Sexuality and eroticism between a man and a woman
Sexuality and eroticism between a man and a woman Forget, but rather throw in the trash all the words associated with deviations and perversions - they are not. Today there are peculiarities of the disclosure of the cultural layer, dissatisfaction with culture, which form all our sexual traits …
Fragment of the lecture notes for the second level on the topic “Sexuality. Relationship between Man and Woman. Orgasm"
By additional desires, we break away from animals, we go out of balance. In this separation, additional desires form 4 types of sexuality: urethral, anal, cutaneous, muscular, as well as 4 types of eroticism: visual, sound, oral, olfactory. The disclosure of sexual characteristics in each of the four types of sexuality, the characteristics of erotic design for men and women give incredible climaxes, a special spark of pleasure.
For a woman, erotic design is more important than for a man. In sight, this is romantic eroticism, special symbolic rows, rituals; in orality it is oral eroticism; even the sound (the most asexual vector) has its own eroticism, expressed by the influence of the timbre of the voice - the pleasure for a woman from the low voice of a man.
A man is sexually more fragile and vulnerable: you say the wrong word, you look wrong - and there is no erection. We need to remember this and be more delicate and gentle in everything that concerns male sexuality.
When a special close relationship develops, a woman trusts with all her heart and gets her orgasm, and a man trusts, allows him to show his sexual characteristics and gets his eroticism, more vivid sensations, experiences that are so often lacking. And not enough - it means he will look for it somewhere. All these natural features of our psyche, our sexuality do not allow us to live fully, we rush about with them, we are afraid of our mental, everything that is connected with sexuality and far-fetched deviations that differ from those past standards that no longer exist and will not be.
When a man also has a special emotional connection, trust, then it is easier for him to realize, to reveal his sexual characteristics. By revealing his own hidden eroticism of additional desires, the man increases the brightness of his pleasure. All these features must be disclosed in paired relationships.
Forget it, but rather throw away all the words associated with deviations and perversions in the trash - they are not. Today there are peculiarities of the disclosure of the cultural layer, dissatisfaction with the culture, which form all our sexual traits. Especially in modern Russia, 20 years ago, the collapse of the Soviet Union affected everyone and in sexuality too. Even on the young generation, which was raised by parents in super-stress in the dashing 90s in the insane state of society, all this is reflected in the disclosure of the cultural layer of a child, a teenager, and this is where all our sexual characteristics lie.
We live in modern times, everything that has been developed between masculine and feminine leaves, new comes, and we do not have time to change under these conditions. A woman has time to change more, a man less. First of all, it is more difficult for anal sexes to adapt, but skin males also do not keep up. The range of sexual acceptability went out, spilled out beyond any framework.
Today a woman is without panic and hysteria, but should strive to get an orgasm. She has all the possibilities for this and can learn to get an orgasm, given her sexual characteristics. She should not sit and think “Oh, how strange I am,” but, on the contrary, should not be shy and demand the satisfaction of her sexual desires regarding her vector features in sexuality and eroticism.
Today, in a pair relationship, everything is acceptable that is within the framework of the law and does not cause inconvenience to third parties. For a woman, getting an orgasm, pleasure from sexual relations is possible only through an emotional connection, a trusting relationship. You should not wait for favors from nature, rely on the Russian maybe, but add up the relationship yourself. This should go from two sides, through revealing each other, creating a special emotional intimate connection. A woman can provoke, push a man to this, so that he also follows the path of creating special emotional trusting relationships …
Continuation of the abstract on the forum
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Victoria Bokova wrote down. May 17, 2013
A comprehensive understanding of this and other topics is formed on the full oral training "System-vector psychology"
