There should be a good person - how much, or Why am I not losing weight
Why we seize our bad mood, science knows. The stomach contains a huge number of nerve receptors that provide the longest pleasure from eating. I am in a bad mood. But I ate - I am full and satisfied for several hours. What to do about it? Nutritionists say don't eat.
And we ask ourselves a question - why a bad mood?
Those who are wondering about excess weight often enter an unstable path of experiments with their bodies. Most often it looks like this: the daily menu of the goat Marusya and yours are almost identical, you notice the bells of an approaching gastritis and you cannot hide an envious glance towards the passing teenager with a hamburger. You are dying in the hated gym, and the scales for the second week with a malicious smile show you only minus three kilos.
You figure that for the right weight you will need to become five times more unhappy, and then the instinct of self-preservation turns on. “What am I living for, after all? Isn't it in order to be happy? " The body in response with all its fibers shouts to you "Yes!" Having received internal permission, you go to the store and come off for all the suffering you have lived.
And on a full stomach, you come to one thought - the world is unfair. Take at least your girlfriend. It feels like a black hole is built into a person - she can eat a whole cake in one sitting and she won't get anything for it! Her stable 50 kg has been with her for more than a dozen years. And one more nice nuance - when she is under stress, a piece does not go down her throat. And you, out of stress, commit a raider seizure of a neighboring cooking or pastry shop. And there's nothing you can do about it.
From the outside, this topic may seem easy and even funny. But those who have gone through this know that the question is extremely serious and painful. When excess weight interferes with living and being happy - this is not a joke, this is a broken life.
We are not going to talk about diet and medicine. We will go deeper - into the very roots of the problem. Consider the psychological aspects of excess weight using the system-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan.
The notorious metabolism
The slenderness of the figure does not always depend on the amount eaten. Often - on the metabolic rate of a person. For one, food is assimilated quickly, for another - slowly. What does it depend on? System-vector psychology explains that the properties of the body, like the properties of the psyche, are laid in a person from birth and develop until puberty.
"Eats and does not get fat" - they say with envy about the girl, relying on the skin vector. Fast, flexible, fit, she is able to perform multiple tasks at the same time, quickly switch and adapt. Her body matches her psyche - she has a fast metabolism.
A girl based on the anal vector differs from her exactly the opposite. She has a naturally slow metabolism, she is thorough and consistent. And nature has its own good reasons for this. If it were not for the carriers of the anal vector, there would be no one to do the job accurately, professionally, scrupulously. The anal vector helps people become teachers, doctors, jack of all trades, and just wonderful parents, wives and husbands.
From birth we are destined to have more modest or more appetizing forms. And this is not a problem, unless, of course, glossy magazines have penetrated into your perception of the world and confused you. The problem begins when a slow metabolism becomes too slow, when rounded shapes no longer add attractiveness, but health and mood problems.
What are the reasons for such situations?
Eat a chocolate bar, get endorphins
Why we seize our bad mood, science knows. The stomach contains a huge number of nerve receptors that provide the longest pleasure from eating. I am in a bad mood. But I ate - I am full and satisfied for several hours. What to do about it? Nutritionists say don't eat.
And we ask ourselves a question - why a bad mood? Vector systems psychology is responsible because of frustrations. Frustrations appear when a person wants something for a long time and does not receive it.
Social frustration is when a person's innate properties are not used for their intended purpose among other people. For example, if a person with an anal vector chooses a job that is more suitable for a nimble owner of the skin vector, he does not realize himself in the right direction, does not get pleasure and accumulates tension.
“I hate these sales, this running around all day. Three ringing phones and five clients at the same time - and everyone wants something from me! By the middle of the day I am no longer on my feet, I want to kill everyone. If I do not eat well at lunchtime, I generally cannot continue to work."
It's the same with sexual frustration - I want it and I don't get it. We will talk about this below. In the meantime, let's look at what else can cause excess weight. Very often, another, deeper reason is a burden on our body.
