Nervous tics in a child
In some families, adults are afraid of any child's activity. They pull back, control every step. You can not grab anything, open, touch, climb. It is often forbidden to indulge, grimace, shout and even cry. A little man in such conditions is ready to explode from energy toxicosis: he was blocked from all the ways for discharge and opportunities for the development of innate properties. He is forced to live like this for months. Until the nervous system begins to release excess tension in the most accessible way - involuntary movements and tics …
A nervous tic is a reaction of the nervous system to constant or prolonged stress. Moreover, not all children react with tics to nervous overstrain, but only children with a special mentality.
Unlike assiduous calm kids, such kids from an early age are fidgets, “energizers” without an “OFF” button. Athletic, agile, flexible in mind and body. They do not sit up for a long time on one thing, they adore changing activities and impressions. They cannot be kept up by settled adults.
You can learn more about the properties of the psyche of such children at free lectures on the skin vector.
Just imagine how such a child with irrepressible energy is ready to take off at a gallop around the apartment. Adrenaline seethes in his blood, but he freezes on the spot from his mother's deafening cry: "stop running … jumping … stay out of there … stop yelling!"
Or he has been sitting for lessons for 20 minutes, and his thoughts are far away, on the football field with the boys. A loud mother's figure loomed over her head: “Sit down exactly, whoever they say! Stop fidgeting. Until you finish your homework, you won't get up!"
Jokes with mom are bad, you have to make every effort and sit. True, it is difficult to restrain yourself: fingers begin to drum, then the leg twitches.
"Stop knocking!" - Mom is indignant. The eyelid begins to twitch …
In some families, adults are afraid of any child's activity. They pull back, control every step. You can not grab anything, open, touch, climb. It is often forbidden to indulge, grimace, shout and even cry.
A little man in such conditions is ready to explode from energy toxicosis: he was blocked from all the ways for discharge and opportunities for the development of innate properties.
He is forced to live like this for months. Until the nervous system begins to release excess tension in the most accessible way - involuntary movements and tics.
But do not think that raising such a child is permissiveness. On the contrary, in order for it to take place in adulthood, it is important from childhood to teach him to discipline, punctuality and adherence to the rules.
A clear daily routine, age-appropriate change of activity, sleep and rest relieve nervous overstrain.
For example, the body learns to secrete digestive juice by lunchtime. If you don't eat on time, the acid eats away at the walls of the stomach. So it is with energy: it is important to develop a mode of activity that is constant over time so that the energy, figuratively speaking, does not stagnate in the muscles.
The regime moments should be introduced gradually and gently. After all, an unconditional mother's "NO" will cause protest and hysteria in the child. Activity should not be blocked, but redirected to another channel, offering an alternative in a calm voice.
When mom is bad
It happens that the attitude towards the child in the family is outwardly harmonious, but he has tics.
Why is he so tense? Why doesn't it release energy outside? After all, he is not forbidden.
The state of the child is a reflection of the state of his environment, first of all, of the mother. She herself may be in a bad state or does not understand the psyche of her child, rejects his nature.
Mothers who saved their children from tics at the training "System-vector psychology" describe their condition before:
The good news is that it is enough for a mother to put her psyche in order - the child becomes easier automatically.
For 12 years, online training through mothers has helped thousands of children with a wide variety of problems, including tics, stuttering, neuroses, speech delays and even autism.