How to find your love if I am uncommunicative? Am I doomed to be alone?
Most often, a person with a sound vector feels lonely and detached from other people. The soundman can be bored with other people, he does not find common topics for conversation with them. The sound engineer desires are aimed at clarifying the essence of life, its meaning …
It is difficult for me to communicate with other people, start a conversation, get acquainted. I constantly feel awkward, I don't know what to talk about with a person, how to become an interesting conversationalist.
It's easier for me to be alone, but I'm tired of being alone. Sometimes it seems to me that I myself push people away, I get tired of them. In fact, nobody is interesting to me. It is difficult for me to let someone into my inner world, and it is not clear what to do with it. Who will tolerate a person next to him who prefers loneliness?
What is happening to me? How to sincerely feel interest in other people, become more sociable and, in the end, get to know a girl? The training "System-vector psychology" by Yuri Burlan will help to answer these questions.
Loneliness: why am I running from people?
You have noticed how different you are from other people. Others enjoy noisy fun, communicate with each other easily, and enjoy it, while you prefer being alone. People are really different. The training "System-vector psychology" shows our differences in inborn desires and properties of the psyche - in vectors. Eight vectors in various combinations give a huge variety of manifestations that make up the individuality of each person. And the craving for solitude is also determined by the innate properties of our psyche.
Most often, a person with a sound vector feels lonely and divorced from other people. The soundman can be bored with other people, he does not find common topics for conversation with them. The sound engineer wants to clarify the essence of life, its meaning; he is not interested in discussing the weather or food prices. Tired of empty talk, excessive emotions of other people, fuss and loud noises, the sound engineer has an urgent need for privacy. So he is restored, ponders his thoughts, ponders about the eternal.
The sound engineer does not care about material life, and therefore most people with their daily affairs are not interested in him. He has an abstract intellect capable of solving complex problems. This often gives the sound engineer a sense of his own superiority. He understands how different from others, and thinks that he was born for something more, is able to achieve more than other people with their "minor worries" and needs. And these thoughts about their own exclusivity further alienate the sound engineer from other people and become a barrier on the way to free communication.
On the other hand, setting himself some global tasks and not understanding how to solve them, the sound engineer suffers from this, experiences his own inadequacy hard, and this makes him think, “I am exceptional!” - go to the opposite: "I am a nonentity!". This is the suffering of sound egocentrism, when a person is focused only on himself.
On the one hand, the sound engineer is not interested in other people, he is interested in himself with his thoughts, projects, ideas, and he will prefer loneliness to meaningless communication with others. On the other hand, not finding an equal interlocutor, such people suffer from inner loneliness - from the fact that they have no one to share their thoughts with.
Overcome loneliness and feel part of the whole
Sound specialists are interested in the issues of cognition of the world and the human soul, they are fond of psychology and try various techniques for expanding consciousness, meditation and so on. This is their unconscious inner request to know themselves, the structure of the psyche, the secrets of the unconscious. But quite often, in this desire, they go deep into theory and do not understand how to apply their knowledge in practice, and remain divorced from other people.
The training "System-vector psychology" helps the sound engineer to find his own answers to all his questions in a practical way, in his everyday life. And these answers help to find … other people.
Surely there have been such conversations in your life when you were so interested with the interlocutor that you forgot about yourself and your problems? This happened involuntarily. Likewise, you can learn to focus on other people of your own accord.
The training "System-vector psychology" allows you to recognize the psyche of another person - what he is, how his thoughts and feelings are formed, how he lives, in what states he is. Systemic thinking, which each person receives during the training, allows you to recognize another person, and on the difference from him you begin to deeply understand yourself. This is the only way it works, not the other way around.
When you begin to understand the psyche of another person, you naturally begin to communicate with him, based on his internal properties, and this gives rise to mutual sympathy. By focusing on other people when communicating, you will stop getting tired of them - on the contrary, such communication will give you a burst of energy.
The training "System-vector psychology" helps the sound engineer to realize his desire to know himself and the psyche of other people. Along with this, sound voids disappear from him - latent depression and apathy disappear, the sound engineer begins to see the meaning in everything that happens, and this awakens in him a great interest in life in all its manifestations.
Having filled the desires of the dominant sound vector, he finally feels desires in other vectors and ceases to feel cut off from other people. The sound engineer, who understands other people and who is no longer baffled by philosophical questions, begins to be more effective at work, his social connections are established and his circle of contacts expands. This means that the chance to meet the one that you want to be with all your life increases.
Find the only one forever
And now, when you are in good condition, you understand the other in the same way as yourself - and this is not difficult! - you will be able to not only approach the person you like, talk to him, live or via the Internet, but also understand that it is with him that you want to share your life. You will understand from the first phrases what kind of person he is, what his aspirations, values and preferences are. This will help you find the right words, have a sincere, genuine interest in the other person, and forget about the feeling of awkwardness that paralyzes when thoughts are focused exclusively on yourself.
Many after the training received the desired results in relationships:
At the training "System-vector psychology" by Yuri Burlan, everyone gets their own result. The first understanding of oneself and others occurs already at a free online training. Do not miss!
