Behavioral culture and personality behavior - one thousand and one wishes
Why do we behave this way and not otherwise? What are the true reasons for our actions, if sometimes we cannot explain them even to ourselves?
What determines the behavior of an individual? Upbringing in a family or educational level, race, nationality, religion or degree of wealth?
The ideal of a cultured person is nothing more
than the ideal of a person who, in any conditions, retains
genuine humanity."
Albert Schweitzer.
The highest possible stage of moral
culture is when we realize that we are able to
control our thoughts."
Charles Robert Darwin.
“A cultured person … This is one who
is able to compassion. This is a bitter, painful talent."
Vasily Shukshin.
Why do we behave this way and not otherwise? What are the true reasons for our actions, if sometimes we cannot explain them even to ourselves?
What determines the behavior of an individual? Upbringing in a family or educational level, race, nationality, religion or degree of wealth?
The culture of human behavior is best evidenced by his actions. And what precedes any action? That's right - a desire or desire to accomplish something, and already on the basis of desire, an intention or a plan of specific actions to satisfy one's desires appears, a step-by-step instruction, so to speak. And the intention is realized in action.
Thus, the behavior of a person is determined by his desires.
However, we do not make every our desire come true. The innate qualities inherent in each vector determine the type of thinking, the system of values, according to which behavior is formed and the entire life scenario of a person is built.
The most interesting thing is that any desire is inherent in us at birth, moreover, each of them is provided with appropriate properties - both physical and mental, that is, we cannot desire what we are not able to fulfill! We simply will not have such a need.
Of course, we often succumb to the general excitement, fashion and mistakenly mistake the stereotypes popular today for personal goals, rationalize our actions and try our best to become what we cannot be.
And such mistakes are inherent exclusively to an adult.
A small child always acts directly, his behavior is conditioned only by his own desires and is not limited by any prohibitions. For him, there are no concepts of culture, morality, morality, etc., all restrictions are inculcated over time, and desires are manifestations of mental properties that are given from birth.
Why, then, out of two brothers or sisters who are brought up in the same conditions, two completely different personalities can grow?
What is the determining factor that makes it possible to call a person Cultural?
Why is the culture of behavior in our time different from that, for example, in the Middle Ages?
Is it possible to influence the behavior of a person and will it be possible to change it radically?
The most incredible, but obvious answers are right inside us, at a great depth of mental processes, where any desires just arise, exactly the same as 50 thousand years ago - either hatred of one's neighbor or compassion, but which ones prevail, depends on the degree of development and the level of realization of each specific individual.
The behavior of any person is determined by his innate psychological qualities - a set of vectors. The behavior of a person is formed under the influence of society in the process of developing these innate qualities and growing up.
How is the culture of modern man's behavior formed, and in what situation can any cultural superstructures be thrown off?
Why in the modern world the behavior of an individual ranges from the peak of humanity and sacrifice to the marginal behavior of criminal elements?
We continue to dive into the deepest secrets of the human psyche.
PERSONAL BEHAVIOR - A PERSON IS DETERMINED BY HIS DESIRES
We are born with a certain set of desires, non-verbalized, not arranged in a numbered list, but subconscious, hidden deep in the mental aspirations, by satisfying which we level our state, receive pleasure, bring the biochemistry of the brain into a balanced state.
But the way in which our needs are satisfied depends on the level of development of innate properties and on the skills of implementation accumulated over 50 thousand years, including the culture of behavior in society.
For example, there is a desire to save money. It can be embodied in misery, inadequate prohibitions, storing unnecessary trash, or it can manifest itself in the form of saving resources - money, time, human - and be embodied in outstanding engineering solutions.
Desire is the same, but the methods of realization differ radically, including the amount of pleasure received. No matter how much rubbish the archetypal leatherman takes into his house, he can never get satisfaction from his actions at the level at which a developed and realized engineer-inventor receives him.
What determines the behavior of a person in the modern world?
From the level of development of its vector properties and the degree of their implementation in society.
It is possible to develop innate qualities only until the end of the puberty period (12-15 years) in the conditions of correct upbringing, corresponding to the set of the child's vectors. Growing up in close interaction with society gives the skills of communication, adaptation and culture of behavior in society.
Thus, adequate upbringing gives a lot, helps to develop innate properties to a level corresponding to modern society and adapt them in such a way as to get maximum pleasure from realization, while bringing benefit to all of humanity.
I WANT A GINGERBREAD, BUT I WILL RUN ONLY FROM WHIP
The culture of behavior of a modern person depends on the cultivated cultural values and the level of socialization of the individual, that is, it is a purely acquired quality that determines the options for the behavior of the individual.
A developed and realized person always brings socially useful benefits to the environment, receiving satisfaction from his own activities. The criminal elements of the criminal environment are individuals undeveloped to the modern level, stopped in the archetypal program of behavior, trying to realize their shortcomings in the simplest way - at the level of the laws of primitive society (theft, murder, violence, etc.).
The founder of culture is a skin-visual woman, and we owe her the peak of the development of culture today. At all times, the purpose of culture has been to reduce the level of collective animosity caused by lack of implementation.
The less realized a person is in society, the more the innate properties require their fulfillment - in any way, at least somehow, at least for a short while, to align the biochemistry of the brain and normalize the state.
Dislike for my neighbor is growing, especially for a developed and realized person who lives a full life and allows himself to receive pleasure from existence, while I do not have the opportunity to realize my needs - I would kill! The primary animal urge to kill awakens, limited, firstly, by law, and secondly, by culture.
The goal of culture has invariably been to enhance the value of human life, since at the root of it lies the ancient fear of being eaten by the tribal cannibals. At present, human life has the maximum value and is the main priority in any society. So, if all the previous millennia, mankind has waged incessant bloody wars, today the attitude towards the victims of military operations is in a certain sense absurd, but very indicative from the point of view of the value of life: to save several captured soldiers, if not the entire army, then the best special detachments with the support of aviation and navy, rush to the liberation operation.
RESET AND RESTART
It should be noted that any cultural add-ons can be dropped, regardless of the level of development of vector properties. This can happen in the case of over-stress, when the pressure of the landscape significantly exceeds the adaptive capabilities of a person.
Sometimes you can hear the message that a famous actress was caught in a supermarket while trying to steal a toothbrush - this is a manifestation of over-stress in the skin vector. The behavior of the individual at that moment returns to the primitive program, realizing his needs directly, here and now. After the termination of the effect of the stress-forming factor, the psychological state of a person is restored.
Stress manifests itself differently in each vector. It is these actions with a state of stress that we cannot explain to ourselves or to others, at that moment our unconscious and unfulfilled desires live by us, pushing us to the most disgusting actions. By realizing the nature of your vectors, you are able to sort out your desires, finally find out their real origins and find an acceptable way to satisfy them. By understanding what happens to us in a state of stress and what exactly can lead to this, you get an instrument of conscious control over your actions.
Thus, the determining factor of the culture of behavior of a modern person is the fact to what extent he in his development meets the requirements of modern society, to what extent he realizes his innate properties, receiving satisfaction from his own life.
