First year of relationship. Nothing boded, or How not to miss love
At the very beginning of a relationship, a man and a woman are most often attracted to each other by smell - through pheromones.
This is how, unconsciously, a physical attraction arises between them.
This is an important component of a relationship, but it is far from the only and decisive one.
First meeting. A spark between you. Interest in the eyes. A timid touch. First kiss. An irresistible craving that makes you think only about him (about her) every second. The joy of dating. The first feeling of closeness and kinship of souls. All this is evidence that the MEETING has taken place. Two people were attracted who are at least interesting to each other. But what's next? Will the relationship develop? And is it possible to influence this process if you feel that you would like to be with this person, and maybe even live your whole life? How to create and strengthen relationships in a couple, become closer to each other and truly enjoy the happiness of harmonious relationships, is revealed in the training "System-vector psychology" by Yuri Burlan.
Natural attraction and emotional connection
At the very beginning of a relationship, a man and a woman are most often attracted to each other by smell - through pheromones. This is how, unconsciously, a physical attraction arises between them. This is an important component of a relationship, but far from the only one and not decisive.
Yuri Burlan reveals that if a bond in a couple is built only on this primary attraction, then the life of such a union is short - up to three years. This is how long the attraction given to us by nature for the birth of a child and upbringing until his first independence lasts. At this time, the man alimates the desired woman and offspring. After passing the "probationary period" natural passion goes away. If relationships are not built on the basis of this foundation, feelings fade away and after a while people discover that they have become strangers.
How to build strong relationships? Who is the "foreman" who is the "executor"? Nature has entrusted a woman with a particularly delicate feel and lace of family relationships - not many people know about this and use their abilities and properties. It is up to the woman to create an emotional connection, warm, trusting relationships in a couple, which are based on the desire to feel how a loved one lives. Find common ground. Rejoice at his successes and joys. Help and support in word and deed when he feels bad. Strive to spend time together, discussing what he saw, read, experienced, and share intimate. The simultaneous experience of feelings unites.
Building that emotional connection is the foundation of a long, happy relationship. The easiest way to do this is even before the start of sexual relations, when the attraction turns his head and the man willingly responds to the woman's revelation. But in general, it is never too late to do this.
The key to a happy and lasting relationship
Emotional connection gives a special intimacy to relationships, creates a space that only two have access to. In the mental work of creating an emotional connection, the woman leads and sets the tone, and the man follows her.
The created emotional connection is what will maintain the relationship, when the natural physical attraction subsides, it will not let this attraction fade away. After all, an emotional connection is trust in each other, openness and, at the same time, the possibility of deep relaxation in sexual relations.
For women, emotional connection is the most important condition to experience the brightest orgasm. And for both - an opportunity to understand each other's sexual needs. And get a powerful impetus to an active life, productive implementation on all fronts. This is especially important for a man. After all, it is the desired woman who brings meaning into his life, gives an impulse to achievements, the desire for maximum self-realization. This is the engine of everything. And the emotional, intimate connection in a couple makes this relationship persistent and especially deep in feelings.
Aerobatics - mutual feedback in pairs
Mutual attitudes towards each other in a couple, when the interests of the partner are put above their own, help to become even closer to each other. This is possible only when both partners put their hearts into the relationship and strive to make each other happy.
The more you invest in relationships - feelings, time, interest - the stronger they become. The more happiness awaits you. You will appreciate such a relationship, because a person appreciates what he invests a lot in. You will not let fleeting difficulties destroy them.