How not to feel like a trampled horse, to stay active and cheerful Part 2
We often do not understand all our desires and capabilities. This may be associated with a state of vague dissatisfaction and the accumulation of fatigue. It seems like I like my job, but I would like something more. So that fatigue does not outweigh the joy of success and achievements, it is important to determine what vectors you have, what desires move you in life.
Feel Like A Trampled Horse Part 1
In this part, we will analyze some situations that prevent people from feeling cheerful and happy, despite being active and striving to improve their lives.
Woman in the new world
It happens that a woman who is torn between work, household chores and raising children experiences a state of fatigue and loss of strength. This does not mean that a woman should not work, that she needs, as in the good old days, to return to the hearth.
The woman's desires have grown, and she wants to participate in social life on an equal basis with the man. The situation becomes stressful most often for another reason - when a woman is forced to work for two, or when the family does not have sufficient mutual support, mutual understanding with a man. Then the woman loses the feeling of security and safety that she needs, confidence in the future, which at all times was given to her first of all by the man. Without this feeling, she is like a leaf in the wind, and the internal tension from the uncharacteristic share of responsibility for the survival of herself and the child eats up the last internal resources.
For thousands of years, a woman was out of social realization and always received alimony and protection from a man. And only in the last hundred years has she tried on an active male role. Despite the fact that a modern woman can often provide for herself, and not only for herself, she still needs a strong man's shoulder to feel safe and secure.
Solution: For a man's shoulder to be truly strong, and a man himself to grow in his social realization, it is very important to maintain a warm, trusting relationship in a couple, to be desirable for his man. Only then does a woman become his inspiration, a muse. And this pushes the man to do the maximum of what he is capable of. It happens that he is not capable, this is a separate question.
How to return mutual attraction, if it is lost, how to create mutual understanding and emotional closeness in a relationship with a man, you can read in more detail in other articles. You can learn even more at the free online training by Yuri Burlan.
Unused opportunities
We often do not understand all our desires and capabilities. This may be associated with a state of vague dissatisfaction and the accumulation of fatigue. It seems like I like my job, but I would like something more.
For example, a person possesses several vectors, which means that he has a rich spectrum of talents, and at work realizes the abilities of only one of his vectors, for example, the skin one. The potential of other vectors remains insufficiently used either at work or at home. But there are desires, they do not go anywhere and press, demanding implementation. It would be ideal to implement all vectors in work, because it takes up most of our life. But this is not so easy to ensure if a person has four or more vectors.
Solution: so that fatigue does not outweigh the joy of success and achievement, it is important to determine what vectors you have, what desires drive you through life.
If you like the work and you are not going to change it, then you can get the implementation in the unused vectors through hobbies. In the visual vector, communication with loved ones, engaging in art will help, in the anal - doing household chores and handicrafts, in the sound one - the opportunity to be in silence and think, reading classical literature, writing, knowing yourself.
But if, after an active skin day at work, such a polymorph, following the standard recommendations for maintaining health, runs to the gym (which does not add realization to the visual, sound, or anal vectors), the imbalance will increase even more, and, consequently, the feeling of fatigue.
It is worse if after a working day there is no strength left for anything else. Then you need to think - are you in your place?
When a person fulfills his desires correctly, he experiences inner balance, joy and happiness. Together with the psyche, the body comes into balance. We stop overeating, sleep improves. If you suffered from insomnia, we start sleeping. If you sleep too much, sleep is set at the level of individual physiological needs.
A person is out of place, or "This is not mine, not mine …"
When a person does work that does not correspond to his vector desires, he will not be motivated to work. It will be hard for him, not interested, the case will not ignite him, which means that he will constantly experience apathy and loss of strength.
For example, a guy with an anal vector works as an administrator or sales manager. A person who loves to do everything efficiently, without haste, consistently, performing and completing one task after another, finds himself in a situation where he is pulled from all sides, at the same time posed diverse tasks that require urgent solutions. Of course, his daily stress levels are off the charts. How long will he be able to hold out in such conditions without a nervous breakdown?
Or a girl with sound and visual vectors works as a cashier in a supermarket. A job that would have been easy for a girl without the upper vectors becomes unbearable for her. She is so tired that she has absolutely no strength to fulfill intellectual and emotional needs. Dissatisfaction builds up. She becomes irritable, cannot concentrate, everything falls out of her hands. It seems to her that she no longer wants anything.
Solution: urgently figure out what vectors are in the vector set, in what state they are, at what level of development, and look for a job or at least a hobby in accordance with your desires. Only in this case it is possible to avoid many mistakes in the choice of work, especially when the sound vector with dominant - the strongest desires is completely out of work.
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