Nobody wants to be anal, or is it possible to change the vector?
At the exit from puberty, we get a certain level of development of vectors, which then cannot be changed. But with the implementation, the most interesting and most difficult part begins. Realization is the area of our responsibility, a manifestation of freedom of choice and will: if you are realized, then you are happy, and if not, then you experience dissatisfaction, bad states. And these states can give the erroneous feeling that it’s not you, but the fact that you got a “bad” vector.
Are you interested in human psychology and are you going to learn more about yourself and your environment? Do you think you need to prepare thoroughly first? If so, then your installation is perfectly understandable. A lot of people will agree with her, who, too, before starting something, properly prepare for a new business.
Preparation for acquiring new knowledge is a re-reading of articles in the library of the portal "System-vector psychology" and on other resources, familiarization with text and video results, viewing excerpts of lectures by Yuri Burlan. Sometimes this preparation takes years.
Reading articles, observing people around them with the help of the knowledge gained, starting to understand their properties, almost everyone at first puts in his head such a set of vectors that he dreams of.
"Systems Vector Psychology" says that a vector is an innate set of properties and desires that determines who we are, what we love, how we live, how we relate to ourselves and how we communicate with other people. On average, a person has three to five vectors. The vectors are given by nature, and their set cannot be changed.
However, with a cursory glimpse into the properties of vectors, many boys want to be brave, grand-style leaders with a urethral vector. And the girls are seductive, sweet-smelling, “take the roof off all men” as skin-visual women.
Sound scientists want to be olfactory people who rule this world by gray cardinals (when you rule something, this something can be demolished at any time and a blissful post-apocalypse will come). Many want to be oralists - crowd favorites, who certainly won't go into their pockets for a word.
Who Wants To Be An Anal?
But at the same time, it happens that people do not want to recognize some vector in themselves. For example, anal. Someone and the name seems "wrong." And some negative vector states are unpleasant. No I do not want to. Please replace it.
Therefore, the one who takes the first steps on the portal "System-Vector Psychology" Yuri Burlan may think about whether it is possible, if you try very hard, to change your vector or vectors.
Or, as an option, a person can begin to deny the vector or vectors that are obviously manifested in him, including the anal vector. This situation is familiar to many. And this is despite the fact that manifestations of this vector are striking, for example, love for order, accuracy, for the past or slowness, resentment, difficult adaptation to everything new.
This situation resembles the following story. Imagine that we are going to war. You have a sword behind you, I have a quiver of arrows and a bow. I sprinkle ashes on my head because I don't want a bow, I want a sword. At the exercises before hostilities, everyone trains, including you, and I cry in a corner over my bow, quietly hating it. And now the war. I get wounded and, dying, I think that if I had a sword, my whole life would have turned out differently …
What makes it all
The combination of vectors in us defines our whole life. But not only their combination. On the other side of the scales of our life is the development of the properties of vectors. And the most important thing is daily, I would even say, every minute implementation.
The development of the properties of the vector occurs until the age of 15-16 (the end of puberty). We have little influence on our development, we do not choose who to be born to. Development takes place under the influence of our environment: the nearest (parents) and more distant (school).
At the exit from puberty, we get a certain level of development of vectors, which then cannot be changed. But with the implementation, the most interesting and most difficult part begins. Realization is the area of our responsibility, a manifestation of freedom of choice and will: if you are realized, then you are happy, and if not, then you experience dissatisfaction, bad states. And these states can give the erroneous feeling that it’s not you, but the fact that you got a “bad” vector.
I don't want a bad vector, give a good one
Each vector has properties that can become both a blessing and a curse. Perfectionism can force a fashion designer - the owner of the anal vector - to create stunning collections of clothes season after season, which will be hunted by fashionistas all over the world, or it can prevent you from starting at least some business in your whole life for fear of not achieving this very ideal.
Attention to the smallest detail can force a writer to hone a film script to perfection for all time, or it can make a person nitpick everyone around him, noticing flaws even where they are not. And the result is not a well-known screenwriter, but a critic.
The manifestations of a vector completely depend on the degree of realization of its properties. Of great importance are the characteristics of a person's growing up, the "picked up" psychological "anchors", conscious or not. So, for example, even in a developed person with an anal vector, the once formed and unconscious resentment against the mother negatively affects the entire life scenario. Including causing the desire to replace the "bad" vector. We tend to shift responsibility for our lives to external circumstances, to other people. Especially if we do not understand what is happening to us.
What can and cannot be changed
Most of us are over 15 years old. What to do: sprinkle ashes on your head over a bow and arrow or learn how to use it and become a hero not of war, but of your own life?
Yuri Burlan at the training says that there are no bad vectors. And that only certain states of the vector can lead to this thought. After all, the main principle of human life is the principle of pleasure. We are made to have fun. And in different vectors we are able to get different pleasure: from education or family relationships - in the anal vector, from career achievements - in the skin, from the greatest love - in the visual.
The trouble is that no one ever told us who we are and what we really want. Our true desires are revealed only from a deep study of our states and the formation of systemic thinking.
In the process of acquiring the skill of systemic thinking, an accurate understanding of not only one's desires and actions, but also those of others appears. And, rethinking the past, the same person with an anal vector will understand the reasons for his resentment and the behavior of the "offender", will understand the reasons for everything that happened to him. And everything negative that was before will no longer prevent him from living a full life. The weight of resentment will fall off his shoulders in a huge block, distrust and the overwhelming influence of the past will go away.
And he will naturally begin to manifest himself in such a way in relation to the world around him that what he did not succeed before will begin to work out as if by itself, as the inner state of a person will change. And nothing else will prevent you from starting a family, establishing pair relations, becoming a professional in your favorite profession. It will never even occur to a person that he has some kind of “wrong” vector. All that people feel at this moment is only gratitude.
You can find out what really good vectors, including anal ones, at the free online lectures of Yuri Burlan "System-vector psychology". Register here.
