer does not work with his head for a long time, then sound shortages arise, which lead to the feeling that life has no meaning and all these festivities, even more so. There is a dislike not only for emotions, but also for people in general.
The degree of extroversion of the owner of the sound vector also matters, that is, how much he has developed the ability to focus on other people, the desire to share their feelings. Someone else's emotions force you to extrovert, and the sound engineer may not want this. This can be a significant burden for him. In this case, he will quickly get tired in the company of cheerful visual people and strive for solitude.
What to do?
So, it seems to us that we are annoyed by emotions. But in reality we feel bad:
- because the noise
- because they don't allow you to concentrate.
And emotions have nothing to do with it. Moreover, bright emotions of joy and happiness are attractive to any person in a normal state. They are not irritating. It's all about our inner state and misunderstanding of our real needs.
In order not to overload and irritate "these stupid spectators", it is important for the sound engineer to maintain a balance of extraversion and introversion. Too long immersion in oneself also at some point leads to bad states in the sound vector.
Prolonged loneliness makes us reach out to people. But stormy visual communication also needs to be dosed depending on your ability to extrovert, so as not to bring the matter to hatred of people.
You can learn to understand yourself and your states, know how to create the most comfortable conditions without the risk of plunging into depression, at the training of Yuri Burlan "System-vector psychology". As a result of a new understanding of oneself and people, depression and hatred of people go away - and they stop irritating other people's emotions. The state in the sound vector improves, the degree of realization improves - and excessive sensitivity to sounds disappears, which means that emotions cease to irritate as sounds, as noise.
Moreover, when a sound engineer acquires a persistent skill of recognizing what forces (desires) live by himself and other people, he generally ceases to get tired of them. And he no longer has a need to recuperate alone.
When you acquire knowledge of the psychic, your world changes.
You can learn more about the inner universe of a person and get your results already at the free online training by Yuri Burlan.
