How to celebrate the New Year? Five components of a successful holiday
The process of choosing gifts is a great opportunity to think about another person, to try to feel his desires, values, interests in order to … get to the point.
Such a hit is possible when you have actual psychological knowledge and understand a person - you just observe him from the inside. Then you know for sure what he loves, what he wants, what he will be glad or even surprised at.
The main secret is that the holiday in which we experienced the most pleasant feelings is remembered, and not the one where there was the most entertainment. And what can give us the brightest emotions?
Company
"If there are no guests in the house, the holiday does not come to visit …"
The greatest pleasure, as well as the most intense suffering, we get from other people.
Wherever a holiday takes place - in a restaurant, in a resort or in an apartment - it is the invitation of guests, the presence of loved ones, friends, relatives and colleagues that creates the feeling of a holiday, a major event, gives meaning and inspiration to what is happening.
Gathering together, we feel our unity with each other, we feel ourselves more than a separate I, we return to ourselves, at least for a while, the lost feeling - We.
When choosing a company, it is worth considering the interests of all invitees. Outgoing people with a visual vector feel great in the company of open and emotional extroverts like themselves. For silent sound people, it is important to have like-minded people with whom you can talk about general topics and not risk being misunderstood. For people with an anal vector, it is important to meet old friends with whom you can remember the past. Skin vector owners will be happy to meet new people, especially if they promise to be useful connections for them.
Treat
Sharing food has much deeper roots than meets the eye. For many millennia, people have celebrated any important event at a common table - from a successful hunt to a wedding or coronation.
A common table is not only about satisfying hunger. A common table is also a stress relief, because a well-fed person is happy with life. A common table has always brought people together, strengthened relationships. When we enjoy food together, we become even closer.
In modern conditions of the absence of hunger, it is more and more difficult for us to grasp the psychological basis of the common table. Although our grandparents felt this importance very well, as they retained the memory of the times of famine, of how hard it was to get food.
Today, for the most part, proper nutrition, small portions or a buffet version in general - rare dishes and exquisite decoration are in fashion. Whatever the scale of the celebration or the level of culinary creations, the main thing in this is the opportunity to share the joy of enjoying food with other people.
Conversation
Communication makes it possible to get to know people better, find “soul mates”, create an emotional connection, enjoy dialogue, learn new things, establish the necessary contacts, discuss successful fishing or share experiences.
The positive or negative feelings of communicating with others are related to how much we understand other people. Clash of interests without awareness of the subconscious reasons for what is happening often leads to conflicts. And the interaction of two, who have even polar points of view, but possess the basics of psychological knowledge, gives rise to mutual understanding and a complete absence of hostility from any side.
We all need each other. Even the most hardened introverts, at heart, strive for communication. It is important for each of us to share our thoughts, feelings, ideas and plans. Holidays, when we are united at a common table, have a pleasant conversation, is a great way to start any relationship.
Melody
Music always accompanied a person - at every celebration, on a campaign, in a war, on weekdays. This is the creation of a festive atmosphere, the mood of the evening, it is an invisible background that forms the general condition of all participants in the celebration.
And here it is also worth considering the interests of all those invited. Music is of the greatest importance for the representatives of the sound vector. If it is too loud, it will create additional stress for them. Therefore, for background sound, it is better to choose calm melodies, sometimes even classical pieces, jazz, blues tunes, ballads. At the same time, a disco with dance music can be moved to the end of the evening or to a separate room.
New fashion hits will definitely be appreciated by guests with a skin vector, emotional, expressive works will delight visual people, and good old songs about the main thing will be approved by representatives of the anal vector.
Alternatively, you can arrange a music and singing party, where, regardless of the voice, you can perform your favorite songs together. Old songs about love, friendship, mutual help, Victory can create a special mood of sensuality and unity. The songs sung by our grandparents have their own special energy - it's not for nothing that they are still sung by many popular performers, giving these songs a second life.
At the moment of performing good sensual songs, we experience those feelings that are transmitted in music and words. An emotional connection is created between us, which can serve as the basis for the development of any relationship - paired, creative, friendly, working. Emotions that overwhelm us often even burst out with tears of joy, gratitude, hope, leaving a bright feeling of fulfillment and happiness.
Gifts
Absolutely everyone loves to receive gifts, which means that, if possible, it is worth preparing small gifts for all invited guests.
The process of choosing gifts is a great opportunity to think about another person, to try to feel his desires, values, interests in order to … get to the point.
Such a hit is possible when you have actual psychological knowledge and understand a person - you just observe him from the inside. Then you know for sure what he loves, what he wants, what he will be glad or even surprised at.
It is far from necessary to make expensive presentations, the main thing is to give what a person would be pleased to receive, and thereby provide attention and reinforce the holiday atmosphere. Read more about how to choose a gift in the article: “New Year's gift as a way to the heart. How to choose so as not to be mistaken?"
Giving gifts is actually more enjoyable than receiving them. Become a bit of a wizard and give your loved ones the best New Year. Now you know how!
