Fear of planes: what if it's a premonition?
The fear of flying on an airplane, without exaggeration, ruined my life. I have never been able to enjoy my vacation. While friends were having fun, children splashing carelessly in warm water, my husband was making romantic plans for every vacation night, I was shackled by fear. I felt like I was in a cage, a trap into which I drove myself …
Today I can say with an open heart: yes, now we fly without fear! Although the last few months of calm were preceded by several decades, during which I was literally haunted by the fear of flying.
It is impossible to describe in words the state of horror that gripped me every time I got into an airplane chair. Wild desire to run away, give up everything, don't give a damn about everyone. The bosses, who once again made me responsible for representing the company to foreign partners. For partners, negotiations with whom lasted several months before the meeting was scheduled. Friends who were in anticipation of a momentous holiday and carefree fun. On your dreams to see the world, soak up the Cote d'Azur, admire the beauty of the resort landscapes.
The fear of flying on an airplane, without exaggeration, ruined my life. I have never been able to enjoy my vacation. While friends were having fun, children splashing carelessly in warm water, my husband was making romantic plans for every vacation night, I was shackled by fear. I felt like I was in a cage, a trap into which I had driven myself. If, before leaving for rest, I was still soothed by the thought that I could change my mind at any moment, now, on the island, communication with which is possible only by air, I had nothing to calm myself with. The fear of flying an airplane gripped my entire mind. Now I couldn't even deceive myself that I didn't have to fly somewhere.
When I first confessed to my husband that I was afraid to fly on an airplane and gave up my honeymoon, wherever he went to find an answer to the question: how to overcome the fear of flying on an airplane!
First, he collected all possible statistical information on the number of aircraft crashes and their relationship to the number of sorties. I learned that scientists have long since figured out that in order to get even the smallest chance of crashing on an airplane, you have to fly every day for 13 years. It didn't convince me. Those people who crashed were not in flight for 13 years. For some it was the first flight, for others the 100th after 99 successful ones. The dream of flying without fear seemed unattainable to me.
Neither bare assurances nor figures proving that flying on an airplane is the safest way to get around convinced me. I'm still afraid to fly in an airplane …
In search of an answer to the question: how to get rid of the fear of flying on an airplane, I ended up on sites, forums, where they offered to get drunk, take a sedative, sleeping pills. I tried everything … Alcohol had a completely opposite effect. I was hysterical during the flight. They tried to calm me down, they yelled at me, the pilot himself came out to talk to me, seeing whom I lost consciousness, deciding that no one was flying the plane.
After that she saved herself with sleeping pills. Yes, it helped to survive the flight, but not the fear of flying. Every week before the flight, I kept getting nervous.
I'm afraid to fly an airplane, what should I do?
Psychotherapists, self-hypnosis - all this was passed. All this had no effect. Each of the methods I tried improved my condition slightly for a while, but this improvement was absolutely insignificant.
Driving into the search engine once again the combination of the words "how to overcome the fear of flying on an airplane", I found several reviews about one person who helps people like me. He convincingly promises to explain how to get rid of the fear of flying an airplane and completely eradicate this fear by rationalizing the entire mechanism of flight.
Then it seemed to me that I had finally found the answer to the question that had long tormented me - how to overcome / overcome the fear of flying. After all, if I see how the plane works, if I am convinced of its reliability, I will never again experience this fear.
Nonsense! Does not work. Fear defies any rational explanation or persuasion. If he decided to take possession of you and firmly sit in your consciousness, he will control you from there. No influence "from the outside" will affect him. And my guesses turned out to be correct …
How to overcome fear of the plane? - Only from the inside
My victory over the fear of flying did not begin at all where I was looking for it … I found the answer in system-vector psychology. Having got on the online broadcast of the training, listening to a free lecture, where I went for a "minute", I came to my senses only after 2 hours. The lecturer told amazing things about how we work. About the pleasure principle that controls us. That we came to this world in order to enjoy this life, and not to endure the blows of "fate", which we create for ourselves.
Among his thoughts that we ourselves spoil our lives with insults, a feeling of hostility towards loved ones, the words hit me like a hammer on the head:
"… wasting our lives on fears …"
These people, who can get such pleasure from contemplating beautiful landscapes, which travel to other countries and the sight of new beauties of overseas countries can lead to a state similar to the feeling of love, cannot enjoy this, because they are afraid of flights and do not know how to defeat the fear of flying …
He seemed to be talking to me. Although there were about 4 thousand people on the list of listeners, it seemed to me that every word was addressed to me. And I took the invitation to the full course of training as a personal invitation, and after all that I heard, I simply could not help but accept it.
Then many hours of learning, discoveries, realization followed … A clear understanding of many things appeared. Answers even to questions not yet asked. I discovered a new world of other people for myself. Interesting, mesmerizing.
But the most interesting thing started at the visual lesson. When I discovered to learn not just interesting facts about loved ones and about their inner properties, desires, character traits and their manifestations, but also about myself. About their properties, true desires. About your own nature and … the nature of your fear. The fact that in fact I am not at all afraid of planes or heights, as many psychotherapists tried to explain this fear to me. The true root of my fear lies in the primal fear … of death. Fear, which is not really experienced by all people, but only by those who are endowed with a visual vector.
I was close to unraveling the reasons for my fear when I assumed that its root must be somewhere deep in my subconscious. But I never knew that a single fear, without being conscious, can start looking for a way out through rational guises. That all those thousands of phobias that traditional psychology considers separately, come from one and only. And that the method of dealing with any fears lies in understanding your nature.
Yuri Burlan's training "System-vector psychology" will help you to understand yourself deeper, to realize the nature of your fears, and they will imperceptibly disappear from your life forever. The effectiveness of this technique is confirmed by hundreds of testimonies from real people who have undergone training.
“By the nature of my service, I have to fly a lot … almost every month, to say that I was afraid is to say nothing, panic … before the flight, hysterics that my relatives knew about … Before the next flight they reassured me … they wanted to get there successfully … that's not all …..))) before my next flight, there was a certain ritual))): someone ran to church … someone to the mosque … And even to the church - everyone prayed that I would fly safely …
The last three times I flew simply, calmly … I do not understand where the panic fear has gone … I absolutely do not understand this and how it happened … ALL !!! FEAR OF FLY GONE !!!"
Leila Saydasheva, director of the confectionery department Read the full text of the result
“I am writing this review, being far from home, in a beautiful sunny country, where I flew on vacation by plane. Many will say: “So what's wrong with that? You never know who flew where."
A small addition: I have aerophobia, that is, a fear of planes, flights and everything connected with it.
… Although, as far as I can remember, I dreamed of traveling to different countries. And just recently the same sister called and offered to relax together. Only holidays abroad were considered. I really wanted to.
By this time, I had already changed my life beyond recognition, because I had completed training with Yuri. And I agreed to the flight. She was terribly nervous. When we arrived at the airport, checked in and so on, and then sat waiting for boarding, I kept looking for signs of impending panic. No … And now no, we are already entering the plane, everything is calm again … We start takeoff, I sit quietly, we fly, we arrived … And no FEAR !!!
It cannot be, but it is! My phobia, my horror, my nightmare disappeared - as if nothing had happened. Soon I am flying home, then the whole family and friends are going on vacation, and now this is just the beginning!
A lot has changed in my life, and many fears that tormented me in everyday life have gone, but I did not even suspect that I could fly!)))"
Anastasia Barinova, Read the full text of the result
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