Trainings for women and not so much. Checked on myself
If you believe public opinion, it will seem that a Woman is a kind of average person who is more emotional than the same average Man, is hysterical, more talkative, less smart and necessarily loves romance …
It seems that not so long ago I wrote about trainings, but here once again they called to develop femininity. Yes, not just called. It turned out that especially advanced specialists come to our city, who do not do anything, but women trainings. Just one day, just for you and all.
Probably, I would not have paid attention - we have daily "exclusive" trainings for women and men, trainings for sales and self-knowledge, so it’s not interesting anymore - if I hadn’t caught one point. The target audience is indicated in the advertisement - those women who are doing well in life, but want to do better, want a constant holiday with flowers and fireworks (the meaning, excuse me, in my own words).
Although a little familiar with system-vector psychology, people are now smiling, understanding in a few phrases who these women's trainings are designed for, which women will go there, which of them will get the expected result … and how the life of the majority will be spoiled if they cannot due to the lack of natural properties necessary for the "holiday with fireworks flowers."
But let's start in order …
If you believe public opinion, it will seem that a Woman is a kind of average person who is more emotional than the same average Man, hysterical, more talkative, less smart and necessarily loves romance. Well, it's young. Not so long ago I met the opinion that the "psychological type" can change with age. So a Woman grows up, becomes more experienced, wiser or becomes a shrew because of problems and dissatisfaction.
Funny, isn't it? It's funny, for those who understand how one woman differs from another and why, under no circumstances, they will not be able to “change places”. Unfortunately, for the most part, women's trainings do not teach them to be happy in their place.
There is such a mockery of the collective mind - we take for the image of true femininity that skin-visual woman, whom nature is not prepared to be a woman in the full sense of the word. She is a muse who inspires a man to great deeds. She is a seductress who arouses a passion for victories in a man. She is a bitch hated by women and offended men. She is the witch that some would like to burn at the stake in our time. She is also the most refined nymph. But never a Woman giving birth to children, capable and willing to maintain a family hearth and loyalty to her only man. Alas.
At one time, I tried to attend some women's trainings, and each time the supply of impressions was enough for a couple of months, no more. I thought that the reason was the lack of professionalism of the coach, my stupidity, weather conditions and magnetic storms. I went to the next training with a cooler (read, advertised) coach, got my emotions and faith in a happy future for a month or two … and so on.
Well, in fact, how long can a bird pretending to be a fish enjoy the new image? The answer is obvious.
I will not say that I am such a rude aunt, in dire need of the development of femininity. But looking at one of my friends, for example, I felt some discomfort. I always had admirers with “serious intentions”, and “frivolous” acquaintances were easily struck up, but some elusive aristocratic refinement of my friend nullified all the feeling of female happiness. Her ringing transparency and feline grace, complete with two higher educations, did not leave hope for the opportunity to become even a little similar. How could I then know that a skin-visual woman can only be born and there is no chance to acquire such properties consciously. Moreover, a skin-visual woman with a fairly high level of development. No matter how hard you try, only a parody will work.
Other friends, who almost from kindergarten dreamed of marriage and played mother-daughters while I climbed trees with the boys, did not have much attraction for me. The only thing that it was always pleasant to visit them was that they would give them tasty food and not burden them with problems.
I will not write in too much detail about such an important point as the sound vector. It is he who drives numerous training visitors to find himself. Until you figure out what exactly you are looking for, you will bypass both women's trainings and trainings for personal growth, and even have time to bypass temples, places of power and other places where it is customary to go in search of truth. There is nothing to do for a female student at the women's training, she generally exists in a different plane, but as an element of search it happens.
So, I went everywhere, not bypassing these women's trainings. Probably, if I had not got acquainted with the system-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan, I would have lived from training to training, but rather, I would have been disappointed in the end. And she would continue to live, replacing the satisfaction from the realization of her properties with simple surrogates offered by the market in large numbers - pseudophilosophical books and films, fantasy art, esoteric practices, etc.
How else, if desires are directed in different directions and do not know what to grab onto?
In general, the bulk of female trainers are polymorphs, combining the properties of several vectors that often set conflicting desires. With a high development of at least several vectors, a person is already able to arrange his happiness, compensating for the unmet needs of some hobby. And if you failed to develop? Not everyone who was "lucky" to grow up during the collapse of the Soviet Union was able to fully adapt to life, not all parents then were able to help in the development of inherent abilities. Or the temperament was not high enough. Yes, you never know the reasons? And there are desires! And even advertising! Moreover, public opinion!
Maybe you saw young girls with the complexion of a shot putter awkwardly waddling in high heels? We have a lot of them. This is a muscle vector, striving for everything to be “like that of people,” and in combination with the visual vector, such a girl has a desire to be beautiful as well. So a muscular lady in a mini-skirt and stiletto heels walked around the city, trying to match the fashion trends. There are also many such girls at women's trainings.
Nevertheless, I do not want to say that women's trainings are bad. This phenomenon has its consumers, solving some small life problems in one area. Maybe even those who get a feeling of greater self-confidence. Only thinking does not change at such trainings.
And the problem that is not always clearly visible is exactly the problem that needs to be addressed in the first place.
There is a good expression - "You can take a girl out of the village, but you can't take the village out of the girl's head." In the same way, you can try on other people's masks as much as you like, but this will never give a full-fledged result until the worldview and way of thinking change, until there is a complete understanding of oneself, one's needs and innate capabilities. Such changes will be provided only by Yuri Burlan's training in system-vector psychology.
Checked! It's a pity, it took me too much experience from other trainings to figure it out.
