How to stop worrying and worrying about anything
What if anxiety and constant experiences follow you at every step? Where does excessive anxiety for your child come from? What if the slightest reason makes you nervous, instills fear for the health and fate of the child, for his development, his future?
Anxiety and constant anxiety are the constant companions of my life. The beloved man is late at the meeting? Imagination immediately slips terrible pictures of his betrayal. At work, the boss looked askance in my direction - apparently, he was thinking that it was time to remove me from my post. And the anxiety about a child simply crosses all boundaries: in the ten minutes for which he is late from school, I manage to call a dozen hospitals and a couple of police stations. How to stop worrying and constantly worrying about trifles?
From fly to elephant - how to stop worrying about the owner of a rich imagination
Not all of us have any trifling reason capable of causing such a storm of emotions. System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan explains that the most sensitive and emotional by nature are the owners of the visual vector.
The basic emotion in such people is the fear of death. With proper development in childhood and adequate implementation in adulthood, visual people learn to bring their emotions out through empathy and compassion for others. It is they who are actively involved in helping those who need it most - children, old people, seriously ill, disabled people. In this case, anxiety arises not about oneself, but about another person, about his conditions and problems.
But this is not always the case. Due to childhood psychotraumas or lack of the necessary social realization, the owner of the visual vector can remain in fear for many years. Then all his incredible amplitude of emotions turns into anxiety and fear for any reason, he begins to get nervous over trifles.
Even as an adult, such a person may be afraid to sleep without light, to go to an unfamiliar place alone, to meet people. Numerous fears (getting hit by a car, contracting a terrible disease, etc.) can develop into serious phobias and even turn into panic attacks.
To stop constantly worrying and worrying, the owners of the visual vector need:
- To thoroughly understand the structure of your psyche in order to know exactly and actively apply your innate properties and talents for the good of society.
- Get rid of all mental trauma and "anchors" that interfere with active implementation.
This can be done at the training on system-vector psychology by Yuri Burlan. Here's what those people say about the effectiveness of this scientific method, who managed to get rid of anxiety and panic attacks forever, stop feeling anxiety about every insignificant matter and start living calmly and happily:
How to stop worrying about your loved one
But what about when anxiety arises not about yourself, but about another person? Is it natural to be anxious and anxious, for example, over a beloved man? It turns out that if I worry not about myself, but about something else, then I adequately realize my visual vector?
This is not entirely true. If a woman experiences constant fear that something will happen to her partner, fears his departure or betrayal, arranges endless tantrums, these states cannot be called healthy and adequate. Although it seems that the anxiety arose because of the beloved man or woman, in reality we are simply afraid of losing something that is very significant to ourselves. What is this?
A visual person comprehends his life in love and building emotional connections. When the visual vector is sufficiently realized, its bearer possesses real fearlessness. When a person is overwhelmed with love, there is no room for fear in him. He generously gives his feelings and compassion without demanding anything in return.
However, when the properties of a vector are lacking in implementation, the viewer does not give, but on the contrary, endlessly demands attention, sympathy and love. Feels constant anxiety and fear of losing the source that gives him positive emotions.
Such a scheme does not help to build healthy relationships in a couple, but quite the opposite. Instead of a deep emotional connection, there is a real emotional dependence that does not create, but destroys relationships. How to stop being nervous and ruining the relationships that are so dear to you?
At the training on system-vector psychology by Yuri Burlan, you will be able to thoroughly understand what is happening in your soul and in the soul of your partner. A lot of people left feedback on how they managed to heal and breathe new life into relationships that already seemed hopeless:
How to stop being nervous about your baby
And where does excessive anxiety for your child come from? What if the slightest reason makes you nervous, instills fear for the health and fate of the child, for his development, his future?
System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan explains that the owners of the anal vector comprehend their life in the family and children, for them these are the dominant values. Caring for and worrying about your child is not uncommon for such a person.
However, sometimes the situation goes beyond reason. This is most pronounced among the owners of the anal-visual ligament of vectors, when the properties of the visual vector are not realized and the person is in constant fears. In such a situation, he begins to get nervous and worried about the child over sheer trifles.
As soon as a child sneezes, this is perceived as a harbinger of a serious illness. A five-minute late from school plunges the parent into a panic. The care and guardianship inherent in the owners of the anal vector turn into overprotection and constant control over the child's life. It is clear that this does not contribute to the normal development of the child himself, or the establishment of good, trusting relations between children and their parents.
How to stop being afraid, start living in peace on your own and save the child from his endless worries?
Yuri Burlan's training in system-vector psychology has already helped a huge number of people to establish relationships with their children. You will be able to realize and completely get rid of all the reasons that prevent you from enjoying the joy of motherhood or fatherhood, including stopping constantly worrying about your child:
Regardless of what kind of reason makes you constantly nervous and anxious, you can start living a more conscious and joyful life already at the free online lectures on systemic vector psychology by Yuri Burlan. Register here.
