Tsar Maiden over the window. Chest in crosses or head in bushes. Part 4
The urethral girl is a "bad girl" as she is, and not pathetic imitations of the visual and auditory imagination. The life that others only dream of, she lives every day and always gets what she wants …
The Tsar Maiden, or why good girls go to heaven, and bad girls go wherever they want
The urethral girl replaces the urethral leader where there is none. She often leads a gang of boys, she is not very interested in dresses and jewelry, she has a short haircut or wears a shock of unruly hair. The Tsar Maiden does not fit into the generally accepted canons of girls: she does not seek to receive fashionable clothes, jewelry from her parents, she treats her appearance with apparent indifference, she can look rude, a kind of kid.
She does not participate in girlish gossip, friendship against someone, she simply does not need it. Within the family, it is better to adhere to her in the same tone as with the boy: to consult, assign responsibility, delegate authority. The urethral girl, like the boy, is rebellious, but if she is motivated to help the pack (family), she will do more than you expected from her.
The urethral girl is more indulgent to your weaknesses than the boy, she is still softer like a woman. But don't even try to subdue her. Run away, like the boy, even further and more hopeless. A beaten urethral girl develops completely undesirable scenarios, she may even change her sexual orientation.
Despite the seeming angularity and lack of fashionable clothes, such a girl is wildly popular among peers (and not only) of both sexes. The boys are ready to support all her antics, the girls crowd into her friends in droves. But these are not groups of skin-visual young ladies and not passes under the arm of anal-visual companions. She is always in the center, and they are around, looking for protection and protection.
The urethral girl is a "bad girl" as she is, and not pathetic imitations of the visual and auditory imagination. The life that others only dream of, she lives every day and always gets what she wants.
Teachers are afraid of the urethral girl and do their best to get rid of her, often advise parents to transfer her to another school, "easier", success is not ah, but she also succeeds in all subjects, you just can't throw her out. Teachers see their powerlessness. In a class with a urethral girl, the teacher can only formally lead. The only way out here for the class teacher is to assign maximum responsibility to such a girl, in practice, the teacher's right hand in the class is an obedient anal excellent student who carries a magazine and does not create prominences of disobedience. On the contrary, they try to isolate the urethral one from the affairs of the class, not to take it on trips, not to involve it in joint events. Funny.
If the skin leader strives for primacy at all costs and uses all means for this, intriguing and often in a small dirty trick to the teacher and classmates, then the urethral adolescent has a completely different effect. The urethral girl rarely acts on her own. The flock works for her. It is impossible to prove it. Formally, she is beyond suspicion, but the teacher knows who started to hack the school's website, who could inspire a very good boy to sit for three nights, picking up codes.
It would never occur to anyone to know why she did it. The teachers would be very surprised to learn that the reason for the hacking was the casual complaint of the teacher of the Russian language and literature: in addition to eleven paper magazines, now you also need to fill out an electronic one, and when only to prepare an evening in memory of Yesenin. And you thought that the urethral girl worries about two marks in physics, especially now, when the old physicist has shamelessly "gone", and instead of him …
In adolescents, the sense of justice is heightened. In the urethral adolescent, this feeling dominates all the others, moreover, it is directed not at himself, but at those whom he considers his pack. "For himself" he needs only one thing - to give to the flock. The urethral leader projects his sense of freedom onto the flock, and if the flock is bad, it experiences unfair pressure from the "formal" leaders (teachers, parents), the leader will easily arrange a "revolution so that no one leaves the punishment."
The behavior of the urethral is mirrored by skin girls. The urethral has run away from home, expect skin races for short distances. As a rule, to her under her wing, but not for long, soon she will send them back to mom and dad, mercifully realizing that there is no place for them (yet) in the field life.
All the sins of the class are hanged on the urethral girl, and she does not mind, she bears responsibility for the flock, and the opinion of the elders is not authoritative for her. She feels like an older woman, even if she is younger. For example, she happily takes care of her older dermato-visual sister, an eternal girl.
To all the complexities of raising a urethral boy, the Tsar Maiden adds specifically female ones. She matures early, begins sexual activity early and, which is especially traumatic for parents, gives birth early and easily, as a rule, from, say, not the most desirable boy for the parents, often years older than her, but not developmentally. This is either a skin-visual boy-victim, or another "uncaught" male, a marginal, an outsider.
The Tsar Maiden surrenders due to lacks, as is inherent in her urethral essence. Possessing excellent health and a strong spirit by nature, she makes it possible to continue in time for not the most strong and competitive man. She will carry such a “gift” on herself through life until she gets tired, and she has a lot of strength. She will not only give birth to this guy, but also give him the maximum possible realization, straightening his not-too-happy fate. All this is a bad consolation for the parents of the urethral woman, who would like the happiness of their girl, as they see it: in the consumption of the benefits brought by a man. For your own peace of mind, it is better to forget about it right away, and remember that your girl's happiness is in giving back to shortages, therefore, she is happy.
A female urethral girl needs to be helped without waiting for her to ask, because she will never ask. You should not expect direct gratitude from her with assurances of love and eternal devotion. If you deprive her of your help, she will cope, even if you think it is impossible.
Conclusion
Urethral children come to us to show that the impossible is possible. They are the strongest stimulus for the development of their parents. Raising any child is a reason for parents to become better. But only the urethral child makes you learn incredible things: take only for bestowal, get rid of stereotypes, be truly free.
System-vector psychology for the first time gives us a tool for understanding urethral children, these "children on the contrary", allows them to grow, develop and realize themselves in wonderful and so necessary for us people of the future, capable of performing tasks beyond the power of anyone else.
End of the 4th part.
PART 1. The leader of the Redskins. The collisions of educating the not-faint-hearted
PART 2. Raising a Daredevil. Ram system of general education
PART 3. Without a king in the head. Regent to his child
