Scream louder and then I definitely won't hear
The head is the shell-abode of the sound engineer. A silent siren sounds in it - a call for evacuation. Sonic slowly sinks to the bottom. The water column softens the blows on the eardrums: “How much you can!.. - snatches of phrases sound hollow. “Once in your life you will ask…” He hears every word, but does not perceive the meaning. As if a foreign speech sounds. The sharper the phrases, the greater the thickness of the vacuum between them.
The soundman is immersed in himself. Fully focused on his thoughts, reflections. Sometimes it is not even a specific stream of thoughts, but simply an intense silence within oneself. Observing it, the sound engineer comprehends being. Everything else, especially the external world (more or less illusory in sound perception), is perceived by the sound engineer as a quantity that can be neglected. External signals come with the labels "not important", "not urgent", "come on by yourself somehow" …
A person with a visual vector appears on the stage. The spectator is contact with everyone non-stop. All life is a series of events, tightly tied to contacts with other people. To remain cut off from the world is equal to death.
As a rule, the viewer takes on contacts with the outside world, completely unloading the sound second half from these tasks. But life can be harsh, and now a situation has happened when the sound engineer was obliged to take part in the case …
Step forward - step back
The spectator makes the first step - with love, tenderness: "Call and write, we need to solve this elementary household issue - repair, sofa, loaders …" The incoming request was rejected by the sound engineer with the mark "does not matter."
The viewer is strained by the lack of reaction, but philanthropy is still strong. The second call to contact is already with the desire to stir up: "We need it, do it, it's time now!" The sound engineer rejects an application for contact with an external civilization with the note “let's do it yourself somehow” …
The viewer boils and changes intonation to irritating and disturbing: "You will do it or not, you can answer me, eh ?!" The soundwave hits the sound wave of a raised voice and intonation full of boiling. The feeling that reality is crumbling: as if the ice thickness of Lake Baikal cracked from the impact of a sound wave.
The head is the shell-abode of the sound engineer. A silent siren sounds in it - a call for evacuation. Sonic slowly sinks to the bottom. The water column softens the blows on the eardrums: “How much you can!.. - snatches of phrases sound hollow. “Once in your life you will ask…” He hears every word, but does not perceive the meaning. As if a foreign speech sounds. The sharper the phrases, the greater the thickness of the vacuum between them.
The spectator feels this and becomes even more excited: since he does not hear, you need to shout?
Contact
The moral of this fable is as follows: without understanding oneself and another matter - a pipe.
For example, we took a pair - it is sound and it is visual. Although it is worth making a reservation that situations are very different: a visual man is active, always in touch with people around him, and his woman is a sound person closed on herself. A visual parent and a child detached from the world. The visual leader and sound, out of this world, subordinates …
The skill of systemic thinking, systemic focus on the other, like magic, can solve the problem. Suppose both actors were able to disconnect from the outbursts of their own experiences and focus outside - on what the opponent feels.
The sound engineer in the bombardment by the "incoming" from the viewer saw a desire to freely solve earthly affairs - repairs, a sofa, movers … You just need to disconnect from your thoughts for a moment, actively engage in solving an everyday problem, smile at the viewer, give the joy of communicating with yourself, but adequate!
And the viewer can distract himself from his fountain of emotions and guess that if contact with an extraterrestrial sound civilization is not established, there is no point in shouting into those empty fish eyes: shout louder, then you will definitely not be heard. You need to quietly, almost in a whisper, without annoying rattling in your voice, clearly identify the task: "Listen, we need to do this right now, because …"
At the training "System-vector psychology" by Yuri Burlan, a person acquires an involuntary skill to see the psyche of other people and monitor their condition. Conflicts become less frequent, understanding more. Gradually, good triumphs over evil, and the growing contact between people gives a feeling of closeness, kinship, a sense of joy from life.
