Why do children go missing and what to do to prevent this from happening? Part 2
When children disappear in the world, we become shy and distrustful. Losing a sense of security and safety, we find ourselves in a state of total distrust. And therefore we often try to protect our little world - children, family - from external influences. The doors of our apartments have long been metal, locks are becoming more complicated, and the fences are getting higher …
You can't be happy alone
Part 1. Where children disappear
It's hard to accept a world in which children disappear. How can you enjoy life and be carefree happy if somewhere at this moment a child is being tortured, raped or killed? Therefore, even after learning about this problem (by reading an article or a memo, watching a social video), we involuntarily try to force this information out of our consciousness. You need a high degree of stress resistance to find the strength to face the truth.
System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan provides an explanation of people's reaction to this problem. The disappearance of children, violence against them, their painful death - such events inflict a tangible blow on the psyche of not only each individual person, but also the entire society as a whole. There is an instant loss of the collective sense of security and safety, because several taboos are violated at once - the prohibition of sexual abuse of a child and the prohibition of murder.
Why do people all over the world gather in search of the missing child in hundreds and even thousands? Not only out of compassion and a desire to help. As system-vector psychology explains, under the influence of a real threat, people unconsciously strive to unite - they consolidate in order to all together confront a common misfortune. And the loss of children is a threat to all of humanity, a threat to the survival of the species.
How many great breakthroughs into the future of all mankind have been nipped in the bud in missing and lost children? Which of them would be a great scientist, a life-saving doctor or a teacher with a capital M. We will never know.
We are all in the same submarine
When children disappear in the world, we become shy and distrustful. Losing a sense of security and safety, we find ourselves in a state of total distrust. And therefore we often try to protect our little world - children, family - from external influences. The doors of our apartments have long been metal, locks are becoming more complicated, and the fences are getting higher …
Only is it possible to isolate oneself from other people and be happy outside of society? No, it won't work. It will not work because all people are connected - we are one species. People are social creatures, we cannot live outside of society. Think for a minute, and you will certainly agree with the thought: although we can enjoy delicious food, beautiful things, spacious living quarters and comfort, our most important joys and sorrows in life are connected not with the world of objects, not with nature, but with others people. A person cannot be happy alone!
At the same time, you can ignore universal human problems for as long as you like, but you won't be able to stay away. The most diverse complex issues permeate our lives, forcing us to “wiggle our paws” - to develop and move forward, to look for effective solutions. You can't hide from these problems: spreading to the whole society, they will definitely get to you.
Is the society developing or degrading?
When we think seriously about the processes and tendencies that are taking place in modern society, sometimes there is a feeling that this world has gone crazy and is sliding into the abyss. We seem to live in a civilization, but nevertheless there are kidnappings, trafficking in human beings and slavery and similar savagery exist illegally.
However, system-vector psychology in this regard can reassure: the world is not degrading, the world is developing rapidly. Movement takes place only forward and never backward. And the horrors that we are witnessing today only push us to develop faster.
And in order to move in the right direction and not make mistakes, we must first of all understand ourselves and others - learn to see ourselves and other people from the inside, to understand the human psyche. It is in the psyche that the roots of all our problems and all of our most significant breakthroughs lie.
Sadism, pedophilia, kidnapping and other heinous crimes are the result of the accumulation in society of severe shortages that accompany the transitional stage of human development. It depends on you and me, our activity, how quickly and with what degree of damage to humanity this difficult stage of development will be passed.
All together to protect the future
Children is our future. Today they run in short pants, and tomorrow they will be the people. Children are the most important thing, because new generations of people are stepping stones into the future of an entire nation and a huge country. Therefore, it is especially important to protect childhood, not to let children be harmed.
From the moment of realizing the seriousness of the problem, a reasonable question arises: how to do this - how to protect children? The whole world to go out to catch maniacs? Unfortunately, the methods of struggle that exist today are not effective. If we draw an analogy with medicine, then they are more like trying to treat the symptoms of a disease without a clear understanding of its causes.
The main assessment criterion for combating the problem of the disappearance of children should be the result. Figures are needed to evaluate the search results for missing children. For example, the Amber Alert emergency notification system for missing a child has existed in the United States since 1996. And during its existence, that is, over two decades, this system has helped find and return to families more than 500 children. Now remember the statistics: 800,000 children disappear in the United States every year. If you wish, you can calculate the degree of effectiveness of this organization. Children continue to disappear, despite the fact that in the United States, like no other country in the world, the law and order are observed, that is, the legislative and law enforcement systems are developed.
In addition to specialists, hundreds of thousands of volunteers around the world are gathering to participate in the search for missing children. Unfortunately, this does not always help - the titanic efforts do not give much results. Without understanding the psychology of the criminal, it is very difficult to calculate him, although he can be very close and with perverse pleasure to watch the fruitless attempts of the search engines. He can even participate in the search as a volunteer. Can you imagine?
However, systems thinking provides the skill of accurately recognizing the criminal. If there are more people with the skills of system-vector thinking, criminals will no longer be able to live among us as "invisible".
And if we assume that we will be able to catch all the kidnappers, rapists and murderers of children - what to do with this crowd of psychopaths? There won't be enough prisons for them. Maybe destroy them? But in this case, mistakes cannot be avoided and the innocent will certainly suffer. And all the same, new ones will come to the place of isolated or executed criminals. Because the reason for what is happening lies not in the external world, but inside the psyche. You can learn to clearly and accurately understand the psyche of another person at the training in system-vector psychology by Yuri Burlan.
Forewarned is forearmed
What will happen if we learn to calculate psychopaths, sadists, pedophiles - how will this change the situation? The fact is that a person does not come to a crime immediately. Violence against a child is the result of a long internal struggle with one's frustrations. Someone succumbs faster to their unhealthy attraction, commits a crime and is not tormented by remorse. There are others who suffer half their lives by holding back. Particularly conscious people go to see a doctor and even agree to medication support: they start drinking drugs that suppress the production of sex hormones and reduce any attraction. But there are very few of them.
Of course, when the "point of no return" is passed, nothing can be changed - it is necessary to isolate this criminal so as not to cause damage. But at first, you can help: psychoanalysis allows a person to independently see their problem and realize it, and also suggests ways to fulfill their desires in different areas of life and to realize themselves in such a way as not to experience acute shortages that lead to the emergence of forbidden desires. With the help of system-vector psychology, society can become healthier and more harmonious.
Towards a united humanity
On May 25, 2017, the Liza Alert search and rescue squad, together with the Ministry of Emergency Situations, Roskosmos, ASI and the Channel One program Wait for Me, filmed a social video: in places where children were missing in ten Russian cities, volunteers and parents posted the names of the missing in four-meter letters lead the children. The names are so large that they can be seen from space.
And again, pity is compressed into a lump in the throat, and tears come to the eyes … But is there any sense in them? No one in soulless space needs the names of our missing children. To really bring changes for the better to the world, it is necessary to return from space to earth, look inside a person and unravel the secrets of his psyche. The more people acquire systemic thinking, the less tragic children's lives, grief-stricken parents and collective fears that spread to the entire society will be.
It is important for all of us to realize that each of us is a part of a single humanity. When we harm another, we harm ourselves as well. If everyone, without exception, treats all children according to the principle “All children are ours!”, The world will certainly become a better and safer place. Perceiving the world in this way, a person is no longer capable of harming other people, especially children.
A happy, fulfilled and fulfilled person has no desire to harm children. It is possible to realize the best in yourself 100%, get rid of frustrations, understand yourself and become happy with systemic knowledge. Sign up for free online lectures on systemic vector psychology by Yuri Burlan right now!
