Ignorance of the "rules of moving through life" does not exempt from responsibility for your life
You can be indignant about poverty as much as you want, but it will not make you rich. You can be indignant at the behavior of a husband or wife, but this will not make the family friendly. You can be outraged by men, women, the government, even the weather, sitting on your couch in the company of the TV, but this will not get rid of loneliness …
Some people think that our world is like streets full of cars, but there are no traffic rules and therefore everyone tries to overtake others. As a result, those with more powerful bumpers move faster and achieve their goals. The rest, pushed into the back rows, are forced to slowly trudge after the faster ones and swallow the exhaust gases and dust left by their cars.
Observing this picture, such people come to the conclusion that life is arranged unfairly and nothing can be done about it! The only thing that remains is to express your dissatisfaction with each other and life by all available methods, including those provided by the World Wide Web.
Unfortunately, discontent does not lead to happiness. You can be indignant about poverty as much as you want, but it will not make you rich. You can be indignant at the behavior of your husband or wife, but this will not make the family friendly. You can resent men, women, the government, even the weather, sitting on your couch in the company of TV, but this will not get rid of loneliness.
So, most people do not know how to live "right", how to build personal relationships so that they bring joy and pleasure, how to make a career in order to live with dignity, how to stop being afraid and start living in full force.
Apparently, in order to become happy, you need to come up with “traffic rules” for life. Or maybe they have existed for a long time, just not everyone knows about them?
Rules of the road for life
"Rules of the road for life" are already known, and the system-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan introduces them to them. This science allows us to see patterns in the structure of our world and in the seemingly chaotic actions of any person.
Often we are indignant: "Well, why did you do that, said, went the wrong way?" and in response we hear something unintelligible.
There is nothing surprising in this, because a person really knows nothing about himself, except for dates of birth, graduation from school, and marriage. He cannot even understand the reasons why he does some of his actions, let alone strangers!
A person lives a period of time measured for him, without understanding why he came into this life, for what purpose. Many do not even ask these questions. They just live and then die, blaming the Higher Power for their unhappy worthless life! Let's not blame anyone for this! However, let us remember that ignorance of the laws of life does not absolve one from responsibility for their violation!
Violation of these laws leads to your own unhappy life, well, as they say, it's a matter of taste. Much worse is the fact that unhappy people are not able to raise happy children, and this is already a great crime both before the children themselves and before the whole society! It is unlikely that any normal person wants a bad fate for his child, he just does not know how to bring up otherwise.
Thirst for pleasure
All people are driven by the desire to enjoy life, joy and enjoyment. Other people bring us the greatest pleasure and the greatest sorrow. But how do you know what you can expect from this particular person, so as not to exclaim later, wringing his hands: "How could he do this to me ?!" I could. Because I was not going to do otherwise! Of course, it is possible that he is a scoundrel, or perhaps his intentions were misunderstood. And for the fact that his behavior did not coincide with expectations, it is somehow unlawful to blame this subject.
So why are people so often disappointed in others and suffering so much? All just because they do not know the "rules of movement" in life with other people. These rules are simple, and you can learn them at the training on system-vector psychology by Yuri Burlan.
To understand a person means to understand his desires, intentions, system of life values. And you will no longer wait for unearthly love from someone who is simply not capable of this due to the lack of the necessary properties. Relations with such a person are built on a different basis. This is neither bad nor good, just different. If this option does not suit you, then you can refuse it in time and find another partner who can reciprocate your love.
You will not consider a person as a traitor, for whom friendship is not something indestructible and sacred. Such a quality is not among his life priorities, useful acquaintances are more important for him, from which some material benefit can be derived. He is neither bad nor good - he is! And it's up to you to decide in what relationship to be with him.
It seems that everyone knows that all people are different, but they judge everyone by themselves and receive disappointment and mental trauma due to their inability to understand the essence of another person. And if before it was possible to live only in this way, then with the advent of system-vector psychology, everything changed. She became a life navigator in all areas, be it interpersonal relationships, group relationships, raising children or determining her destiny.
System-vector psychology
System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan explains the mechanisms and patterns of the subconscious, it remains only to use this knowledge in their daily activities and interaction with other people. These are the very "rules of movement" in life.
There are eight of these "rules" - these are eight measures of the unconscious and eight corresponding vectors. A vector is a set of strictly defined desires and corresponding properties for their realization. The combination of vectors, as well as the level of their development and implementation, create a unique life scenario for each person. By determining what vectors a person is endowed with, one can confidently predict his behavior in a given situation. After all, knowing the vectors, you know the desires of a person, the way of thinking, aspirations, abilities and possibilities, his system of values. The whole man, at a glance!
Knowing everything about a person, it is simple and easy to build relationships with him. In this case, there is no need to puzzle over the question of why he attaches such importance to the location of his own home slippers! But the well-being of family relations often depends on such trifles!
Usually people get married with the firm intention of starting a strong, happy family, but not everyone succeeds. In many families, there comes a time when it turns out that "the swan is torn into the clouds, the cancer moves back, and the pike pulls into the water" and it is absolutely impossible to achieve agreement. At the same time, everyone believes that it is he who is acting correctly, but the other is “not like that and does everything wrong”.
This is a typical situation when one and the same process is looked at from different points of view, and they defend their way of achieving the goal based on their own priorities, without even realizing that the partner has other priorities. For the same reason, disagreements arise in business relationships and in any other relationship between people.
In order not to become like the heroes of the fable and to achieve their goals by the shortest path without unnecessary expenditure of nerves and energy, it is necessary to learn to understand the "rules of movement" in life. This understanding begins to appear already at the free lectures on systemic vector psychology by Yuri Burlan, which are held online and therefore available to everyone.
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