Soul hurts - how to be
The soul can be sick for various reasons. But with system-vector psychology it is obvious: we experience the strongest internal discomfort when our innate desires are not fulfilled.
What are these desires? What are these states of unfulfillment that cause pain in the soul?
A person complains about something incomprehensible, like Kuprin's: “it hurts in the middle” and “I can’t eat or drink”. What if the source of the most severe suffering is not an internal organ, when you cannot really explain what is happening to you? What if the soul hurts?
In-depth analysis is indispensable. To find out exactly why the soul can be so really sick, what to do with an illness, everyone with the System-Vector Psychology of Yuri Burlan will be able to.
Let's consider the most common cases:
Diagnosis 1 - acute emotional failure
We parted, the soul howls, the soul hurts. What if inside is cold from the thought that we will never see you again? Our love is over.
Parting with a loved one is difficult for everyone. But the soul of the owners of the visual vector suffers especially strongly from the breakdown of relations. Feelings must seethe for the visual heart to beat with happiness. Where, if not in a pair, to swim in emotions?
At the end of the relationship, such people feel as if they have cut off oxygen. The severing of an emotional connection leads to a hopeless feeling of longing.
I would seal my oversensitive heart in a cone so that it never hurts again. But it's like leaving a broken leg in a cast forever - it won't learn to function anymore. The damaged part of the body must be developed, over and over again taught to move.
The principle of soul healing is similar. It is necessary to give her the opportunity to do her natural work - to feel, feel, desire, enjoy.
Mental pain - how to relieve it? The systemic recipe is paradoxical, but effective: to heal the soul from a lack of love with regular doses of empathy for other people.
For the viewer, this means passing through the emotional states of another, responding to them, showing compassion. Passive acceptance of self-love does not help.
Even if it hurts the most, try to notice someone else with your heart, help him get out of a difficult situation. As soon as you shift the focus of attention from yourself to someone else, the joy of life will return.
Diagnosis 2 - recurrent anxiety, or When the soul hurts for loved ones
The son has not answered for two hours, something happened! Where is he? Where did you disappear to? Call hospitals, police stations, morgues !? What to do? The soul hurts unbearably!
Any mother worries about her child. But to some it always seems that something terrible will happen to the "son". Why is the soul so tormented for the child, even if he is already an adult?
Such a problem is faced by the super caring best mothers - the owners of the anal-visual ligament of vectors. They, due to their mental characteristics, may suffer from excessive anxiety for their loved ones. Super anxiety covers if:
- the innate properties of the mother are cramped where they are applied;
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the natural abilities and capabilities of the child are a mystery for the mother.
System-vector psychology addresses both issues.
Anal-visual qualities of a mother: impressionability, sensitivity, attentiveness to details, the desire to convey knowledge, care - can be used not only for the sake of their own children, but also to the delight of many, for example, in creativity, teaching. And in return to receive the joy of realization and inner peace.
And when the innate features of the child's psyche are clear, then you can develop him in the most correct direction and be confident in his ability to cope with any life situation. Then the groundless anxiety ceases to eat the mother's heart. The soul no longer hurts. No more panic, what should an anxious mom do.
Diagnosis 3 - Chronic meaninglessness
There is no strength, no inspiration to go, do, talk, think. It is impossible to stop the flow of painful thoughts about the worthlessness, meaninglessness of the daily cycle of events. The man spins in him like a decorative rat in his drum. Why all this?
The soul of the soundman rushes about in the ringing silence of the night. A great feeling of loneliness. Empty with people and with yourself. Covers depression. People around do not know why a person's soul is languishing in pain. And how to calm this heartache?
The psychology of depression is revealed through deep awareness of the features of the sound vector. His natural aspiration is to understand the general algorithm of everything, the plan and his place in it. If this desire is not satisfied in any way, the suffering of the sound soul is inevitable.
To learn how to be a sound engineer, to make your soul feel better, watch the video:
The soul cannot hurt when it works
The soul can be sick for various reasons. But with systemic vector psychology it is obvious: we experience the strongest inner discomfort when our innate desires are not fulfilled.
What if my soul hurts? You can know exactly how to quench this thirst, cure the soul, and vaccinate it against anxiety, anxiety, and depressive states at the training on systemic vector psychology by Yuri Burlan. You can conduct a preliminary diagnosis of your own soul at free online lectures. Registration by link.