Resentment is an overweight emotion in lovers of the past
Do you often look back? If you have an anal vector, then the past gives you a sense of pleasant romance: the streets of childhood, a film camera, history books, retro style and nostalgia. Do you know why? An aspiration to the past and a wonderful memory are unique abilities in the anal vector. They are given to fulfill a very important role - to accumulate and pass on experience to future generations. Indeed, in terms of experience, we are born with blank slates. Without people with an anal vector - teachers, professors, authors of books, mentors - we would reinvent the wheel in each new generation anew and never develop.
Why is this described in such detail? To show clearly - we strive to look back for the accumulation of experience and information to pass on to others. This is our role in the life of the human species. And if we fulfill it, we are happy.
What if we use memory to remember our bad experiences?
"Painfully! - says the unconscious. "Be careful from now on." And excellent memory captures painful events in every detail.
Over the years, a person becomes more and more distrustful, generalizations reach the level of "all people are the same." The memory already stores in itself a lot of cases that are scrolled in the head over and over again, forcing a person to look back more and more often. But not in history, books and archives, but in his own life.
Another feature of the owners of the anal vector is the desire for balance in the sensation "equally". Psychological comfort for them is when they are divided equally. I give, and in return they should give me the same amount (respect, feelings - whatever). If they did me badly, I also have to return it to them - to take revenge. Restore balance. And if you fail? Then a feeling of resentment arises as a feeling of psychological discomfort.
Usually, the first experience of resentment in a person with an anal vector is formed in childhood and continues to accumulate throughout life. This focuses his thoughts on the long gone. The person is, as it were, slowed down by the insult inflicted in the past. In his experiences, he is in the past, absent in the present and completely closed to the future.
How does his body react to this? In the most direct way. It cannot turn back, it slows down more and more. Slow metabolism leads to the fact that a person begins to gain weight. Considering that we tend to seize our resentment (frustration), the process is doubly accelerated.
In order to get rid of resentment and the tendency to be offended, you need to understand in detail the reasons for this feeling, to understand the motives of the actions of the people who offend you, to feel what a serious obstacle the resentment is in front of a person's happiness.
A huge number of people have already been able to do this and get rid of the burden of resentment. Here's what they say:
Love means losing weight
When butterflies fly in the belly, there is no place for cakes. Everyone knows this principle, but not everyone manages to meet their soul mate and transform before our eyes.
The issue of sexual realization is as important for a woman with an anal vector as for no other. The anal vector has a powerful libido, its sexuality requires more realization. Not receiving sexual satisfaction, a woman with an anal vector begins to accumulate, often without realizing it herself, frustration, which is expressed by the well-known thought to all gluttons: "I really want something tasty!"
And it can be difficult to trust a man, to open up to him. We wrote about offenses above. Add to this a tendency to generalize negative experiences: “Has one betrayed my trust? Everything, the rest should not be trusted, they are the same. The harder it is to open up and trust a man.
A woman with an anal vector is thorough, faithful, must get used to her partner, understand that he can be trusted. Quickly jumping into each other's bed will only squeeze and confuse it. And the imposed attitudes can block the path to the realization and realization of their sexual desires.
But realization in love and trust, inner harmony are invariably visible in the mirror. You can find happy stories about women who found their love and also built themselves in the appendage. And this is correct and natural - to lose weight, get prettier and younger can and should be done not only from diets and sports, but also from acquired happiness. Then it will be a natural, sustainable result.
There are already a lot of such results in system-vector psychology:
From happiness to harmony
Of course, we suffer and seize not only in the case of non-realization in the anal vector. All vectors in a person are interconnected and affect each other.
In other words, if a person feels bad, then he feels bad entirely. The tension in the visual or sound vectors may well give a load to the anal one. A person will seize and gain weight, even if his problem is not found the meaning of life or love. And here it is important to differentiate your desires, find an application for all your properties, understand yourself.
Thus, the path to your own slim body becomes the road to yourself. Having gone through the thorns of their own fears, having met with their grievances and traumas, defeating false attitudes and answering the most cherished questions, a person changes dramatically. By shedding the psychological burden from his shoulders, he becomes able to enjoy life.
And the fact that after harmonization in the soul comes harmony in the body is a natural and pleasant bonus to happiness.
If you want to learn more about how to do this, start with Yuri Burlan's free online lectures on systemic vector psychology. Register using the link.
